Greetings and welcome to another installment of Love, Twin Flame Diaries. I'm simply one among the many divine feminines navigating the journey of ascension. My purpose here is to infuse a dose of hope and comfort into the hearts of those enduring what I know can be a challenging journey. Hang in there.
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Today's entry will be brief and to the point. I want to revisit the topic of harboring anger towards your twin flame.
The inspiration for this post stems from a moment of vulnerability my divine masculine shared with me – a sensitive topic that has been with him since before we even met: his receding hairline. Despite my reassurances of finding him incredibly attractive and expressing that our connection transcends physical appearance, this remains a sensitive area for him.
This condition is beyond his control, a genetic inheritance from his bald father. When he approached me seeking advice on whether to embrace a shaved head, my response mirrored that of any loving partner. To paraphrase Love Actually (not verbatim, but you get the idea), I assured him that he would always be beautiful to me, regardless.
Curious about his reaction?
Firstly, he took the plunge and shaved his head. The outcome? A blend of Jason Statham and Conor McGregor with a Spanish flair. My twin possesses the unique quality of being blissfully unaware of his own attractiveness. In public, I keenly notice other women admiring him, sparking a protective instinct in me. Twin flame connections transcend possessiveness; this profound soul-level bond encompasses far more. Yet, a healthy degree of territoriality is natural in any relationship, and I believe it has its place in ours.
So, he opted for a shaved head.
Surprisingly, he became quite irritable with me, reacting strongly to my expressions of deep affection and assurance that my love for him remains unwavering, regardless of his physical appearance.
I found myself dissecting the situation in terms of energy dynamics. As a twin flame, I consistently remind myself that these conflicts often circle back to the masculine and feminine energies we each embody, along with our 3D templating.
Viewing the situation through that lens:
My masculine side exposes vulnerability, and I respond with nurture and support. This encouragement empowers him to take necessary actions, yet he reacts by lashing out at me.
What does this behavior indicate regarding the interplay of divine feminine and divine masculine energy? Well, it makes sense. As I've emphasized before, a twin flame may not always fulfill your desires, but they undoubtedly provide what you truly need.
Reflecting on a similar situation with roles reversed: during a fall visit to France, I combined spending time with my twin flame and exploring potential universities. Our backgrounds are diverse – different nationalities, personalities, and lifestyles. Being an American and him residing in France, like many other twin flame couples, we've navigated the complexities of this cross-cultural union. Fortunately, my career allows for extensive travel, making it feasible.
After a day together during this trip, I intended to visit universities the next day but desired to spend it with him instead. Considering the short timeframe, he advised me to prioritize the university tours. In response, I became somewhat cheeky, almost immature. I questioned his authority to treat me like a child, implying I knew my priorities. In his characteristic calm manner, he soothed me, defusing the situation in a way only he could. Upon reflection, it feels almost magical – this inherent ability we share to "handle" each other. We serve as each other's pillars, even amid what appears to be a heated disagreement.
Anger Manifests in Both Mundane and Significant Events Within the Twin Flame Union.
Let's delve into what's occurring.
Your divine feminine and divine masculine energies are actively expressing themselves and seeking equilibrium. Have you ever felt as if you and your twin flame were mere actors in a play, with no control over the unfolding drama? It's as if the universe or some external force is orchestrating the movements of all the pieces on the chessboard, and you're simply along for the ride.
As ancient souls, you embody the Shakti/Shiva and Yin/Yang energies that govern the universe. The twin bearing predominantly feminine energy embodies qualities such as nurturing, everlasting patience, profound love, motherhood, flexibility, and emotional support. Conversely, the twin embodying mainly masculine energy plays the role of protector, representing sturdy consistency, protection, fatherhood, organization, and observation.
Examine any conflict within the twin flame journey, and you'll discern the interplay of masculine and feminine energies attempting to find balance as the root cause.
Remember, akin to the tarot, the empress and the emperor can assume reversed positions. In these instances, the positive attributes associated with the empress (creativity, abundance, care) transform into negative personifications, such as overbearingness, mood swings, and anger (Kali energy). Similarly, the emperor's positive traits (self-assuredness, leadership, confidence) become negatives like being domineering, controlling, and overly analytical.
It's an ongoing struggle to balance these energies. Understand what's transpiring, and take compassionate action while navigating these forces.
Your 3D emotions, triggers, and patterns are surfacing, and you must allow them to.
We all enter this universe as blank slates, devoid of habitual abuse, dependencies, or major triggers. However, as we age, experiences—both positive and negative—from family, friends, and the outside world shape who we become.
Consider my twin flame's vulnerability regarding his receding hairline. Positive qualities inherited from his father and Spanish cultural background, such as pride, hard work, protection, tenderness, and confidence, coexist with less desirable traits like his dad's temper and receding hairline. The twin flame journey serves to release these negative patterns and triggers that no longer serve us, allowing us to retain the positive attributes while shedding the insecurities and temper.
Reflecting on my own lineage, I've inherited admirable qualities like pride, confidence in my intelligence and femininity, as well as traits of loving nurture, care, and faith. However, I also carry the fiery nature that clashes with the hot-headedness of my divine masculine, passed down through ancestral lines.
The twin flame journey aims to elevate humanity to unconditional love and restore awareness of our divinity. Consequently, those 3D emotions and old triggers must be relinquished.
At last, Assigning Anger to Its Appropriate Space.
The whirlwind of anger and intense emotions can have a lasting impact. The optimal approach is to promptly allocate it to its rightful place. Remember to find humor in the situation and aim to resolve conflicts before bedtime. Given your awareness of your twin's patterns and the negative traits stemming from their upbringing, experiences, and background, opt for compassion in your interactions with both them and yourself
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