Greetings, and welcome to another installment of my blog, Love, Twin Flame Diaries. Allow me to introduce myself as one of several divine feminists navigating the challenging journey of ascension. My purpose here is to infuse a sense of hope and comfort into the hearts of those on this transformative path, which I acknowledge can be quite demanding. Stay resilient.
Many divine feminines can relate to the profound ache, pain, frustration, and fear experienced when the divine masculine withdraws, engages in conflict, or adopts a remote silence. Last night, following a candid admission, I succumbed to a PMS hormonal fit (yes, it happens). Similar to numerous occasions in the past, my Divine Masculine (DM) found himself observing as I spiraled, eventually stepping in to provide stability with a serene Capricorn demeanor. When I'm the one grounding, guiding him back to tranquility seems like common sense. Yet, when I'm in turmoil and My Rock restores stability, I ponder how we coped before knowing each other.
This is precisely why the initial physical encounter with your twin flame in the 3D realm is often referred to as "recognition" or "reunion." It holds; your energies have been intertwined on a soul level since before your earthly existence.
I share these thoughts not to depict us as two individuals entangled in a codependent dance. Quite the opposite. By now, we should all understand that the twin flame union transcends old negative relationship patterns like codependency, abuse, and misogyny.
What I'm conveying is the narrative of two remarkably resilient individuals who have confronted adversity both separately and together. Despite the challenges, we manage to exchange jokes throughout the day, navigating lives that, while not "easy," are financially stable and characterized by good physical health. We each harbor our version of vulnerabilities and triggers, intimately aware of the other's blind spots.
Yet, as the saying goes, when you genuinely love someone and they reciprocate, their ability to inflict emotional pain surpasses that of anyone else.
Having expressed this, I'd like to delve into a topic rarely discussed among twin flamers—perhaps because it delves into darker territory. Along this journey, have you ever found yourself thinking:
"This is utterly terrifying!"?
Indeed, it is. My DM struggles the most to admit this, being a traditionalist and the male counterpart in our relationship. In his own words, he has previously expressed sentiments like "This is painful," "You are a handful," and "This is burdensome." Yet, amidst those moments of absolution and unwavering comfort, some words cut deep, such as "I'm here."
As a woman (and American) partnered with a French and tactful man, I prefer to express what I feel: "You're acting insensitively!" "I love you so much it's painful." "I can't cope with you right now."
"This is scary."
Navigating the twin flame rollercoaster can be an intimidating journey, and it's perfectly acceptable to acknowledge that. For us, and I believe for many other twin flame and deep soul connection couples, let me articulate the most tangible reasons behind the fear.
Outlined below are five reasons why the complete merging of Divine Masculine and Divine Feminine is a daunting prospect:
Obvious! It's a merger!
It's alchemy in action—taking two distinct beings and melding them into a singular entity. It encompasses all the commitments of marriage vows, such as "in sickness and in health" and "for richer or for poorer," but in real-time! This union is alchemical, and there's a surreal sense that with a blink, I might look in the mirror and witness the Shiva/Shakti half-face transformation. In essence, we are becoming the same person, a notion that amuses me.
You are spiritually and romantically (if in a romantic union) EXPOSED.
My heavens, you lay bare each other's virtues, flaws, and imperfections. It's a state of complete vulnerability before one another. Fortunately, if you and your twin flame are even slightly awakened, your ego refrains from exploiting their vulnerabilities for devious purposes. However, in the event of a heated argument, potential harm exists unless both individuals are spiritually mature. Even when both parties are genuinely enlightened, the intensity of the moment may lead to unforeseen consequences. Embrace the positive aspects of this exposure, steering clear of ego-driven games—that's my only advice on the matter.
Telepathy becomes incredibly daunting at times.
Even as we approach our third year next year, the experience remains genuinely frightening. It unfolds like scenes from a movie, persisting throughout the day with a constant flow of emotions, both positive and negative. During particularly tumultuous moments, you sense it building up.
"You man, me woman. You Tarzan, me Jane."
In the context of gender roles and the evolving dynamics between men and women for a new generation, my sisters, mother, and I engaged in a thought-provoking discussion within our exclusive mother-daughter group text. My sister articulated something so profound that I find it necessary to share it verbatim, allowing you to ponder its depth for a considerable duration: "...Yes, because we must NOT emasculate them (men, especially romantic partners, but also the divine masculine collective) in the process of guiding them. We are not their mothers, but we must guide and nurture them like mothers. We are not their teachers, but we must instruct them on how to treat us (women or the divine feminine collective). Then 'trust' the process. They (men or the divine masculine) will NEVER do it like us (women or the divine feminine) because they are not us. But, [we must] allow them to grow and learn for themselves."
Mic-drop moment. The times are changing, and across generations, men (or the divine masculine collective) and women (or the divine feminine collective) are rediscovering ways to grow and love—shedding negative patterns handed down through generations that no longer serve us. Positive changes are unfolding, but as they do, it might feel like navigating a tumultuous storm for a while. It's literally as if the ground is shifting beneath us.
Lastly, what I find most intimidating is simply...
The magnitude of the love.
Being in a Twin Flame union, especially one that extends into a romantic relationship, is one of the most exhilarating, incredible, and blessed experiences you'll ever encounter in your life. Yet, as it is incredibly powerful, profound, and deep, it can trigger massive stage fright at times. It's perfectly okay to feel scared and to admit that it's an intimidating journey, even for you, divine masculine.
It can become eerily reminiscent of a Freddy Vs. Jason's scenario, I understand, folks. There's vulnerability, the dismantling of ingrained generational and societal patterns, and the presence of an extremely masculine (Yang) personality alongside an equally extreme feminine (Yin) personality. Telepathy permeates your entire day. There's the intense experience of kundalini rising and sustained sexual potency (let's leave that one aside, haha!). Sometimes, children are involved. Other times, there are long-distance or challenging circumstances, resembling a David and Goliath-type situation.
Regardless of the unique and sometimes daunting challenges you may face, I want to assure you that both of you were created to love each other in a way that no one else can. You can confront the battle against outdated negative patterns that no longer serve love and life. You can rise above the temporary fear that may creep in when you hold this precious human life in your hands.
Allow me to pose a question.
Think about anything in your past that was genuinely worth your time and effort, something you ardently desired and invested your all to achieve. Did it not become a bit intimidating at times? And when you ultimately succeeded, didn't the sense of accomplishment far outweigh the initial fears?
Well, your twin flame union mirrors that experience. It might pose challenges. It might induce a touch of fear. But let me tell you, the rewards are boundless.
Stay resilient.
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