Although individuals possess an inherent spiritual essence, they also possess various tangible characteristics in the physical realm that create a disconnect from their souls. In previous articles, I have discussed concepts such as ego, fear, and pride that contribute to the separation of twin flames. Today, I will address a concept that appears physical but is fundamentally spiritual in the twin flame journey.
Refusing the twin flame connection.
Rejecting a twin flame does not imply a lack of desire for one another. The issue lies not in the physical separation of a couple but in the rejection of the twin flame journey within oneself. Can this rejection be possible? How would it make us feel? How can we prevent exhaustion from this journey? In this article, we will explore the answers to these questions.
What exactly is twin flame rejection and how does it occur?
The twin flame journey is an arduous and weighty path. During this journey, we start anew, rediscovering every aspect of ourselves as if constructing a skyscraper from scratch. Regardless of age, dismantling familiar thoughts and life patterns is no easy task. Our bodies yearn for the familiarity of the past, while our souls possess the strength to endure everything. However, our bodies can resist the intense energy emanating from our souls, making it difficult to overcome the clinging ego self.
Twin flame rejection begins when one of the individuals embarking on the twin flame journey becomes trapped in their ego self, feeling incapable of embracing the messages conveyed by their core self.
We resist understanding and accepting the messages perceived by our souls, which are transmitted from our higher selves to our physical selves. In essence, twin flame rejection is a battle waged against our souls. Rejecting a twin flame is far more agonizing than breaking up with an ordinary romantic partner. One cannot simply forget their twin flame by avoiding their photos or avoiding encounters. The spirit of the twin flame resides within, and attempting to sever this connection will disrupt the balance of our chakras.
During the runner and chaser phase, when one of the individuals rejects their twin flame, they believe they can escape from it entirely. However, in reality, that person is only fleeing from themselves, the shadows they are unable to confront, and the profound love they share.
What emotions arise when we reject our twin flame?
I have often attempted to reject my twin flame on a spiritual level because I believed all my efforts were in vain. However, there were certain things I failed to comprehend. My endeavors did not depend on their acknowledgment of me. Rather, they were built upon acknowledging aspects of myself that I had previously disregarded. With each step forward, my self-love grew stronger. I came to realize that I did not require external factors to shine my light, to express my talents. So, why did I persistently try to banish the presence of my twin flame from my soul and my life?
Because I carried an unresolved pain. I was whole as an individual, but by rejecting a part of my soul, it felt as though my powers were suspended in limbo. You might be familiar with that sensation—a meaningless ache in your stomach and heart, akin to digestive issues. However, the unbalanced energy originating from the heart chakra affects all other chakras as well. Hence, my spirit served as a warning: "You shine brightly on your own, but you came into this world to radiate alongside another star."
Our twin flame is our partner, our mirror, with whom we share our life purpose and soul. Denying their existence, whether with or without their physical presence, amounts to betraying our souls. When we reject ourselves, our bodies react. After all, the body cannot thrive without the soul.
How can we overcome the feeling of rejecting our twin flame?
Not resisting ego dissolution
We should closely examine the concept of ego dissolution. The thoughts that lead us to reject our twin flame stem from our wounded inner child, who fears being hurt. Our wounded child is easily deceived by our ego self because the ego is well aware of our vulnerabilities. Since childhood, our ego self has shaped our upbringing. Now, as adults, we strive for independence.
Distinguishing the feeling of rejection from 'inadequacy'
Allowing ourselves to surrender to the love we feel naturally dissipates feelings of rejection. The love within our hearts softens us. "Rejection" is a potent trigger that also activates feelings of unworthiness. Therefore, we must remind ourselves at every opportunity that we are already "whole." Rejecting our twin flame does not grant us freedom or put an end to our suffering. Similarly, even if our hearts shatter when we experience rejection from our twin flame, it does not diminish our completeness. It all transpires within our universe. Overcoming this illusion enables us to make more effective progress on the twin flame journey.
In conclusion, your twin flame's ego is not something you can alter. If you frequently find yourself rejecting your twin flame internally, it is crucial to examine how your ego impedes your spiritual growth. Nurturing your awakening and pursuing self-fulfillment will elevate both you and your twin flame simultaneously. Therefore, the only solution is to continue traversing the path toward our authentic selves without complaint.
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