Each twin undergoes numerous transformations throughout their connection, challenging their souls to grow and reach their highest potential. This process serves to fulfill their missions and purposes both on Earth and in each other's lives. The relationship experiences frequent changes and expansions.
The intensity of the connection often leads one of the twins to flee, a phase commonly known as the runner/chaser stage. Prolonged periods of togetherness may present difficulties.
Twin flames establish a connection that transcends physical proximity, as telepathy and empathy become common between them. They can tune into each other's thoughts and often find themselves texting, calling, or emailing simultaneously, even finishing each other's sentences. Synchronicity and uncanny parallels frequently occur in their daily lives and events.
During the runner/chaser stage, as mentioned earlier, one of the twins may become overwhelmed and distance themselves from the union. This departure leaves the other twin feeling devastated and perplexed. It may seem counterintuitive that someone would run away from the best thing that could ever happen to them. Instead, they actively pursue experiences that pale in comparison and only cause them pain. They may return to old destructive relationships and habits.
You might think that they don't care about you or love you as deeply as you love them. You may even believe that this person hates you or considers you unworthy of them. However, if this person is your twin flame, the true reason they have run away is fear. They are not running from you; they are running away from themselves.
Certain aspects of themselves are disliked, and they feel insecure that you will reject them, just as they are rejecting themselves. They fear that you will eventually reject them, thereby "proving" their supposed unworthiness. They interpret such rejection as confirmation and evidence that they are not good enough for you.
Furthermore, if the relationship were to fail in any way, they would perceive it as punishment from the universe. They would view it as the universe taking away their love because they don't deserve it. They believe they are not worthy of receiving the deepest form of love possible, which your connection symbolizes.
Many twin flames run away due to the fear of love being taken away from them, reflecting their lack of self-esteem and self-love. The fear of not belonging or being accepted is one of humanity's greatest fears. Your twin flame is running away from judgment, the fear of being judged as unworthy.
Their subconscious logic is that by running away from you, they can prevent you from truly getting to know them and their flaws. Therefore, if you reject them while they are running, it won't be because of who they are. They never allowed you to get close enough to judge them based on their true selves. If you were to walk away, they would understand it as a result of their behavior, not their inherent worth.
For them, rejection feels safer based on their cold and distant behavior, which are observable actions. It feels safer than getting close to you and risking the possibility that you won't like their essence—their soul, the real them. The love between twin flames is intense, unlike anything they have ever experienced before. They become terrified of reaching for that love and having it taken away.
They fear being delusional and doubt the reality of this love or believe it is too good to be true. They are afraid of investing their belief in something that could turn out to be an illusion. They don't want to become dependent on such blissful love if it ends up being taken away or proven to be mere fantasy.
The intensity of these emotions becomes overwhelming, and their only way of coping is to shut themselves off, which includes shutting you off as well. They feel engulfed by emotions, making it impossible to focus on life. They try to refocus and rediscover themselves because they feel lost in it all. However, occasionally, they long to experience that intensity again, which is when they come back around. But once it becomes too much again, they retreat and revert to being distant and aloof.
If this all-consuming connection were to be taken away, what would happen then? How would they cope? They know that if they allow themselves to fully immerse in the connection and get close to you, there would be no returning to "normal life."
Therefore, they try to protect themselves and revert to what they consider "normal." This way, if you were to leave, they would still have something left and could pretend that their time with you was nothing extraordinary. They refuse to let themselves experience real life with you because they know they wouldn't be able to handle the loss if you were to leave. They believe they wouldn't be able to bear losing you or the intense love they would fully surrender to.
This stage often triggers what is known as "The night of the soul." Understandably, it can be frightening and excruciatingly painful when you're unsure about the state of your Twin Flame Union, feeling a loss of control, and lacking comprehension of what is happening. I will delve into this topic further in another article.
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