Have you ever experienced such a strong attraction to someone that it felt as if they were tugging at your heartstrings? We often use the term "soulmate" loosely, similar to how we throw around the term "twin flame intense attraction," but the latter can genuinely feel like a pulling sensation on your heart.
Twin flame intense attraction refers to a spiritual and overwhelming connection between two halves of the same soul. It's an emotional rollercoaster with a constant magnetic pull towards each other.
This type of connection can sometimes scare one twin away from their partner if they're not ready to handle such a deep bond, which we often refer to as "twin flame soul shock." Therefore, this intense attraction doesn't always progress as we would like during the early stages of a twin flame journey.
So, why is the attraction between twin flames so powerful? How can you recognize this kind of attraction, and how does it contribute to your journey towards union?
Why is the Attraction Between Twin Flames So Strong?
Unfortunately, this is one of those situations where you simply know it when you feel it. It's challenging to put into words how overwhelmingly intense the attraction to your twin flame will be compared to a "normal" two-dimensional relationship.
This goes beyond mere physical attraction. It involves two parts of the same soul reconnecting with each other.
The twin flame relationship transcends "normal" attraction or a soul mate connection. The intensity of the attraction between twin flames overwhelms the senses of soulmates, and it's an experience that is extremely difficult to describe.
It's like a peculiar blend of feeling at home and secure while being irresistibly aroused at the same time.
This magnetic attraction constantly draws the twin flames together, even if they are physically distant and not actively maintaining contact or acknowledging each other.
It's an experience that can't be compared to anything you've previously encountered.
Recognizing the Signs of Twin Flame Intense Attraction
I may have mentioned this before, but there are no fixed rules on this journey. Your journey will be unique, different from mine or anyone else's. However, there are some key signs you can watch out for.
Beyond the Physical
First and foremost, there is an emotional attachment that surpasses anything you've experienced before in your life. You may find yourself inexplicably happy, safe, and motivated when you're around them.
While I've previously discussed the physical aspect of twin flame attraction, it's crucial to remember that this connection is not solely based on physical attraction. It propels both of you forward, and that energy should be present almost immediately, even if you don't realize right away that you are twin flames.
Heightened Energy
When twin flames first meet, it's not always an instant love connection. You might even dislike each other initially. However, what is almost universally present is a heightened energy between the two of you.
This is the twin flame connection building up from a distance before you come together physically. You have been communicating on a deeper level even before meeting in person, so think of it as a static charge gradually accumulating.
The intensity of this energy will surpass anything you've ever felt before. It's not just an emotional attachment; it's the culmination of a magnetic attraction that finally unites you (potentially after multiple lifetimes).
I can assure you that your twin flame also senses this energy. However, depending on where they are in their journey, they may not be able to acknowledge or fully comprehend the attraction they're experiencing.
Twin Flame Attraction vs. "Normal" Attraction
We have discussed twin flames about other relationships. We have covered topics such as a twin flame being married, which often involves some form of physical attraction to someone else.
It's entirely possible to be physically attracted to a false twin flame. I've heard many stories from people on their journey, and this is not uncommon.
However, you will know the difference, as will your twin flame. When I describe it as intense attraction, it's because the word "attraction" doesn't fully capture it. Once you meet your twin flame, you will never feel the same kind of attraction toward anyone else.
It feels as if you and your twin flame are magnets for each other, unable to get enough of one another. Sure, you can feel physical infatuation for someone (especially in the early stages of a relationship), but this attraction goes beyond that and doesn't diminish over time.
Does Your Twin Feel This Attraction?
In the early stages, it may not be apparent that your twin flame feels the same level of attraction. I can assure you that they're feeling something, although they may not fully understand it.
As time goes on and you both become more comfortable in your relationship (which often happens when twin flames finally meet physically), they will likely start to open up. As they continue their spiritual development, they will begin to grasp this energy better, and the attraction will become more and more evident.
Are You Always Attracted to Your Twin Flame?
I've spoken to twin flames who feel asexual and don't actively seek a physical connection with their twin. In my experience, this is uncommon, but it doesn't mean you're not on a twin flame journey.
The intense attraction is part of the journey toward union. Sometimes, it doesn't happen instantaneously and may manifest later on (potentially even years after your initial meeting), or perhaps you're both content without a physical aspect to that connection.
The intense attraction contributes to the journey toward union, but it doesn't always manifest instantly. This attraction goes beyond simple physical desires. Therefore, don't judge your twin flame journey solely based on whether or when you feel attracted to them.
Managing Twin Flames' Intense Attraction
The intense attraction between twin flames can be a double-edged sword in the early stages of your journey.
It's challenging not to get swept away by the emotions and let go of control. Trusting your twin flame, even when that trust might be blind due to the intense focus on each other, is easier said than done at times.
There will be moments when one or both of you might feel overwhelmed, and this can manifest in various ways. The attraction is often what causes a twin flame to repel and initiate a phase of separation when they're not prepared for it.
It's not uncommon for the twin who starts feeling uncomfortable during this intense attraction phase to begin running away. This may come across as a lack of commitment or trust. However, it's their way of regaining control and creating space, which they might need at that time to heal from past experiences.
Often, the runner won't even be able to explain to themselves why they're running, but they may try to rationalize it based on their worldview.
The twin who still experiences intense attraction (and understands the path you're both on) will feel it deeply and often have an emotional response. They may question what's wrong with themselves or the relationship, feeling inadequate for the other person. This can lead to feelings of shame, which can then transform into anger and resentment toward themselves and the situation.
There are many reasons why a phase of separation can be painful, and the loss of physical connection can be high on that list. How you handle this phase can determine how quickly you progress to the next stage.
However, the intensity isn't all negative; it can also be harnessed to further your journey.
Utilizing the Magnetic Pull Toward Union
While the attraction can pose challenges in the early stages, you can also use this magnetic pull to guide your twin flame on their journey.
Assuming you're the more spiritually aware twin (since you're at least familiar with the term "twin flame"), you can use this pull to support your mirror soul through difficult times. However, it's crucial to approach this with care and not abuse the connection to manipulate them or hasten the process toward union.
This must be done delicately, as it can easily backfire.
Allow them to have their space when they need it and respect their boundaries. This attraction isn't just about lust; it means they're drawn to you to feel safe and emotionally supported. Treat that trust with utmost care.
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