I need you to fully grasp the meaning behind the statement that twin flames who run will eventually return. I have mentioned this before, but it seems to have confused some people, so let me clarify.
When twin flames choose to run, there is a reason behind their actions. While it is true that they will eventually come back, it doesn't mean you should simply wait passively for their return. Instead, seize every opportunity that arises, or else they are likely to run away again.
You may have heard me discuss the pitfall of waiting exclusively for your twin flame, and this is precisely what I want you to avoid. The more your twin flame runs, the fewer chances there are for you to achieve union in this lifetime. Therefore, we must understand how to make it work.
If you haven't already, I highly recommend reading my guide on the feelings of the twin flame runner. You must comprehend why your twin flame is behaving this way.
Why are they running? I strongly suggest taking a moment to understand soul shock and the challenges your runner is experiencing. Understanding is one of the most crucial aspects of being able to support them.
As I have mentioned numerous times before, the twin flame runner needs to heal and work on themselves to be prepared for the union. Understanding the twin flame runner's perspective involves recognizing that they are not intentionally trying to hurt you.
Similar to you, your twin flame has endured significant pain and suffering, which is driving them to run. This could be due to their current life circumstances, past experiences, or a combination of both. In summary, they are running because they are not yet ready.
It may seem baffling that they would willingly subject themselves to further emotional turmoil, but this is the nature of twin flames—they alternate between one partner undergoing deep healing while the other focuses on self-care until the time comes for both to reunite. This pattern repeats itself time and time again.
The separation phase between twin flames typically necessitates healing and reconciliation with their past.
It is about understanding and, at times, accepting the fact that these events occur for a reason. Twin flames come together not only due to their instant connection and love but also because there is a greater purpose at play. They are running to prepare themselves for what lies ahead.
How long before the twin flame runner returns? It is difficult to provide an exact timeframe because numerous factors can influence the duration of the twin flame runner phase. There are no fixed rules in this regard. The runner phase can last anywhere from a few days to several years, from hours to decades. Based on my interactions with thousands of individuals on their journey, I have never observed any consistent patterns or time limits.
If the separation is caused by trauma or loss, it may take longer for your twin flame to heal and return because they need time to process their emotions. The same applies to any form of betrayal.
This is not something that can be rushed. Even if it appears simple to you, there is still a reason why your twin is running.
I acknowledge that this may be challenging. Scratch that. I understand that this is indeed difficult.
However, I can assure you that the journey is worthwhile and the hardships are worth enduring. The pain of the runner/chaser phase will pale in comparison to what awaits you.
The important thing is not how long they run, but rather that we focus on the right things in the meantime. You only have a limited number of opportunities in this lifetime, and the sooner you handle them correctly, the sooner you can conclude this phase of the journey.
Will they always come back? The answer is both yes and no. While the strength of your bond may seem evident to you, there is still a reason why your twin is running. I have already discussed the possibility of twin flame failure, and although twin flames are destined for long-term union, they may still fail to achieve it in this lifetime. Therefore, whenever they do return to you, make sure to seize every opportunity.
Of course, I cannot speak for your specific twin flame. However, based on my interactions with many individuals on this journey, I have witnessed consistent patterns time and time again. Runners repeatedly return at various stages of the journey.
This is because twin flames who run are seeking healing. They are not permanently departing, or they would have done so already. It is a natural process of creating space and addressing their inner healing before fully re-engaging in the relationship. Thus, if you can assist them in this process, it will benefit both parties.
It is up to you to be prepared for their return when it happens.
Accelerating the runner's return: I have heard numerous suggestions by now, from attempting to provoke them with anger or lust to appealing to their emotions to hasten the twin flame runner's return.
There is no definitive A-Z approach, but I do have a more comprehensive guide on how to attract your twin flame back. However, there are a few key points to remember:
Exercise patience with your twin flame and strive to understand their emotions, even if they don't immediately make sense to you.
Be honest and open about what is happening in your life, without trying to manipulate them. Given the 5D communication shared between the two of you, manipulation will only confuse them and slow down the process.
If your twin flame is merely running without actively seeking a way back, the responsibility falls on you to be prepared for their return.
Maintain an open heart without placing expectations or demands on their time. While it may be easy for you to assume they see things as you do (and they probably do on some level), they may not be as spiritually aware as you are.
If your twin flame runner requires assistance in their healing journey to reopen their heart and feel comfortable being vulnerable with you again, be supportive. Be open to helping them if needed, but remember to remain focused on your journey as well.
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