The discussion surrounding twin flame separation is prevalent due to its prolonged nature, causing emotional, physical, and spiritual pain. It resembles a unique breakup experience and can disrupt daily life. Twin flame separation is a crucial, albeit difficult, aspect of the journey. Unfortunately, many individuals misunderstand it and wait for their twin to understand it, instead of comprehending its true meaning. If both parties are in separation, it signifies that they are not yet ready for union. Although it may be disheartening, it provides an opportunity for personal growth and improvement.
I don't advocate dwelling in the separation phase. The twin flame journey is exceptionally rare, and we should not waste the chance to achieve union with our twins. When I discuss separation, my intention is always to assist you in overcoming it. To do so, we must first comprehend what it entails.
What Is Twin Flame Separation?
Twin flame separation varies greatly for each individual, similar to other aspects of the twin flame path. It could involve physical distance across the world, not having met in person yet, or your twin flame being in a romantic relationship with someone else after previously being in a relationship with you.
Regardless of the specific circumstances, it is not a competition, and we must approach separation in the same manner.
The separation stage typically involves a twin flame runner and a twin flame chaser. It is the most challenging and triggering part of the journey, encompassing personal, emotional, and spiritual growth. This phase entails shadow work, resolving karma, and addressing behaviors, patterns, and emotions with lower frequencies.
At times, these roles may switch, causing you to alternate between being the runner and the chaser. I recommend referring to my guide on understanding the twin flame runners' emotions.
I understand the pain associated with the separation phase, and I empathize with you. However, it is essential to view it not as an opportunity to wallow in pain but as a chance for personal development.
Depending on where you are in your journey, the separation phase can be more or less triggering in various ways. It can also be uplifting and inspiring as you make progress. Since you can only focus on your growth, you have the opportunity to engage in soul-searching, and meditation, and seek guidance and support through crystals, gemstones, or other means.
The purpose of separation is to allow twin flames to grow and reach the frequency of union as part of their ascension process. It involves immense pain for twin flames but leads to substantial growth and, ultimately, union.
I am well aware of how difficult, frustrating, and painful the separation stage can be. While I hope to provide guidance and support to help you through it, I must emphasize that there is no quick fix. What I can assure you is that the journey is worthwhile, and I can offer you a twin flame reading for guidance.
How Long Does Twin Flame Separation Last?
Simply put, the separation stage lasts throughout the entire twin flame journey until the union is achieved. Consequently, you and your twin flame will spend the majority of your time in separation.
The separation dynamic typically involves two roles: the runner and the chaser. The runner seeks to delay or avoid progress on the journey, while the chaser embraces and surrenders to the journey and their life purpose of achieving union.
Many people associate the separation stage with a breakup in the twin flame relationship. However, this only represents a small portion of the entire stage of being separated as twin flames. Depending on the relationship blueprint you are experiencing (romantic, friendship, familial, mentorship) during your human experiences, you can still be in separation even if you interact or have some form of relationship.
It is crucial to understand that while in separation, the twin flame soul bond remains intact. The energy cord keeps you connected to each other throughout numerous lifetimes, and this connection never breaks. However, it does not necessarily mean that you will be together for the majority of the journey. Nevertheless, the twin flame love continues unabated, even during the separation stage.
What Does it Feel Like During Twin Flame Separation?
Experiencing twin flame separation entails various symptoms, some of which are common, while others may be unique to individuals. It is important to consider these symptoms as guidelines rather than strict rules.
The Frustration of No Contact
During the phase of no contact in your separation journey, several scenarios may occur. It covers situations where you have not yet made contact with your twin flame, whether in the spiritual or 3D realm. It also includes instances where you had a brief contact but are no longer interacting. Additionally, it encompasses periods of intentionally taking a break from each other, where one or both decide to cease contact.
Regardless of which phase of no contact you are in, it often leads to intense frustration for both twin flames, including the runner. Depending on the roles each of you play in the dynamic, you may encounter a range of lower vibrational emotions, behaviors, and patterns. These challenges provide an opportunity for you to confront and heal them.
The Blues of Separation
Feeling blue is a significant aspect of the separation phase. It involves experiencing sadness, isolation, and a sense of being misunderstood. Longing and yearning for your twin flame also tend to overwhelm you.
The sadness goes deep within your soul, and it can be easy to feel overwhelmed by it at times. During such moments, reaching out to others who are on a similar journey or who offer support within the collective can be crucial. Allowing the blues to dominate can lower your frequency and hinder your overall journey.
Struggling with and Overcoming Rejection
One of the strongest emotional burdens in the runner and chaser dynamic is the feeling of rejection, which both twin flames experience to varying degrees.
The runner may feel rejected regarding their destiny and life purpose, while the chaser often feels rejected by their twin flame, who may be in denial about their divine purpose. Both individuals need to address and heal these feelings of rejection as part of their growth process.
Vivid Dreams of Your Twin Flame
During the separation phase, it is common to have vivid dreams where twin flames often meet. Dreams provide a respite from the actual separation, offering a sense of relief, joy, and fulfillment. However, the contrast with the reality of the 3D journey can trigger lower vibrational reactions.
Intense Thoughts of Your Twin Flame
Thinking about each other is a significant part of the separation process. While your 3D mind may be occupied with various thoughts, the underlying thought of your twin flame persists in the background. You can sense when you are thinking of each other.
Exploring Twin Flame Telepathy
As your energies harmonize, you may experience twin flame telepathy to a greater extent. Initially, this may be overwhelming, but over time, it can bring great comfort whenever your twin flame reaches out to you through a telepathic connection.
As you progress along your journey and deepen your twin flame relationship, the telepathy can become stronger and more intentional. Through this connection, you can feel each other's emotions and hear each other's thoughts, strengthening your bond and reflecting your spiritual connection.
Anticipating Twin Flame Union
As you move forward, at least one of the twin flames may feel a growing anticipation for their union. The closer it gets, the more signs of reunion they may notice, increasing their level of anticipation.
Anticipation can occasionally become overwhelming. Ironically, the lesson of patience is one of the most challenging to learn during the human experience. The sense that you will soon be together can make you feel impatient for the union to finally happen. Your soul has been yearning for it across lifetimes, and your 3D human self has likely been eagerly awaiting its occurrence.
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