TWIN FLAME HEALING: UNDERSTANDING THE PROCESS

 

Over the years, I've received many questions, and one of the most common ones is about what happens when the chaser moves on. Does the runner notice? Do they do anything to change their mind? And if they do, does the runner even care?

Like many aspects of the twin flame journey, the answer varies. There are a few possibilities:

In the worst-case scenario, neither the runner nor the chaser takes any further action. Union fails in this lifetime, and both will have to wait for another incarnation to reunite.

The chaser might move on for a while, only to eventually return to chasing.

The runner might notice the change and shift into the role of the chaser.

When the runner moves on, it can stir up many emotions and lead to different outcomes. This shift may represent a significant turning point, such as personal growth or new relationships for both twin flames.

Reasons Behind Moving On

The runner may move on for various reasons. Overwhelming doubt, frustration, or the intensity of the twin flame connection often prompts a break. The runner might feel trapped by the depth of the bond and seek freedom, or they might not yet be ready for such a profound relationship. Sometimes, the development of a new relationship acts as a catalyst for the runner to move in a different direction, seeking peace and normalcy.

The Impact of the Runner’s Abandonment on the Chaser

When the runner moves on, the chaser may experience feelings of abandonment and loneliness. This can lead to resentment or a sense that a significant part of their identity is missing. The separation can be painful but also a time for deep self-reflection, which may fuel personal growth. Even though it’s difficult, this phase doesn’t necessarily mark the end of the journey. For many, it becomes a transformative experience that contributes to their evolution.

Common Misconceptions

One common question I get is whether the roles of the runner and chaser can be reversed. The answer is yes — the chaser may eventually move on, perhaps entering a new relationship, only to return as the chaser or even switch roles entirely, with the original runner becoming the chaser. This can be a confusing and emotional process, especially when the separation feels long and painful. However, it's part of the deep journey that helps us recognize our true twin flame, especially when dealing with false twin flames.

While twin flame separation can feel like a failure, it's important to note that it's not technically possible for a twin flame journey to fail in the long run. This doesn't mean you will achieve union in this lifetime, but the journey is never truly lost. We can't just sit back and wait for things to fall into place; we need to actively grow and evolve.

Moving On

I understand why you might feel the need to move on. I've experienced my separation phase and spoken to many others who have, too. It's not your fault, nor does it mean that you haven’t found your true twin flame. This phase is emotionally and spiritually tough, but it’s also a crucial part of the process. Questioning the connection is natural, and it helps protect you from false twin flames or fleeting infatuations.

Does My Twin Flame Runner Miss Me?

One thing I can say with absolute certainty is this: Yes, your twin flame runner misses you. The connection between twin flames is constant, even before they meet, and often the runner feels the pull. They might not consciously acknowledge it, but they do miss you. There are signs that they're thinking about you, and sometimes, it’s when you decide to move on that they start chasing you.

It may take time, and sometimes it won’t even happen in this lifetime. But the love and connection are always there, even if you both move on in different ways.

Understanding the Twin Flame Runner Stage

If the runner is going to miss me and potentially become the chaser once I move on, why don't they just awaken now and save us both the pain?

Ah, if only it were that easy. The reality is that this process is far more complicated, and the simplest explanation can be summed up in one word: soul shock.

The Twin Flame journey is not linear or predictable, and the runner is not intentionally trying to hurt anyone. They aren’t actively trying to do anything. They don’t fully understand the spiritual significance of the connection and aren’t yet spiritually awakened enough to handle the intensity of it. This can be incredibly tough to accept as the chaser, especially when you feel the connection so deeply and wonder why they can’t see it. Trust me, I’ve been there, and I know how frustrating it can be to feel like you're left in limbo while the runner seems unaware of the depth of what’s unfolding.

There’s also the possibility — though it’s just a possibility — that you may not be true twin flames. While this might sound harsh, sometimes this stage of separation is not just part of the journey, but also a signal that both parties should go their separate ways, at least for now. The pain you’re feeling may eventually serve a purpose, even if it’s not clear at this moment. Not every connection you experience is meant to lead to union, and that’s a difficult truth to swallow.

I wish I had a more definitive answer for you, but the twin flame journey is complex, unpredictable, and often emotionally intense. It’s not meant to be easy, and there’s no clear-cut solution or timeline for when the runner will “wake up.” The simple fact is, they may not even know themselves if or when they miss you. It all depends on where they are spiritually. They might not yet have the awareness or maturity to truly comprehend the depth of what’s happening.

Just because the runner doesn’t seem to miss you now, or isn’t chasing you at the moment, doesn’t mean they won’t in the future. The truth is that they likely do miss you, even if they don't consciously acknowledge it. Their awareness of the connection may grow in time, but it requires them to reach a certain level of spiritual awakening. And that can take time, sometimes even years. But don’t give up hope; this phase of the journey doesn’t define the entire process.

Your Path Forward

It’s essential to approach your twin flame journey with patience and a deep understanding of its complexities. Every twin flame connection is unique, and there are no universal rules or timelines. What you’re experiencing may not align with someone else’s path, and that’s okay. It’s important to remember that both you and your twin flame are evolving as individuals, and your paths forward are shaped by your personal growth and spiritual awakening.

Patience is key. The separation phase, though painful, is often a period of intense self-reflection and growth for both the chaser and the runner. While you might feel as though you’re stuck, this time offers the space for you to focus on your healing, understanding, and spiritual development. This phase is necessary for the ultimate reunion, even if it doesn’t feel like it right now.

Self-reflection is also crucial during this time. You need to ask yourself what you’ve learned from the journey so far and how you can use these lessons to evolve. What does your soul need to heal? What personal blocks are you facing that need to be addressed before the union can happen? These are all important questions to ask yourself as you move forward.

Spiritual growth plays an essential role in the twin flame journey. Both twins need to be spiritually aligned to come together in harmony. Often, this process involves overcoming personal fears, unresolved issues, and limiting beliefs. The more you grow spiritually, the closer you come to union, whether that means coming together in this lifetime or a future one.

If you feel lost or uncertain, don’t hesitate to reach out for guidance. Talking to someone who understands the complexities of the twin flame journey can help you make sense of what’s happening. I can assist you in understanding what might be going on with your twin flame, what they might be thinking or feeling, and how you can navigate this path in the 3D world. Whether you’re looking for clarity or just need someone to talk to about your experience, I’m here to help you sort through your emotions and find a way forward.