TWIN FLAME HEALING: UNDERSTANDING THE PROCESS

 This is an energy update for the Twin Flame Collective. Because it’s a collective reading, not every part may resonate, so take what speaks to you and leave the rest. The Divine Masculine and Divine Feminine energies discussed here refer to universal energies rather than specific genders.

Divine Masculine Twin Flame Feeling Nostalgic

Currently, the Divine Masculine is deeply immersed in memories of his Divine Feminine. He finds himself revisiting moments from their shared journey, including those small, tender exchanges that may appear trivial to others but hold great significance for him. These reflections go beyond surface-level memories; he’s beginning to understand how each of these moments with her has profoundly impacted his life, no matter how brief. It’s as though he can feel her presence and energy within his heart, and this nostalgia stirs up a longing that’s difficult to ignore.

Amid these thoughts, the Divine Masculine is going through a slow but intense process of ego death, allowing layers of his old self to fall away. He’s starting to view the connection through his higher self, which brings him clarity and a new level of understanding. This shift is giving him the space to see the connection for what it truly is—something profound and spiritual rather than just physical or emotional. This transformation is gradual but inevitable, guiding him toward a deeper awareness of himself and his Divine Feminine.

Regret

As he reflects on the journey and his role within it, the Divine Masculine is also coming to terms with the pain he may have caused her. This awareness brings a wave of regret and self-anger as he realizes the depth of her love and how he may have pushed it away out of fear. He’s beginning to see the emotional wounds he left behind—those scars she carries from moments where he withdrew or shut her out. In his heart, he knows she offered nothing but genuine love, and this recognition is deeply painful for him. The weight of his actions brings up feelings of unworthiness and self-doubt, making him question whether he’s deserving of her love at all. At times, he feels as though he’s on the verge of losing her forever, a fear that fills him with dread and sorrow.

The twin flame journey calls for both the Divine Masculine and Divine Feminine to learn self-love, but each path is unique. For the Divine Masculine, this path often means facing his own fears and insecurities head-on. He tends to run from the connection, pushing her away because he feels unworthy, fearing that if he lets her too close, she’ll see his vulnerabilities. Conversely, the Divine Feminine may hold on tightly to the relationship, fearing that letting go would mean losing him, often because she, too, grapples with her sense of worthiness. Both are being called to recognize and heal these deep-seated wounds but through different experiences.

Facing His Fears

The Divine Masculine’s urge to push her away stems from his fear of rejection and abandonment. It’s a defense mechanism, a way of protecting himself from the pain he assumes is inevitable if he fully embraces the connection. Yet, paradoxically, the more the Divine Feminine learns to surrender and let go of control, the more it forces him to confront his wounds. He’s beginning to sense her growing strength, independence, and resilience, and this shift in her energy challenges him to look within. He can feel her power and potential, a force that both intimidates and excites him, compelling him to awaken to his potential and purpose within their connection.

In these moments of reflection and inner turmoil, he realizes that he doesn’t just long for her presence but for the person he knows he could become if he allows himself to grow within this connection. This realization is pushing him closer to a choice—whether to continue running or to step up and embrace the powerful transformative journey that lies ahead with his Divine Feminine.

Unstable Energy

Currently, the Divine Masculine’s energy is volatile, marked by constant inner conflict and hesitation. At times, he feels a strong pull toward his Divine Feminine, even envisioning how he would approach her and what he would say. However, just as he gathers the courage, self-doubt creeps in, amplifying his fears and causing him to retreat. This repetitive cycle leaves him frustrated, as he feels trapped in a loop of wanting to step forward but continually holding himself back. He views this hesitation as a sign of weakness, which only deepens his self-doubt, and he struggles to forgive himself for not being able to break free from this back-and-forth energy.

She is constantly on his mind, filling his thoughts day and night. He recognizes her as his true counterpart, and he’s certain no one else could ever take her place. This certainty fuels his desire to be near her again, a longing that grows stronger with each passing day. He’s actively considering ways to reach out, even planning what he might say or do to reconnect. Though his insecurities are still there, he’s attempting to work around them, hoping his desire to be with her will overpower his fears. His self-confidence remains shaky, but he’s slowly gathering the strength he needs, each day bringing a little more clarity.

From a distance, he admires her strength, resilience, and the way she shines, loving her from afar. At times, he dreams of the depth of their potential intimacy, imagining what it would feel like to be truly vulnerable and share his love for her openly. He longs to express his feelings in a way that transcends words, envisioning moments of closeness that would reflect the depth of his love and admiration. Yet, he hesitates, fearing he might fall short of her expectations or disappoint her if he’s not fully ready. He knows that his struggles with intimacy and vulnerability are still unresolved, and until he overcomes these issues, he’s not prepared to offer her the commitment he knows she deserves.

Divine Masculine Twin Flame’s Courage

Despite his inner conflicts, some Divine Masculines are finding the courage to take a step forward. Very soon, many may decide to reach out in a small but meaningful way—whether through a simple text, a brief email, or a social media message. This will be a gentle nudge, a way to let her know that he’s still present, connected to her, even if only from afar. For some, this might mean unblocking her or opening up a line of communication that has been closed for some time. Though these actions may seem minor, they carry significant weight, marking the beginning of his readiness to reconnect.

He has so much he wants to say, words and confessions that have been building up over time. But he isn’t quite ready to lay everything on the line. There’s a hope within him that she will still be there when he’s finally ready to open his heart fully, yet he feels the ticking of time as a constant pressure. He’s aware that his hesitation might cost him, and the thought of potentially losing her if he waits too long fills him with urgency.

While it may appear that he’s taking a step back due to his intermittent silence, he’s moving forward in small but important ways. His confidence is slowly building as he continues to confront his fears and insecurities. Though he has never questioned his feelings for her, his doubts have always centered on himself—on whether he’s worthy, capable, and strong enough to be the partner she deserves. Each small step he takes is a testament to his growth and evolving sense of self-worth, as he learns to believe in the connection and his ability to honor it.