The Divine Feminine serves as the initiator and guide in a twin flame connection, holding all potential within her, ready to be brought into reality. She anoints the Divine Masculine with sacred oil, leads him with her heart, and guides him energetically. The Divine Masculine then responds in the physical world. Essentially, the Divine Feminine leads the Twin Flame Union on an energetic level, beginning at a higher frequency than the Divine Masculine.
Some might find it challenging to accept this idea of the Divine Feminine leading, especially when they observe their counterpart seemingly uninterested or unresponsive. It can be frustrating to feel like you're doing all the work while he is distant and unengaged. For instance, a woman might say, "He is away, partying and changing girlfriends every week, while I am here doing all the work by myself! We haven’t spoken in over a year. He doesn’t answer when I call or text. How can I even attempt to lead anything if he just won’t change, no matter what I do?!"
However, energetic leadership is a long-standing role of the Divine Feminine in Sacred Union, even in traditions that appear male-dominated. For example, kabbalistic Judaism teaches that a woman is more internal and has a more intimate relationship with the Creator, while a man is more external. Similarly, Muhyiddin Ibn Arabi, a 12th-century Islamic mystic, teaches that a man seeks a missing part of himself in a woman and reaches the knowledge of God through union with her. In contrast, a woman is complete within herself and seeks a relationship to feel at home.
The heart frequency of the twin flame Divine Feminine profoundly influences and carries her Divine Masculine. His spiritual state is intertwined with and dependent on her energy. This dynamic may contradict common beliefs about relationships where men appear to hold power. Energetically, it is the woman who initiates.
A twin flame man might believe he has achieved everything on his own or feel unworthy of his counterpart's love. He might think, "I can’t give her what she needs," or claim his success as solely his achievement. Regardless, he reacts to the energy of his Divine Feminine counterpart. Often, it is the woman who is more spiritually awakened, doing the healing work and seeking Union, while the man runs from the truth. This may seem disempowering, but it reflects the ancient conditioning that twin flames are meant to transcend.
Women often meet their Divine counterparts not fully in touch with their authentic power, reflecting a fragmented and descended state. They may see themselves as weak and dependent, fearing loneliness and childlessness. This disempowerment becomes apparent when they encounter their twin flame, feeling desperate for any attention or validation. A woman who once felt successful and strong may find herself questioning everything, clinging to every text message, and accepting codependency or even abuse due to feeling deprived of light and love.
This state of fear and fragmentation is a manifestation of millennia of descent into disempowerment. Terrified and shattered, she who once was a Queen may ask, "Does he love me?" "Did he smile at me?" "When will he call me back?" "Do we have a chance?" "Can I spend 5 minutes with him once a year?" These questions reflect the deep-seated disempowerment she feels.
To reclaim her power, the Divine Feminine must peel away layers of conditioning and disbelief. She must transform her longing into genuine empowerment, reconnecting with her true self and the energetic leadership inherent in her nature. This involves recognizing her intrinsic worth and the profound impact her energy has on the union. By doing so, she can rise from a state of disempowerment to embody the true essence of the Divine Feminine, leading the twin flame connection toward unity and harmony.
Power, Not Blame
No matter what the twin flame Divine Feminine believes about herself, the masculine will respond to her fear. When she feels insecure or doubtful, he will sense it and often react by shrinking away or running. This isn't to say he is without issues—his problems are often bigger than hers. However, he cannot give her what she cannot give herself. If she is unable to see her worth and power, he cannot reflect it to her.
It's crucial to understand that this is not about blaming the Divine Feminine for the separation. The Feminine has been blamed long enough—for the apple in the Garden of Eden, for her sexuality, intuition, and non-linear thinking—but most of all, for her power. Over millennia, this blame has taken many forms, often rooted in fear of the Feminine’s innate strength and wisdom. Over time, she accepted this loss of power and began to believe in a distorted image of herself created by patriarchal societies.
This isn't about blame or asking, "What am I doing wrong?" The more the Divine Feminine asks this question, the more she internalizes the belief that there is something inherently wrong with her. This self-doubt becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy, further pushing the Divine Masculine away and perpetuating the cycle of separation.
So, what is the way forward? It involves a deep and often challenging process of self-examination and healing. The Divine Feminine must observe her triggers, fears, and doubts. These emotional responses are like layers of veils that obscure her true self. By identifying and understanding these triggers, she can begin to peel away these layers and reveal the powerful being within.
This journey is about rediscovering and reclaiming her inherent power. Beneath these veils lies her Union—with her true Self, with the Divine, and with her Twin Soul. This Union is not just about the external relationship with her twin flame but also about an internal integration of her fragmented aspects.
Raising the Divine Feminine from her shattered state is a monumental mission that has never been undertaken before. It requires immense courage, perseverance, and self-love. Naturally, it is difficult and seemingly impossible. Yet, this is your time to reclaim your glory.
This process involves several steps:
Self-Awareness: Recognize and acknowledge your feelings, especially those of fear and doubt. Understand where these emotions stem from and how they have been conditioned over time.
Healing Past Wounds: Engage in practices that promote healing, such as therapy, meditation, or energy work. Address past traumas and release any lingering pain or resentment.
Reclaiming Power: Begin to see yourself as inherently powerful and worthy. Affirm your strengths and capabilities. Surround yourself with supportive individuals who uplift and empower you.
Spiritual Connection: Deepen your connection with the Divine through prayer, meditation, or other spiritual practices. This connection will help you tap into the higher wisdom and strength within you.
Embodiment: Live out your newfound sense of power and worth in your daily life. Make choices that reflect your true self and honor your needs and desires.
Patience and Compassion: Be patient with yourself as you navigate this journey. Show yourself compassion and understanding, recognizing that growth and transformation take time.
By undertaking this journey, the Divine Feminine not only transforms herself but also paves the way for the Union with her Twin Soul. Her healing and empowerment create a ripple effect, influencing the Divine Masculine and the collective consciousness. This is a path of profound personal and spiritual growth, leading to a harmonious and balanced twin-flame connection.
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