TWIN FLAME HEALING: UNDERSTANDING THE PROCESS

 

Navigating the Twin Flame journey can be perplexing, marked by periods of separation and reunion that involve a complex interplay of pushing and pulling. Understanding the roles of the "Runner" and "Chaser" can illuminate this intricate dynamic.

Now, the question arises: Are you the Runner or the Chaser? Determining your twin flame identity is crucial, as it influences the amount of effort required to reunite with your other half.

The Twin Flame Runner and Chaser phenomenon stems from the concept of a soul splitting into two bodies during reincarnation. This duality manifests as the Runner and Chaser in a twin flame relationship, representing the two facets of a complete soul before reincarnation. The Chaser is typically spiritually awakened, actively pursuing divine union, and recognizing the significance of the connection. In contrast, the Runner, sensing a profound chemistry, remains silent about their feelings, often due to inner concerns and a reluctance to confront the relationship.

The interplay between the Chaser and Runner dynamics often becomes apparent after the initial meeting, relationship, or fallout, especially as the Twin Flame connection deepens. To delve further into these dynamics and explore their manifestation in the divine union, we will examine the roles each individual plays in connection.

To determine whether you are a Runner or Chaser, consider the signs and traits associated with each aspect of the Twin Flame connection:

Signs you are a CHASER Signs you are a RUNNER

• Seeking contact and desiring a relationship with your twin flame

• Recognizing the necessity of the other person's presence in your life

• Displaying a keen interest in the Twin Flame journey through extensive research

• Constantly thinking about your twin flame

• Assuming the role of the peacemaker in the relationship • Making excuses to avoid meeting your partner

• Evading the connection and actively resisting it

• Feeling undeserving of attention and harboring a sense of fear

• Overwhelmed by the connection, leading to 'ghosting' your partner instead of accepting your shared destiny

Exploring these signs and traits can provide insight into whether you embody the characteristics of a Chaser or Runner in the intricate dance of the Twin Flame journey.

Have you ever encountered an instant connection with someone? Right after meeting them, you intuitively sense an undeniable chemistry between the two of you. This is your awakening, a significant indicator of being the Chaser in a twin flame relationship.

A common experience for a Chaser is being erroneously labeled as a stalker. The disappointment of unreciprocated feelings from your twin flame may lead you to incessantly think about them, check their social media daily, and even visit places they frequent in hopes of a chance encounter.

As indicated in the aforementioned table, obsession with your twin flame can reach a point where you can't cease thinking or daydreaming about them. You are naturally drawn to their energy, and their presence completes you.

Here are the typical traits or characteristics of a Chaser:

Strong feelings for the Runner.

Inability to explain why they are so attracted to their twin flame.

Conviction that they have found the person they want to spend their life with.

Willingness to do anything for their twin and confront challenges to make things work.

Refusal to give up on their twin, even if feelings are not reciprocated.

Overlooking negative aspects of their twin and the relationship.

They believe that they are not 'good enough' for their twin, blaming themselves for being left alone.

Advice for the Twin Flame Chaser: "Trust the Universe, trust the process." Despite the exhausting nature of being the Chaser, don't let the situation undermine your self-worth. Provide your twin flame with the necessary time and space, and things will fall into place. Focus on self-love, self-improvement, and trust the process.

If you are the Runner, you represent the withdrawing energy in the twin flame relationship journey. If you've ever felt overwhelmed and fearful as your relationship deepens, choosing to run away to shield yourself from suffering, there's a high possibility you are the Runner. During conflicts or situations where hurt is anticipated, Runners strive to escape to avoid pain.

Common behavioral traits of the Runner, as shared by contributors on Quora, include avoiding eye contact even in face-to-face encounters, refraining from initiating conversations, wanting to know about your life while remaining silent, reading messages without responding, intermittent silent treatments, initiating contact when they feel you are not chasing them, blocking on social media, warning against contact, and resuming normal communication after a silent period, only to vanish again without explanation.

What Causes the Runner to Retreat?

Runners often choose to run because they perceive it as the easiest solution to resolve relationship issues. The overwhelming emotions experienced by the Runner lead them to believe that distancing themselves from the Chaser is the key to attaining peace of mind and freedom. They find it more acceptable to face rejection than the prospect of being left behind after forming a deep attachment to the other person. Consequently, they opt to flee to avoid this anticipated pain. Some runners prefer to stay in a relationship that appears easier, rather than leave when faced with difficulties, opting for convenience. Additionally, some runners may be confused and indecisive, running away from their Chaser unknowingly.

Guidance for the Twin Flame Runner: "Be happy and start attracting!"

Being the Runner in a twin flame relationship can be bewildering and stressful. To those unfamiliar with this journey, you may be perceived as selfish or cowardly, but it's essential not to let external judgments bother you. Your feelings are valid, and everyone encounters their struggles. The unique roles in a twin flame relationship carry their significance. If your instincts tell you to run, trust them; it may be the Universe's way of urging you to enhance yourself and confront your fears. Remember that this process is pre-planned, occurring for a greater purpose. Overcoming the fear of rejection or abandonment can be achieved through repeated connections. Utilize this time apart from your twin flame to reflect and address the aspects your soul needs to contend with so that when you reconnect, you are better prepared.

Brief Q&A: Dynamics Between the Runner and Chaser

Q: Does the Runner miss the Chaser during the separation stage?

A: Over time, the Runner will inevitably yearn for the intense emotions experienced and will seek the presence of the Chaser. They will return precisely when the divine union is set to occur.

Q: Why would your twin flame runner deny their feelings for you?

A: The Runner is often confused and harbors a fear of abandonment. They believe they are undeserving of the Chaser's love, prompting them to distance themselves from the connection. Avoidance of strong emotional bonds and attachments is a coping mechanism for their unpreparedness to deal with such intense emotions.

In Conclusion:

The Runner and the Chaser embody the two facets of a soul, representing the identity of the Twin Flames. Similar to the sun and the moon, they symbolize lightness against darkness. Despite being total opposites, they complement each other in this chaotic journey of the Twin Flame connection. While the path may be rough, the enduring love between twin flames remains constant. Trust in the Universe and focus on positive growth to find peace throughout the process.