When twin flames encounter each other, the Soul's profound recognition sparks intense feelings that momentarily overshadow everything beyond the remarkable connection. Existing relationships, if present, often take a backseat as the power of this bond eclipses them, fostering a strong connection between the lovers. While this introduces a complex dimension to their lives, Spirit views the earthly relationship status of these individuals as irrelevant.
Many individuals leave their current relationships upon meeting their beloved, driven by the overwhelming love and connection that renders staying in the old relationship unbearable. Although this separation is often an inevitable outcome of the twin encounter, it is not uncommon for individuals to return to their previous relationships or quickly engage in new ones, attempting to restore normality and fill the void left by their twin. However, this doesn't signify loss but rather implies that there are still lessons to be learned or crucial work to be completed on other timelines before a permanent union can occur.
Sometimes, the only refuge for these eternal lovers from the turbulence of their connection is found in the "safety" of old paradigm relationships. This doesn't imply a lack of love from the beloved; rather, it reflects an awareness that the intensity of the connection demands complete attention and dedication. The perceived "risk" of moving from what is safe and familiar to something unconventional and intense can be viewed as too high.
Encountering one's beloved initiates a transformative journey, demanding a reevaluation of everything known. This metamorphosis, akin to the transformation of a caterpillar into a butterfly, leads individuals out of co-dependent, ego-based relationship mindsets toward the reality of true love and union. The separation and temporary choice to distance oneself from the connection, although initially challenging, serves as a blessing, stripping away illusions and exposing individuals to what is real and enduring.
This shift is not merely necessary but inevitable for any potential union. As long as individuals "need" their beloved to complete them, the relationship will not align with their human-level hopes. Moving from a 3D marriage to a sacred union represents a quantum leap between levels of consciousness and parallel dimensions, necessitating a new level of honesty, transparency, and acceptance. Often, when twins first meet, they may not be ready or strong enough in their connection to make this transition immediately.
The journey to a sacred union involves choices that may initially seem to lead away from the union. However, these choices create circumstances for spiritual and emotional maturation, shifting individuals from fear-based thinking to heart-based being. Ultimately, as individuals grow closer to themselves and their beloved, the closeness with the latter becomes undeniable over time.
Transitioning from a 3-year separation to a reunion with my beloved initially brought joy, but after 18 months, the emotional roller-coaster of push and pull left me exhausted. Seeking stability and consistency, I married and focused on building a family. Despite my beloved's attempts to be part of my life, I kept him at a distance, unconsciously mirroring his retreat into a "safe" marriage. Over the years, I realized my deep yearning for a connection that mirrored and reciprocated my own. As my marriage deteriorated, I sought solace in the spiritual energy my beloved represented, creating a unique connection despite physical separation.
Throughout our connection, I had become accustomed to sensing his presence. This familiarity, dating back to my childhood, had never been a significant focus for me until the realization struck that he is consistent with me—an energy, a reflection, an integral part of myself. This awareness highlighted a duality within me: one side acknowledged the reality and depth of our connection, while the other sanctioned a sense of detachment and engagement with another person. Ironically, though I had always recognized this division within my beloved, discovering it within myself proved to be an eye-opening and humbling revelation.
Instantly, I acknowledged my role in creating the separation by accepting disconnection as permissible. I had initially convinced myself that fulfillment could be found outside our union, only to realize that the absence of that deep connection within myself fueled this illusion.
The journey from uncontrollably experiencing his energy to realizing he permanently resides within me was a process spanning several years. Eventually, a moment arrived when, amidst the spiritual emptiness of my marriage, a place of serenity emerged. In this tranquil space, the undeniable truth prevailed that my beloved twin held a unique significance. This realization brought a profound sense of freedom from want, sadness, and the conditions imposed by myself and others during a time when I hadn't fully recognized my power or the power of God.
I understood that no connection with anyone else could match the fulfillment, nourishment, depth, intimacy, and spirituality inherent in my connection with him. Despite efforts to bestow my love upon my husband, the truth was that he could never reciprocate it fully. Recognizing this disparity, I decided to no longer compromise my essence and energy with anyone who couldn't perfectly align with me—mind to mind, heart to heart, soul to soul.
The difficulties within my marriage, upon reflection, revealed themselves as a blessing, guiding me to acknowledge my worth. My marriage served as a bottom point, prompting the realization that this wasn't the life I desired for myself or to inspire my children. Consequently, I harbored no resentment toward my husband or my beloved's wife; both had played roles in teaching me that I alone was responsible for giving myself the love I deserved.
Embracing the truth of our unbreakable inner bond, I was prepared to release any lingering grievances and focus on the profound love that continued to grow in every aspect of my life. Choosing this path became a personal decision, regardless of whether he made the same choice. If there was even a slight chance of being with him and serving a greater purpose, I felt compelled to take it. My life, I realized, had to be centered around this love, with or without his involvement.
Transitioning from a marriage to the sacred union, once the energies of Oneness resonated within, proved to be one of the most challenging yet empowering experiences on this journey. The leap required faith, standing tall in one's knowing and light. Personally, finding the courage to leave my marriage hinged on discovering this union within myself. As the "twin flame" union primarily unfolds internally, this inner completion led to the realization that settling for draining 3D relationships was no longer acceptable. Choosing a path that invigorated, radiated joy, and connected me to purpose myself, and God became the priority.
Choosing self-love and faith in the journey, coupled with patience, became the guiding principles. Even if our beloved retreats into old ways temporarily, the path inevitably leads back to the one love, one God, one truth—the destiny with our beloved.
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