The phases of a relationship take on a distinct quality when it comes to your twin flame. Spinelli points out that the stages of a twin flame relationship can vary depending on the individuals involved, but there are eight common phases to consider:
Stage 1: Aching
Before your encounter with your twin flame, you'll sense the presence of your other half. This phase is marked by a profound yearning, and it necessitates inner growth in preparation for meeting your twin flame.
Stage 2: Encounter
When you finally cross paths, your world will be profoundly affected. Be prepared for a rapid and intense attraction. Kaiser notes that this meeting sparks instant, almost overwhelming attraction, making it challenging to keep your hands off each other and spend a great deal of time together.
Stage 3: The Blissful Beginning
Interestingly, even twin flames experience a honeymoon phase. During this period, your relationship is fresh, significant, and positive. The duration of this phase varies for each couple, preceding the emergence of challenges.
Stage 4: Confronting Challenges
Sooner or later, deep-seated wounds and differences emerge in the relationship. These challenges often mirror the inner work both partners need to do individually. The focus here isn't so much on improving the relationship as it is on personal growth.
Stage 5: The Trial
"Your love will be tested as you delve into your inner shadows," says Kaiser. In this phase, insecurities surface, and self-doubt creeps in, leading to questions about oneself and each other. Attachment issues may also arise, leading to emotional insecurity.
Stage 6: The Pursuit
Referred to as twin flame separation, the pursuit phase is a significant aspect of many twin flame relationships. It involves a constant push and pull. Kaiser explains that part of this dynamic serves as a reward for each person. However, there comes a point when one partner withdraws, leading to separation.
Stage 7: The Surrender
While the chase can endure for an extended period, Spinelli and Kaiser note that, with perseverance through triggers, insecurities, and challenges, you may eventually reunite. This phase represents a complete surrender to the relationship and the bigger picture for both partners, where you accept each other with all your imperfections.
Stage 8: Finding Your Way Home
Finally, once you have fully surrendered and embraced your destiny, your life enters a phase of balance and renewal. Spinelli explains that shared meaning is established, and the relationship fosters greater empathy and understanding. During this stage, you support each other and continue to facilitate one another's personal growth.
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