TWIN FLAME HEALING: UNDERSTANDING THE PROCESS

 

You've probably encountered the phrase "You intimidate me" countless times, and with each repetition, it leaves you feeling perplexed and perhaps mildly affronted. It leads you to contemplate how you could be perceived as intimidating when you genuinely exude a friendly and kind demeanor. What may have troubled you most is that this comment predominantly emanated from men.

In these modern times, societal norms have ingrained the belief that one gender is superior to the other, with men often occupying the position of superiority. When self-reliant women assert their independence, they can be deemed intimidating to men whose perspectives remain rooted in the past.

In reality, men should celebrate self-sufficient and intelligent women. So, why do some men feel intimidated? It's because independent women tend to exhibit emotional maturity and eschew immature behaviors, especially in romantic relationships.

They steer clear of immaturity as it consumes energy and time, and they have little interest in engaging in shallow, insipid conversations and frivolous jests. Consequently, it's not difficult to grasp why men occasionally experience intimidation.

Here are six reasons why men may feel intimidated by independent women:

They are financially self-sufficient.

Traditionally, society has propagated the notion that men are the primary breadwinners. However, in the modern world, women are self-reliant and contribute equally, or even more, to their families. This shift challenges the traditional male breadwinner role and can be disconcerting for some men.

They are emotionally self-reliant.

Independent women often become self-reliant due to past challenges, learning to rely on themselves for happiness from a young age. This self-sufficiency forms the basis of their emotional maturity.

They are resolute and don't entertain nonsense.

These women are clear about their preferences and convictions. Once they make up their minds, it's challenging for others, including men, to sway them. They know what's best for them and stick to their decisions, regardless of others' opinions.

They are highly educated and intelligent.

Many independent women are self-taught and highly educated. While intelligence is a virtue, it can sometimes lead to disagreements in relationships, as both men and women strive to be right. Women are determined to prove themselves right when they are confident in their beliefs.

They have little patience for games.

Independent women lead busy lives, relentlessly pursuing their dreams and goals. They prioritize affection and love but have little tolerance for men who are not serious or engage in childish games. They quickly recognize insincerity and show such individuals the exit.

They are self-sufficient.

Independent women desire companionship from men but don't rely on them for their well-being. They are self-sustaining, capable of achieving their goals and fulfilling their needs independently. They recognize that they are the primary architects of their dreams and desires.