TWIN FLAME HEALING: UNDERSTANDING THE PROCESS

 

If you're embarking on the twin flame journey, you have probably pondered how twin flames navigate relationships with others. There isn't a definitive guidebook for the twin flame soul connection; only you and your twin flame can establish the rules. The timing and progress of your union depend on your individual personal development and ascension paths, and it may even extend beyond your current human experience.

In the meantime, you'll likely have other partners as part of your present human experience. Waiting for your twin flame is an option, but it's uncommon for souls to endure the lengthy separation journey. Until union becomes a realistic possibility, you'll date and love other individuals while dealing with karmic partners and situations.

Society may exert additional pressure if one or both twins are legally married. In such cases, I recommend referring to my guide on married twin flames.

Should I wait for my twin flame?

Waiting for your spiritual partner is admirable, but it shouldn't be an absolute rule or goal unless you genuinely feel it in your heart. During challenging periods and instances of twin flame silent treatment, it's understandable to doubt if things will ever work out.

How long will the wait be?

It's important to acknowledge that you may undergo multiple human experiences to address your shadows and karma before you can approach the frequency of the twin flame union. Ascension is a gradual process without strict timelines. It's not a race but a reward in itself.

Due to varying rates of progress across multiple human experiences, there may be times when you're unaware of being a twin flame. It's unlikely that you'll spend all of those experiences alone.

The divine, the universe, and the collective consciousness don't wish for you to be alone or suffer lifetimes of punishment for not reaching union frequency yet.

Chastity and ascension

While chastity holds significant spiritual value, it should arise naturally from your soul's guidance, rather than being pursued solely to attain something. Chastity alone won't hasten union, and enduring solitude won't propel you further along the path to union.

Chastity is indeed a sign of a high frequency when it emanates from your heart. However, it's not a commonly adopted lifestyle. Think of monks, certain priests, and nuns—they lead chaste lives as a form of physical sacrifice for a higher calling. Nevertheless, chastity is not a shortcut to salvation or union on its own.

During ascension, if your higher self, spirit guides, angels, and ancestors direct you to abstain from physical intimacy, it can serve your journey. However, it's not a mandatory requirement. Some people integrate upgrades more smoothly while engaging in all aspects of the third-dimensional experience.

Dating during twin flame separation

If you find yourself in the dreaded separation phase, expect a roller-coaster of emotions and energy. Remember that the twin flame journey is far from over during separation—it's merely a step or break along the way. The journey only concludes upon reaching union, and nothing can sever that bond in the meantime.

Consequently, depending on the duration of your separation, it's highly likely that you'll date someone else, perhaps even get married. Will your twin flame be aware of your actions? In a sense, yes, just as you will be aware of their experiences.

However, if one twin exercises free will to pause the twin flame journey, the other twin shouldn't halt their life indefinitely. Enduring the pain of separation is challenging enough; adding solitude to the mix won't necessarily improve the situation unless you genuinely feel called to do so.

Loving someone else?

During separation, it's possible to love not just one person but multiple individuals. As a twin flame, even if your journey toward union is on hold, you possess a soul programmed for fifth-dimensional unconditional love.

Since you can't channel all of that love into your twin flame relationship, you'll likely pour that love into other relationships. You are fully capable of loving and being loved by others. Your capacity for unconditional love surpasses that of most individuals because it's ingrained in the blueprint of your soul.

Is it considered cheating?

If you feel guilty about loving someone else during separation, it's essential, to be honest with yourself about your circumstances. If you're the twin flame runner, you've chosen to run for a reason—perhaps you're not ready for the twin flame connection at this particular moment. There is still work you need to do to become prepared. Love itself holds a high frequency, and truly loving someone can aid your path to ascension.

If you're the so-called chaser in the twin flame dynamic, it's not your decision to postpone union with your twin flame. You can only respect their need for space and honor their decision while they undergo their ascension process. In the meantime, you'll likely attract both high-vibrational and low-vibrational individuals, and you'll probably experience love and be loved in return. There's nothing wrong with that.

Cheating occurs when you've entered into a committed monogamous relationship and pledged exclusivity to your partner. Breaking any vows constitutes cheating. However, if you haven't made any vows or your twin flame is energetically present but not an active part of your life, it's up to your judgment.

Your heart and soul hold the answers to whether you should be with someone else while your twin flame bond is still maturing toward the union frequency. When you follow your soul's guidance, there is no wrong choice.

Am I dating a karmic twin?

Many believe that if their twin flame can't commit to the journey and the necessary work and happens to be in another relationship, it means they're with a karmic partner.

The term "karmic" is often used to describe someone other than their twin flame whom a twin flame chooses at some point. It may be tempting to focus on the "karmic" and harbor resentment as if they're deliberately keeping your twin away from you.

If you feel such resentment, it's crucial to address and resolve those shadows within your heart. Unless you're in a committed relationship with your twin and someone intentionally interferes, that person is likely unaware of the situation between you and your twin.

By definition, your twin's partner is not karmic because they were chosen by your twin flame at some point. However, all events, people, and relationships in anyone's life, including twin flames, are karmic, and that's a positive thing. They present opportunities for learning and growth. While processing negative karma can be unpleasant, it serves as assistance rather than an obstacle.

Your twin flame journey involves intensive karmic processing before union can even be considered. In this sense, everything you and your twin encounter is karmic. Karma plays a significant role in the twin flame bond and journey.

In summary, whether you become twin flames in other relationships is a decision that only you and your twin flame(s) can make. It's neither inherently good nor bad, but rather another step in a complex and challenging path toward union.

Regarding twin flames, each partner can only determine what feels right for them at a particular time. As high-vibrational souls capable of unconditional love, you are naturally inclined to love and support the growth of those you care about. In a way, that's part of your mission.

Ultimately, how you choose to express that love during different stages of your journey is entirely up to you, beautiful soul!