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Pay attention: Your so-called 'toxic relationship' is not a twin flame connection. It may sound controversial, but we'll clarify our perspective. Can twin flames be toxic? Or is it simply not your twin flame from the beginning?
It is possible that the relationship you believe to be your twin flame connection might not be one.
Now, let's explore toxic relationships in more detail. We have received numerous comments from individuals trapped in highly toxic relationships to the extent that they feel suicidal due to the abuse they endure. Many of them mistakenly believe that this toxicity is a characteristic of a twin flame relationship. They might attribute it to the so-called 'running phase,' where one or both twins ignore each other. Although there might be some truth to this occasionally, it is crucial to understand that it is an extremely dangerous belief. We need to address this misconception.
It is important to be cautious about the sources of relationship advice you seek. Numerous myths and false information are circulating online, with various individuals presenting themselves as experts. It is essential to consider the credibility and personal experiences of those offering advice, as we have emphasized in our previous videos. Some of these individuals may not be twin flames, and therefore, their guidance might not be reliable.
While they might still have valuable insights to offer, it is advisable to take their words with a grain of salt. If they genuinely possessed a deep understanding of the twin flame journey, they would likely have already reunited with their twin flame. Of course, this is not always the case. There can be genuine experts who are still working through their challenges. However, there are several prevalent myths that we must dispel. Let's address them:
Recognizing an Authentic Twin Flame
Today, we will share some indicators to help you determine whether the person you are involved with is truly your twin flame or if they are a false twin flame, soulmate, or simply part of a toxic relationship. This knowledge will enable you to decide whether to distance yourself from this person or persevere in your connection.
1: Mutual Attraction in True Twin Flames
One of the primary signs of a twin flame relationship is a strong physical and sexual attraction, as well as intense chemistry between the two individuals. If this attraction is absent, it is advisable to consider the other indicators we will discuss. If you do not feel attracted to your supposed twin flame, or they claim not to feel attracted to you, likely, they are not your genuine twin flame. A twin flame is the only person in the world who resonates with you on the same vibration. Therefore, regardless of the age gap or cultural differences, you will find them extremely appealing. It is crucial to note that this attraction should not be one-sided. Both individuals should experience a deep mutual attraction.
2: Authenticity in the Presence of Your True Twin Flame
Another sign that someone is your true twin flame is the ability to be your authentic self around them. You should not feel the need to play mind games or wear masks. They will accept and love you for who you truly are.
3: Support from Your True Twin Flame
If they are your genuine twin flame, they will be supportive of your passions, work, and life mission.
4: Absence of Disparagement
Your twin flame would never try to belittle or discourage you. Instead, they will encourage you to pursue your passions, purpose, and mission. They would never suggest that you settle for a mundane job or engage in something that lacks passion.
5: Instant Connection Upon Meeting
A profound and immediate connection will be felt when you encounter your true twin flame. This sensation will be mutual as if you have known each other for multiple lifetimes. It will feel like coming home, even if it is your first encounter, whether in person or through social media. You will have a strong sense of familiarity with this person.
Additionally, you and your twin flame will share a similar purpose or, at the very least, have aligned paths that lead in the same direction. For example, when we met, I was not living in Sweden and had never been to Gran Canaria before. However, we both shared the aspiration of becoming digital nomads, working for ourselves, and exploring the world.
Indications That They Are Not Your Twin Flame
Here are some signs that suggest the person you are involved with is not your true twin flame. We have discussed these in more detail before, but here is a summary:
1: Emotional Unavailability
If the person is emotionally unavailable, especially after initially showing intimacy, it is an indication that they are not your twin flame. They might distance themselves, exhibit abusive behavior, or explicitly state that they want no contact. While it is true that twin flames may experience a running phase, which involves pulling away, severe physical and mental abuse, name-calling, and other forms of mistreatment are not traits of a genuine twin flame connection.
Your Genuine Twin Flame Will Not Be Cruel to You
Therefore, it is crucial to be vigilant about these aspects. You don't want to remain trapped in a toxic relationship simply because you believe the person is your twin flame. Your true twin flame will never subject you to abuse, manipulative mind games, or cruelty. It's just not in their nature.
We understand that this can be a challenging realization, especially if you have experienced a toxic relationship or if you identify with some of those traits and begin to question whether this person is truly your twin flame. We empathize with you, and we are here to provide support.
It is common for twins to seek solace in others during the running phase; this is entirely normal. Unfortunately, they might even marry someone else. However, it is crucial to distinguish between the normal challenges of the running phase and severe physical or mental abuse, which are not part of the authentic twin flame journey. Such behaviors indicate a toxic relationship rather than a genuine twin-flame connection.
As we have explained before, the running phase can last for varying durations, ranging from a few weeks or months to several years. During this period, it may seem as though your twin flame is disinterested in you; however, they will still have you on their mind. This feeling is often mutual. Although they may be running and even involved with someone else, they have their traumas, emotional blocks, and past life issues to work through.
We acknowledge that it can be challenging to ascertain whether they are genuinely interested in you. Your twin flame may be constantly thinking about you without expressing it explicitly. Therefore, have faith and understand that if they are indeed your true twin flame, they will eventually return to you. Conversely, if they do not come back, it is an indication that they are not your genuine twin flame.
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