It is crucial to acknowledge that we may play a role in co-creating the twin flame drama ourselves. Specifically, when we lack spiritual and emotional maturity, we might adopt a victim mindset, believing that our twin flame intentionally acts against us, causing us pain and taking us for granted.
Ask yourself honestly, are you holding your twin accountable for your emotional responses to their actions? If you feel needy and expect them to fulfill your emotional void, it becomes irrelevant whether they are your twin flame.
Even if they are, you are not yet prepared for a physical union. It is rather an opportunity for self-healing and personal growth. You will come to realize that no one else is responsible for your thoughts, feelings, or how you handle them.
At times, the fear of losing them can lead us to compromise our integrity, and inner peace, and allow our happiness and stability to depend on the actions or inactions of our twin flame. Be truly honest with yourself in this regard.
If you let go of the twin flame label, would you still be as attached to this person if they continued to push you away, ignore you, deceive you, or engage in relationships with others? Would you still desire a relationship with them?
It is also important to explore the source of the pain you are experiencing. Twin flames do not hold animosity toward each other; their connection is too close, and their spiritual advancement too great for such negativity.
Certainly, the pain associated with twin flames can be unbearable, but its purpose is to open your heart and teach you to love more, rather than crush your soul or diminish your self-worth.
Moreover, if you are brutally honest with yourself, you may realize that your twin's peculiar behavior has little to do with you, as the conflict between twin flames predominantly stems from fear, external circumstances, and resistance.
Regardless of the situation, your twin flame will never attempt to force, manipulate, or control you, nor will it present ultimatums. Similarly, twin flames do not allow themselves to be manipulated.
Once the balance of energy becomes disrupted, such as when one twin tries to hold the other responsible for their imbalances, the natural response will be for them to withdraw - a choice they have no alternative but to make.
Even if they are your twin flame, they are not obligated to fulfill any demands. They are not here to fix you, just as you are not here to heal or fix them. If this is indeed your twin flame, you should not expect them to undertake your inner work on your behalf.
Nevertheless, they will experience the same love, intense emotions, and triggering as you do, and they will have their way of handling it. It is not an act of love to point fingers or blame them for doing their best.
I can assure you that whatever your twin does or says, their intentions are solely for the betterment of your soul. They genuinely want your happiness and care deeply for you. However, this does not guarantee their constant presence or openness as they navigate their internal struggles.
This does not imply that they will engage with your unbalanced behaviors. Therefore, while some "drama" may arise, it will be underpinned by immense respect and unconditional love for each other.
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