What occurs if the twin flame pursuer moves forward or relinquishes their pursuit? Does it signify the culmination of their journey, or is it merely another phase in the twin flame expedition? Does the twin flame evader perceive any changes?
It is completely normal for the twin flame pursuer to move forward or let go. This does not (necessarily) indicate the end of the twin flame journey and often leads to the subsequent stage of the twin flame relationship, even though it may seem contradictory.
There are many misconceptions and misunderstandings surrounding this topic, so let's delve deeper into it. Whether you find yourself in the role of the runner, the pursuer, or if you're simply seeking to comprehend the twin flame journey, hopefully, this will provide you with a better understanding of the situation.
Note: If you are currently experiencing this situation, I suggest reading my guide on twin flame separation. Understanding the separation stage will help you make sense of the intense pain and spiritual turmoil, making it easier for you to navigate through it.
Is it possible for the Twin Flame Pursuer to Move On or Give Up?
The answer to this (annoyingly) is both yes and no.
In the long run, the twin flame union will happen. The two parts of their souls cannot simply "move on" from each other.
However (and I want to emphasize this frequently), it doesn't mean that union is guaranteed to occur within this lifetime. That's why we have to actively work towards making it happen.
In this lifetime? It is possible for one or both twin flames to give up on their journey. I genuinely dislike seeing this happen because the path to union is already incredibly rare, and if you have the opportunity to potentially make it happen, I believe you should make every effort to do so.
But sometimes, that might involve giving up or moving on (temporarily) for the twin flame runner.
Why Giving Up on the Twin Flame Runner Can (Sometimes) Be Beneficial
I want to approach this topic cautiously because I don't want you to simply sit back and wait for them to do all the work for you.
However, when done for the right reasons, the twin flame pursuer moving on can benefit your journey. Sometimes, that is exactly what needs to happen. Especially if you're struggling with your feelings of abandonment, and rejection, and still have personal growth to work on in your spiritual path to prepare yourself for the union.
I'm not suggesting that everyone should give up as soon as they encounter a separation phase. This phase plays a crucial role, and most of us experience it at least once. Whether it will further your spiritual journey depends on your circumstances and your counterpart.
However, I recently created a guide on a catalyst twin flame, and in essence, sometimes it takes a soul mate to help you work through karmic debts and prepare yourself for the union. I know from personal experience that this may seem completely counter-intuitive, but it could be that when the twin flame pursuer moves on and encounters a catalyst, they can truly begin working on themselves and bring an end to the separation phase for good.
Even if there isn't a catalyst twin flame involved, perhaps taking the time to focus on yourself is the right course of action. If our focus is always on the runner and their actions, it can distract us from the internal journey of self-growth, which is what truly brings us closer to the union.
I understand that it's not an easy situation to be in if you feel like giving up. There are no simple answers here, but I can assure you that you are not alone, and just because you're grappling with doubts and frustrations doesn't mean your journey has failed.
It might be that the moment you decide to move on is when your journey takes its next stride.
Does the Twin Flame Runner Notice a Change?
Once again, this answer can be quite frustrating. It can be helpful to try and understand the perspective of the twin flame runner and the spiritual awakening they are likely still awaiting.
The runner twin flame often faces unfair judgments. We tend to mistakenly assume that they simply don't care or understand what's happening, but in reality, they are often less spiritually aware than their counterpart.
If the chaser moves on, the runner is usually aware of it on some level. How they react to this can manifest in various ways and largely depends on their awareness of the journey you both are on.
Based on the many stories I've come across, here are some possible reactions:
The runner/chaser dynamic can instantly switch.
It might signify the end of the journey in this lifetime.
The runner might suddenly feel a sense of loneliness or abandonment without fully comprehending why. This feeling often triggers their journey of self-discovery.
The runner may perceive the chaser as having abandoned them and might respond with anger or resentment.
They might not consciously be aware of anything at all.
It's important to remember that their reaction will not be driven by logic. If they don't react, it doesn't mean they don't care or are intentionally trying to hurt you. They are simply not aware enough to notice or, if they do notice, they probably don't understand the energetic connection yet.
Even the twin flame runner, on a subconscious level, seeks answers. What makes it more challenging for them is that they don't even know what question they should be asking.
How Does the Chaser Feel?
If the chaser genuinely moves on, they will still not feel completely indifferent toward their twin flame. The connection will still exist, even if their focus has shifted away from it.
The chaser will experience the weight of the decision (whether intentional or not), which may lead to a period of volatile emotions. They might feel isolated, and the pain of separation might intensify in the short term.
However, if they have genuinely moved on, it will gradually become easier, although it usually doesn't happen overnight.
Will the Twin Flame Runner Come Back? Can the Chaser Change Their Mind?
Regardless of whether the chaser consciously decided to move on or it happened naturally, both twins will sense that shift on some level.
There is no fixed timeframe so it might take days, months, years, or even lifetimes, but this energetic shift will create a change. The runner may come back, the chaser may change their mind, or the entire situation might transform.
Should You Move On and Give Up Hope?
Honestly, I cannot provide a definitive answer to that question. Nobody can. Technically, there is no right or wrong answer. However, assuming your goal is to progress on your path and end the separation with your twin flame, this decision is highly specific to your twin flame journey.
I can say with certainty that pretending to move on is never the right approach. Engaging with a false twin for the wrong reasons will only add to the pain and confusion felt by both twins and prolong the separation phase. Moving on is only the right choice if you genuinely intend to do so.
The twin flame runner-chaser dynamic is complex, and constantly fluctuating, and ultimately, both of you are making decisions on both the physical and higher spiritual levels.
In short, I don't know.
If you share the specifics of your situation, I can offer a twin flame reading and provide guidance. If not, the best advice I can give is to follow your intuition in this matter.
Perhaps the result will be an unexpected turn in your journey. As long as you are open to exploring this possibility, there is nothing wrong with moving on if it feels right.
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