I need help with my situation involving Danielle! My twin flame has expressed a desire to remain friends and doesn't seem to grasp the depth of our connection. Initially, we were in a romantic relationship, but he has since distanced himself. I'm confused about what this signifies and what actions I should take.
The twin flame relationship often follows a complex path, and it's not unusual for periods of separation to occur during one's spiritual journey. If your twin flame wishes to maintain a friendship, it suggests that they might not fully comprehend the profound bond between you yet.
So, why does this happen, and what does it imply for your journey? Furthermore, how can you influence their perspective?
Why does my twin flame only want friendship?
The twin flame relationship is both intensely romantic and deeply spiritual. Your twin flame may be going through a phase of separation to shed old patterns or acquire new insights. This allows them to undergo personal growth before reuniting with you at an even deeper level than before.
Whether they are aware of the connection you share depends on their level of spiritual awareness. They might be fully conscious of the twin flame journey and your unique relationship, and they might simply be taking the time to prepare themselves.
Alternatively, they might be in the early stages of understanding the energy of the connection and may struggle to grasp it fully. They might interpret it in a way that makes sense to them, often providing excuses such as:
Not feeling ready for commitment.
Believing they are not deserving of you.
Blaming a karmic relationship.
In some cases, they might exhibit toxic behavior and deflect blame onto you for their desire to remain friends.
Can twin flames remain "just" friends?
If your twin flame wants to maintain a friendship, is it possible for it to remain that way? This is one of those situations where the answer is both "no" and "yes." Before dismissing it, let me explain. I have previously discussed this topic in the twin flame friend zone guide, but to summarize:
In this lifetime, you and your twin flame can be friends. However, in the grand scheme (spanning multiple lifetimes), twin flames are always destined to share a romantic connection. Yet, this doesn't guarantee that it will happen in the present.
That's why it is crucial to actively work on advancing your journey instead of passively waiting for them to desire more than friendship.
Persuading your twin flame to go beyond friendship
It can be frustrating when your twin flame fails to perceive the depth of the connection as you do. While you recognize the twin flame bond and envision a life partnership, they only view you as a friend (or at least that's how they behave).
You cannot force someone into something they are unprepared or unwilling to pursue (nor should you), but you can take steps to enhance the twin flame connection and elevate both your spiritual levels.
When we speak of divine timing in this journey, we don't imply sitting back and waiting for the right moment. It means reaching a stage where both of you are genuinely ready to take the next step.
If your twin flame desires friendship, it indicates that you haven't reached that stage yet, and there is work to be done.
Step one is to identify areas in your life where you might be resistant. If they aren't ready, are there aspects of yourself that also need addressing? It's time for both of you to embark on spiritual growth and remove any obstacles. This may involve letting go of past relationships or mindsets.
It might also mean focusing on your personal or professional goals. If you are new to this type of connection and just starting your journey, it may seem counterintuitive, but the path to union involves self-improvement.
Is it truly just a friendship?
I've observed cases where your twin flame desiring friendship can be seen as a way for them to reach out. They may have some awareness of the spiritual journey but lack the necessary spiritual experience to fully comprehend why they want you in their life.
They may be unable to take the initiative or articulate in words the nature of the relationship they are experiencing. They might simply know that they want you to be a part of their life, and natural progression will follow from there.
Should you spend time together as friends or opt for complete separation?
They are spending time with your twin flame solely as friends can be painful, especially if they are involved with a karmic partner or soul mate. Your twin might want to keep you in their life without realizing the pain it causes.
Whether you should continue spending time together as friends depends on the specific circumstances. If you can do so without impeding your journey, then it may be acceptable. You can still grow closer and cultivate love in other aspects of your lives together, as long as you can prioritize your growth as well.
Twin flame union is an unparalleled romantic connection, but even as a bond of friendship, it can be an incredible connection as long as it remains non-toxic. It should not hinder your progress on the journey.
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