A fear of commitment is a common aspect of the twin flame journey. Whether they are preoccupied with a false twin flame or simply expressing their unpreparedness for commitment, the underlying meaning becomes apparent upon closer examination.
On the twin flame journey, a lack of commitment indicates their awareness that you are not yet ready to achieve union.
This advice may seem counterintuitive if you are new to this journey, but it will sound familiar if you have been on this path for a while. Regardless, it is crucial to ensure understanding in either case.
Why is my twin flame hesitant to commit?
This complaint arises frequently, but it signifies a problem with our perception of the entire twin flame journey. However, and this cannot be emphasized enough, the twin flame relationship does not revolve around commitment.
Twin flames will commit in a way that aligns with your expectations, but they transcend the role of a mere romantic or karmic partner. Once they have ascended, they are practically superhuman—not physically, but spiritually.
We cannot regard it as a typical romantic relationship or place the same expectations upon it.
Let's compare it to a family member (the closest analogy that comes to mind). Do you seek commitment from your parents or siblings? Most likely not. The relationship is natural, without the need for commitment.
If you genuinely want your twin flame connection to progress, you must approach it differently from a conventional romantic connection. It is essential to recognize that we cannot view it through the same lens.
Do twin flames experience commitment issues?
At times, it may seem as though your twin flame has commitment issues due to the inherent nature of twin flame separation within the journey. While it is a bewildering period for both individuals, a fear of commitment can be a blessing.
Although a difficult phase can cause temporary pain, if your twin flame struggles with commitment, it is likely that, on some level, they know you are not yet ready for the union.
It is not that twin flame runners have commitment issues; rather, their higher selves are simply signaling that now is not the opportune time for commitment. This is not due to a lack of deep connection or the influence of a false twin flame possessing something you lack.
Instead, it is because neither of you is adequately prepared.
Twin flames mirroring the fear of commitment
I have previously discussed the concept of twin flame mirroring, which some are quick to dismiss. However, consider this: your twin flame might be reflecting your fear of commitment back to you, even if you are unaware of having such a fear.
Our ego tends to disregard this possibility, yet it is even easier to unknowingly select emotionally unavailable partners from past experiences. If you carry unresolved wounds from previous relationships, your twin flame may mirror these wounds back to you.
Especially if they are involved with a false twin flame on a physical level, it may create a sense of safety for you. Their lack of commitment cannot trigger your fear since they are not seeking your commitment. In some ways, their higher self knows you better than they know yourself.
How to Handle Your Twin Flame's Reluctance to Commit
When faced with your twin flame's resistance to committing, the solution, as is often the case on the twin flame journey, lies within yourself.
If your twin flame runner exhibits signs of commitment issues, it suggests that at least one of you still has personal growth to pursue. Frequently, this involves addressing fears of abandonment or rejection that need to be resolved.
Avoid fixating on any external false flame or focusing on predefined expectations of where your relationship should be at this stage.
Engaging in such distractions will only hinder progress in working on the areas that truly matter for both you and your twin.
To encourage your twin flame to open up and become more vulnerable, you must first embrace vulnerability within yourself. This begins by acknowledging that you may have personal growth to undertake as well and that a lack of commitment is not solely your twin flame's responsibility. Ultimately, addressing commitment issues within the twin flame dynamic requires a commitment to your healing process.
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