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TWIN FLAME PAIN – WHERE DOES IT COME FROM & WHAT TO DO WITH IT

 


The agony experienced in a Twin Flame relationship is difficult to comprehend, even for those who are involved in it. Many of us anticipate this unique karmic connection as a fairy-tale romance with minimal obstacles. However, pain is an integral component of this relationship, albeit not the dominant one. This is due to several reasons, including the fact that pain will have an impact on both individuals as they progress through the various stages of their relationship. While it may be assumed that pain is primarily associated with the Separation or Runner and Chaser stages, it will, in reality, play a role in every phase. The pain in a Twin Flame relationship is constructive and serves as a means of resolving issues that have remained hidden and unresolved. During the Separation phase, several problems will arise, causing pain and hurt feelings. However, it's important to recognize that the pain is often a result of one's past wounds and not the actions of the partner. These past wounds must be confronted and conquered to move forward in the relationship, rather than being directed at the partner.




Twin Flame pain is a shared experience between partners. When you direct your anger and blame toward your Twin Flame, it causes them pain as well. The close energetic connection between Twin Flames means that negative energy emotions will have a significant impact on each other's auras, potentially poisoning the relationship. It's essential to use the power of the connection to bring you closer together to achieve Ascension, rather than to punish each other. It's crucial to understand that the pain you are experiencing is not yours alone, but your partner is also experiencing it. Many people experience common symptoms of pain in this relationship, including depression, anxiety, soul shock, old problems resurfacing, unwanted contact with people from the past, obsessive thoughts and behaviors, jealousy, and paranoia. It's essential to prioritize avoiding or alleviating these symptoms and make them central to your spiritual practice.




Managing Twin Flame Pain


Knowing what you are going through and coping with it in daily life are two different challenges. Understanding is the first step, but finding a solution is more important. It's always better to prevent the pain from happening in the first place. Therefore, maintaining healthy communication and having a shared spiritual outlook can help balance and minimize pain in your relationship.


It's helpful to set aside a scheduled time every week or so to discuss any issues that may have arisen. This is especially beneficial for those with high levels of conflict or difficulty expressing themselves as it provides a safe space for discussion.


However, you cannot prevent everything, and past traumas will likely resurface. Therefore, it is important to engage in aura healing and energy cleansing. Keeping your chakras clear of blockages and preventing negative energy build-up is essential for dealing with past trauma.


It is important to encourage your partner to do the same, but avoid pressuring them to do so. Pressuring someone to address their problems only causes them to feel overwhelmed and not address the issue at all. Instead, offer support and help them see the issue on their own. Rather than telling them how to solve their problems, show them how you have overcome similar challenges.


Above all, patience is key. It can be challenging when you are in pain, but your partner may need to address their issues at their own pace. Use this as an opportunity to practice patience, which is a valuable skill that will serve you well throughout your relationship and life.


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