Initially, I believed that soulmates and twin flames were interchangeable terms. I believed that discovering your soulmate would also lead you to your twin flame, but I have since realized that this is not the case. It is essential to understand that soulmates and twin flames are not synonymous. If you have arrived here seeking clarity, it is natural to feel bewildered, and I can relate to that sentiment. In my personal experience, I have learned how to navigate the conflicting emotions that come with encountering a soulmate and a twin flame. Let me share my journey with you.
When I was with my first boyfriend, I believed he was "The One." However, looking back now, I realize how misguided that was. I think many of us see our first relationships as a milestone in our lives, but I was young and naive at the time. I used to believe that my first boyfriend was my soulmate and twin flame, but in hindsight, it was a far-fetched idea. We had been together for four years and went to the same school, so we were together all the time. However, I eventually realized that his possessiveness was becoming suffocating. When I saw a guy on the street who caught my eye, I couldn't stop thinking about him. I eventually found him on social media, and it hit me that I had seen him before. The memory of the first time I saw him still stands out in my mind, and it made me feel good. My relationship with my boyfriend was on the rocks, and we decided to grow up separately by attending different schools.
Moving on to a new phase of my life, I found myself on my first day of orientation in a new school as a transfer student. Being new to the place, I didn't want to be intrusive, so I chose to sit at the back of the room. Even though I preferred to sit in the front to fully grasp the orientation, I decided to observe and listen to what was being said. As soon as the orientation ended, I couldn't help but notice the group of students sitting in the front who had caught my attention. Initially, I couldn't see their faces clearly because of the crowd, but eventually, they moved and someone turned around. To my surprise, it was the same guy I had seen at the mall and on prom night! I found it amusing that we were going to be classmates. The following day, I felt an intense energy as I was new to the school and didn't know my way around. So, I arrived early and went to the faculty for guidance, and they escorted me to my classmates, who were waiting near the gym before heading to the classrooms.
Upon joining a new school, the protagonist encountered the same guy from the mall and prom night who turned out to be the president of their class. She started referring to him as "Mr. Smiley" since they frequently crossed paths. Despite her reluctance to open up, Mr. Smiley noticed her sadness and offered his support, and they became closer as friends. Though she was in a relationship, the protagonist's closeness to Mr. Smiley made her realize the toxicity of her relationship, prompting her to try new things and explore her individuality. Eventually, she and her boyfriend broke up, allowing her to rediscover herself and find joy and love beyond the confines of her previous relationship.
After years had passed, I enrolled in college, and as a young adult, I enjoyed my own company as a single person. Coincidentally, Mr. Smiley and I ended up having the same interests and taking the same course without intending to be together. Our friendship became stronger as time passed, and I gradually realized something profound. We had an intense connection but never acted upon it, as he respected my boundaries and was always there for me as a friend. Despite my vulnerability and longing, he didn't take advantage of me but instead offered his support without any ulterior motive. I now recognize him as my twin flame, as we share the same values and intellectual compatibility. Our relationship has helped me figure out my strengths and weaknesses, and although there were moments when we felt overly dependent on each other, I know that the universe brought him into my life for unconditional love, unlike any other relationship I've experienced. While it's challenging to remain just friends, I believe that we will someday leap to become a couple. Until then, we will continue to grow together for each other and ourselves. He is my yin to the yang, the light to my dark.
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