TWIN FLAME HEALING: UNDERSTANDING THE PROCESS

 Do you wonder why your twin flame is not responding to you? They may be doing it for a good reason. As runners tend to have their internal struggles that cause them to ignore their twin flame. For instance, I tend to distance myself from my twin flame because I acknowledge my imperfections, and I don't want them to be affected by them. To be the best version of myself for my twin flame, I have to do some inner work. So, if your twin flame is ignoring you, it might be because they have realized a flaw within themselves that they need to address before you can connect on a deeper level. In this situation, you can support them by being patient and reliable, which would help them through their healing process without feeling guilty or ashamed.

Perhaps your twin flame's avoidance behavior is due to their attachment style. As someone who used to have an avoidant attachment style myself, I know firsthand that it can be challenging for others to decipher my true feelings. Initially, I may seem open and interested, but then I tend to pull away as soon as things start to get too serious. Consider the possibility that your twin flame may be avoidant if they exhibit the following characteristics: fear of rejection and abandonment, prioritize independence over commitment and struggle with trust issues. However, this doesn't necessarily mean that things are hopeless. It could simply mean that they recognize the potential for a deeper connection between you both, but their avoidant tendencies are holding them back. So, what can you do if your twin flame is avoidant and ignoring you? Here are three strategies you might find helpful.

It's important to exercise patience when dealing with an avoidant twin flame who may need some time and space to sort out their thoughts and feelings. Use this as an opportunity to focus on your well-being while giving them the necessary breathing room. It's crucial not to overthink the situation and jump to conclusions as it may not always be about you. Don't create imaginary scenarios in your mind that could cause unnecessary stress and lead you to seek constant reassurance. Remember to allow them the time and space they need to work through their emotions. You can offer reassurance that they can come back to you when they are ready, which can ease any guilt they may feel for pulling away. This approach can make them feel more comfortable opening up to you about their feelings and ways to handle them, knowing they can trust you and that you won't run away.

If your twin flame is hesitant to discuss sensitive topics or engage in deep, emotional conversations with you, it could be that they are afraid of being vulnerable. They may feel the need to protect their masculinity and be guarded around you. While this is something they need to work on themselves, there are ways you can help them feel safe and secure around you. One way is to pay attention to their interests and passions, whether it be their family, friends, hobbies, or fashion trends. Show a genuine interest in what matters to them and avoid making insensitive comments that could make them feel bad for caring about these things. It's crucial to create an environment where they feel comfortable being their true selves without fear of judgment or invalidation.

Is it not difficult to establish trust and intimacy from a distance? Maintaining communication, seeking reassurance from your partner, and dealing with loneliness requires extra effort that not everyone is willing to put in.

If you and your twin flame are in a long-distance relationship and they are ignoring you, it could be that the distance is not working for them.

So, what can you do to make it work?

If moving closer is not an option, consider setting aside dedicated time for long calls. This time should be uninterrupted and solely focused on catching up with each other without any time restrictions.

Being present and thoughtful in communication is essential for maintaining your connection.

Planning visits and having a clear expectation of when you will see each other again can also provide assurance.

Knowing that you will see each other again gives them something to look forward to and hold onto.

There are various reasons why your twin flame may be testing their connection with other people, such as seeking validation, boredom, or exploring their options. However, they may be doing this to confirm their unique and special connection with you or doubting their feelings. By seeing other people, they may be testing whether they only feel this way with you or if they could feel it with others too. It's crucial to give them space and time to realize the divine connection you share and determine what they want to do about it. This phase presents an opportunity for you to shift your focus to yourself and avoid pursuing them.

Could you rephrase this paragraph, please?

Are you the reason why your twin flame is ignoring you? Although many of the reasons why they are ignoring you are internal, there may also be instances where you have caused them to ignore you. However, this is nothing to be overly concerned about. With good intentions and effort, you can learn how to improve and be better for your twin flame.

There are several reasons why you might be causing your twin flame to ignore you, including:

You don't know their love language

Just like you, your twin flame wants to feel loved in ways that they understand and appreciate. If you don't know their love language, you might not be doing much to make them feel valued, loved, and cared for. They might think that you're not interested or that you're not the right match because you're not expressing your love in ways that work for them.

For instance, if your twin flame's love language is physical touch, they might want to be comforted through touch when they're upset. However, if you spend the next ten minutes being logical about what happened, they might not feel comforted and could even feel that their emotions are being dismissed.

If you don't know your twin flame's love language, it's not too late. You can ask them directly or try asking these questions to help them figure it out:

When you're sharing a problem with me, would you like me to give you some advice, or do you prefer that I listen and be close to you?

If you're celebrating a milestone or an occasion, how can I share in your excitement? Should I get you a gift, offer words of affirmation, or cook you a meal?

By knowing your twin flame's love language, you can show your feelings in a language that they understand, making them feel valued and loved.

This paragraph discusses the importance of expressing one's feelings to their twin flame and how failing to do so could lead to misunderstandings and distance in the relationship.

It's frustrating when your twin flame doesn't express their feelings through words or compliments. It can be hard to assume that they like you, especially when you don't want to misinterpret their actions or assume malice in innocent gestures. This could lead to confusion and cause you to distance yourself from them, assuming that you're just friends.

To avoid this, you need to reflect on how you express your feelings. Do you appreciate and thank them when they do something for you? Do you share your thoughts and feelings with them? Don't get too comfortable in the idea that you're twin flames and automatically bonded, as maintaining a strong connection requires conscious effort. Verbalizing your emotions can help your twin flame feel secure and strengthen your relationship. If you don't express your feelings enough, your twin flame may feel ignored or unimportant, causing them to distance themselves from you.

You may not be solely responsible for providing your twin flame with a sense of security, as it is ultimately their responsibility to find it within themselves. However, in a relationship, creating a feeling of security is a shared responsibility. If your twin flame is feeling insecure, it could be because of something you are or aren't doing. As their twin flame, you have the opportunity to help them feel more secure in your connection by demonstrating your commitment to them and your divine bond. This can be accomplished through actions such as using their love language and expressing their emotions through verbal communication. Additionally, asking them how you can show your commitment and provide them with security can also be beneficial.

Why is it crucial to understand their reasons for ignoring you? Though it may be daunting and unsettling to confront the reasons why your twin flame is ignoring you, it is an essential step in your journey to gain clarity about what you both want in your relationship moving forward. Understanding the reasons could lead to reconciliation or separation, but the clarity it provides will help you both find closure.

What can you do if your twin flame is ignoring you? There are different approaches depending on the reasons behind their behavior. Communicating directly with them remains the best option to obtain an accurate answer. If they are unwilling to communicate, seeking advice from a neutral third party might be helpful. Nevertheless, it is important to remember that losing yourself while trying to understand your twin flame's actions can harm your mental and emotional well-being. Therefore, prioritizing self-love and setting healthy boundaries is crucial in the process of saving your connection.