TWIN FLAME HEALING: UNDERSTANDING THE PROCESS

 

I believe many of you have read my previous article on "Twin Flame & Soul Mate... The Difference." If you haven't, I encourage you to do so. This article aims to shed more light on twin flames and their purpose in each other’s lives. The concept of twin flames is not as widely known as that of soul mates. Soul mates can be anyone from your mother, brother, sister, or friend, as we all have a soul tribe. Often, past relationships are karmic, meaning they are romantic bonds formed with someone in your soul group, designed to heal past life lessons and pain. These karmic relationships are a type of soul mate connection that, while challenging, everyone experiences.

You only have one twin flame. Biblically, Genesis 2:23 suggests the existence of a twin flame, depending on interpretation. It says, "And Adam said, 'This is now bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman because she was taken out of Man.'" A twin flame, also known as a twin soul, is someone you are destined to feel connected to on a physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual level. Your twin flame is your friend, lover, and teacher in this life, acting as a catalyst for your spiritual growth and mirroring your deepest desires, needs, and fears. They reflect your inner shadows, deepest beauty, and greatest strengths—they are your mirror.

As George Eliot wrote, “What greater thing is there for two human souls than to feel that they are joined for life? They are there to strengthen each other and to be at one with each other in silent unspeakable memories.” Twin flames have specific plans as souls; their purpose is intertwined. This union involves fulfilling a journey together, from healing and uplifting others to spreading light. It is said that twin souls are always connected by a heart cord, ensuring they never lose touch. This connection is felt upon their first meeting, and once your twin flame enters your life, they will always be part of it.

When your twin flame enters your life, you immediately recognize their significance. This marks the beginning of a new phase in your life, often occurring when you least expect it—perhaps when you are not seeking a relationship or have entered a new personal phase. They bring the soul-awakening wisdom you need, propelling you into a deeper level of self-discovery.

Gary Zukav describes the spiritual partnership between new females and males as a journey of mutual spiritual growth. He says, “Their love and trust keep them together. Their intuition guides them. They consult with each other. They are friends. They laugh a lot. They are equals. That is what a spiritual partnership is: a partnership between equals for spiritual growth.”

You don't fall blindly in love with your twin soul. Falling implies risk and uncertainty. With your twin flame, you walk into love, effortlessly and naturally. This love is distinct, felt deeply by the heart, even when the mind cannot fully comprehend it. Loving your twin flame is easy and feels like the most natural thing.

Together, you and your twin flame undergo soul work to become the best versions of yourselves. While you may have started self-improvement before meeting them, the journey with them is more intense and transformative. The true purpose of the twin flame connection is to reveal all the baggage, both conscious and unconscious, that has hindered your growth. They serve as your imperfect perfect mirror, showing you your strengths, weaknesses, and areas that still need healing.

The union with your twin flame allows you to peel away the layers of the exterior you've built for survival. Their presence and wisdom help you reveal these layers, acting as your imperfect perfect mirror. Through this reflection, you begin to see your inner beauty, strengths, and weaknesses, and you start to unpack and work through these layers. Survival instincts serve you for a limited time, but as you grow and tap into your subconscious, you realize you need to let go of these instincts to reach a higher level of consciousness. You no longer feel the need to be in survival mode; you feel awakened.

Julie Dillon eloquently states, “Our universe grants every soul a twin—a reflection of themselves—the kindred spirit. And no matter where they are or how far away they are from each other—even if they are in different dimensions—they will always find one another. This is destiny; this is love.” This union is extraordinary, despite some misconceptions. It is a divine connection that accelerates personal development, careers, projects, and passions. You both excel in these areas, releasing a surge of creative energy for your joint mission on Earth. This union is more intense than any other, operating on a soul-spiritual level.

When twin flames reunite, they experience accelerated spiritual growth and awakening. Meeting your twin flame feels different yet familiar because you recognize each other's souls, vibrations, and frequencies. Through their mirror, you experience profound acceptance of yourself. They fulfill you in areas that have been dormant and see your essence and potential. A twin flame relationship is characterized by true acknowledgment of the heart and soul.

Plato described it well: “…and when one of them meets the other half, the actual half of himself, whether he be a lover of youth or a lover of another sort, the pair are lost in an amazement of love and friendship and intimacy and one will not be out of the other’s sight, as I may say, even for a moment…”

Together, you and your twin flame become a powerful team of love, empathy, and compassion. The foundation of this union is not only love but also the merging of purposes. Your love is contagious, and others can see how effortlessly and powerfully you complement each other. You both exemplify true unconditional love, having worked through heartaches and learned from your experiences apart. Fear no longer holds value in this union. You are both authentically yourselves, accepting each other as you are. This soul-spiritual connection brings you into harmony. In the process of letting go, the heart recognizes why you need each other. Together, you are here to make a difference in your lives.