To begin with, it's crucial to understand that a twin flame relationship is remarkably distinct from any previous experiences you might have had. While you may have engaged in hand-holding or kissed someone in the past, entering into a twin flame connection surpasses these encounters. The moments shared in a twin flame relationship are so intense that they overshadow the memories of other firsts with different individuals.
Initial experiences with your twin flame are exceptionally powerful, inducing soul-shaking sensations that surpass any tingling sensation experienced with others. Prior to encountering my twin flame, I was grappling with two jobs, financial struggles, and a persistent sense of loneliness.
First Encounter
The first meeting with your twin flame differs significantly from encounters with anyone else. Although the specifics vary for each pair, the universal sentiment among twin flames is that it's incomparable to meeting anyone else. Some recount feeling a momentary pause in the world as they locked eyes, while others describe an intense magnetic attraction compelling them to engage with their twin flame after the initial encounter.
While there are diverse testimonies about twin flames, a common thread is that the first meeting with your twin flame stands out from any other encounter. Nevertheless, a word of caution is warranted, as there are individuals who may seem like your twin flame but are actually not. These are known as false twin flames, and although not inherently malevolent, they can divert your focus from your true twin flame, offering a nearly identical first impression.
Encountering false twin flames, who may be more than one, has a lesser impact compared to meeting the true twin flame. Yet, the intensity of the experience may lead to mistaking it for that of a genuine twin flame.
Have you heard the account of my friend Lisa? She often spoke of a distinct, electric sensation when she first touched someone's hand at a coffee shop—a touch that transcended the ordinary and felt like the alignment of the universe.
Initial Touch
If the first meeting with your twin flame is already intense, the first touch amplifies this intensity further. The degree of intensity depends on the nature of the initial touch, whether it's a simple hand-holding session or a more intimate contact. Unlike conventional relationships, where the first touch might be the pinnacle, in a twin flame relationship, the first touch is just the beginning of an escalating intensity.
While the first kiss surpasses the intensity of the first hand-holding session, the first twin flame intimacy surpasses the first kiss. Some may even experience all these soul-shaking moments in a single day. The key takeaway is that engaging in these actions sends profound shocks to your souls.
What distinguishes twin flame relationships is that subsequent touches become even more intense. In conventional relationships, the first touch is often considered the best, and subsequent touches may become routine. Yet, in a twin flame connection, each touch surpasses the last, akin to the enhancement of flavor in aging wine. It never becomes monotonous because it remains an ever-evolving experience.
Categories of Initial Touches
While briefly discussed earlier, there are distinct layers to various types of touches, particularly those of a more intimate nature. The following outlines the kinds of touches in ascending order of intensity.
Bump
At the lowest level of touching, there is the bump. Whether it happens accidentally or intentionally, it falls into this category. Light touches or nudges are also encompassed within the bump classification. Despite being the least intense, engaging in this level is a progression from the initial meeting stage, still resulting in soul shocks of greater intensity compared to mere conversation.
Hold
Twin flames exhibit diverse levels of conservatism. Some take an extended period to reach the hand-holding stage, while others may engage in it almost immediately upon meeting. There's nothing inherently wrong with being conservative; it merely implies a unique timeline for experiencing different stages. For those who lean towards conservatism, delaying the hand-holding stage may be beneficial to avoid overwhelming soul shocks. Numerous twin flames have encountered separation stages triggered by the intensity of soul shocks during hand-holding. Taking one's time and avoiding haste is crucial, as each twin flame journey unfolds uniquely.
Kiss
The third stage of twin flame touch involves kissing. This stage can be a significant trigger for separation, especially for conservative individuals, predominantly females in the role of the runner twin flame. However, even for those less conservative, this stage marks a substantial advancement from hand-holding. Effective communication is vital at this juncture, as assumptions about your twin flame's understanding can lead to misunderstandings. Various twin flames report diverse experiences with their first kiss, ranging from a volcanic eruption within their souls to a soothing balm applied to a burning sensation, evoking feelings of safety and security.
Intercourse
The highest intensity touching stage is intercourse, and even non-conservatives find this to be one of the most triggering aspects of a twin flame journey. The soul shocks experienced during sexual intercourse surpass those of hand-holding, often leading to twin flame separation stages. Interestingly, many twin flames transition to the intercourse stage immediately after the kissing stage, generating a strong soul shock within moments. The intensity of twin flame relationships becomes apparent through such experiences.
It's important to note that the sexual intercourse stage does not equate to the true twin flame union stage in the twin flame journey. Misunderstandings, particularly among the younger generation, abound regarding the true nature of the union stage. True twin flame union is a spiritual event, not a physical one. It is not consummated through sexual intercourse or marriage. Recognition of the true union stage in your twin flame journey occurs on a spiritual level, and one will know when they have reached it as twin flames.
If you're not prepared for the sexual intercourse stage, delaying it is entirely valid. Twin flame journeys are inherently unique, and attempting to emulate others' experiences may not align with your own.
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