Love is a complex phenomenon, yet it holds a remarkably straightforward essence. Today, I draw inspiration from the shared experiences of fellow twin flames, Freedom Franklin, and her divine partner Dustin. In their insightful videos, they delve into the intricacies of their twin flame journey, revealing the efforts that led to their harmonious union. As I watched, I discovered striking parallels between the profound connection and challenging growth they underwent and my journey with my twin flame.
In the second video, Freedom articulated a sentiment that resonated deeply with me and prompted the creation of this post. She highlighted the common confusion between love and connection. It's a notion worth reflecting upon – the tendency to mistake mere connections for genuine, pure love. A connection can be established with various individuals, but it doesn't automatically translate into authentic, profound love. Often, people attempt to force a connection to fit the mold of love.
I previously explored the idea of entering a union with a twin flame attracting numerous potential partners. Consider those fleeting moments in a grocery store or coffee shop when eye contact is made, and a brief connection occurs without the need for words. It's a moment where someone glimpses the beauty within your energy, influenced by the divine connection shared with your twin flame. These encounters, where individuals are momentarily captivated by your beauty, emphasize the fine line between connection and true love.
How does this tie into the concept of surrender?
In every conceivable way. If you find yourself and your twin flame navigating through periods of conflict, entangled with karmic partners, grappling with triggers and unresolved wounds, or simply traversing a challenging phase together, it's a signal to surrender.
I've emphasized before, and it bears repeating – when divine feminines, fueled by their chaser energy and often drawing from wounded feminine traits, embody qualities that divine masculines may perceive as intimidating or overwhelming, such as clinginess, demands, insecurity, manipulation, smothering, neediness, aggression, and excessive emotional expression. If the fireworks between you and your twin flame are sparking negatively, it's time to release your grip and let go.
It's time to embrace surrender, and if you find yourself resonating with these words, karmic partners, this message is for you as well. Surrendering doesn't imply giving up on the person you hold dear; quite the opposite.
It involves releasing the tight grip that inadvertently smothers the object of your affection. This smothering is not an outcome of genuine love but is instead driven by your ego and fears – fears of being hurt, fears of losing them.
Let's clarify what surrender is not:
Surrender is not attempting to do the inner work for your divine partner or coercing them into recognizing your connection.
It's not resorting to arguments, name-calling, or inappropriate behavior to assert your perspective or win disputes with your beloved.
Surrender is not about forcing the twin flame connection into old paradigms or treating this relationship like previous ones.
It's not engaging in a power struggle with your twin flame's karmic partner, if there is one, to control the outcome.
Surrender is not using substances to numb your pain or escaping through harmful patterns passed down by ancestors.
It is not driven by hatred or blind control, characterized by controlling and temperamental behavior.
Surrender is not about giving up, walking away, or succumbing to frustration and defeatism.
It is not convincing yourself that twin flames are not real and spiritual ascension is mere nonsense when deep down, you know it's authentic.
Now, let's explore what surrender truly is:
Surrender is placing trust in your divine partner to grow and ascend independently, making the right decisions for themselves. While you grow together, individual growth is pivotal to bringing that extraordinary love back to your union.
It involves trusting the universe and having faith that it will catch you when you take a leap of faith. The twin flame union transcends mere physicality, codependency, or outdated relationship templates – it's orchestrated by the universe to succeed.
Surrender is also about trusting yourself, loving, and being mindful of the energies you allow into your personal space. Embrace your authenticity, your God-self, while acknowledging your human nature and imperfections.
It means relinquishing control, particularly for divine feminines and masculines. Stop expecting things to unfold precisely as you envision and start trusting that the universe will unfold events as they should. Surrender liberates you from the burdens of fear, insecurity, selfishness, self-hatred, childhood trauma, abandonment issues, and codependency.
Remember, surrender is an ongoing process. Even after coming into union with your twin flame, it requires continuous effort to release negative thought patterns, harmful ancestral templates, triggers, and wounds.
I'll leave you with these thoughts to ponder. This journey may seem confusing at times, but find solace in the guidance the universe provides.
Love yourself, love your twin flame, love others, and love the universe. Protect yourself from negativity while radiating your warm light and love to a world in need.
Now that we've clarified what surrender entails, are you ready to release and let go?
So, as we stand at the crossroads of surrender, the decision lies in your hands. Are you prepared to release the burdens, relinquish control, and allow the natural flow of the universe to guide you?
Remember, surrender is not a one-time event; it's an ever-evolving process. Even after the union with your twin flame, it demands a daily commitment to let go of negative patterns, ancestral influences, triggers, and wounds.
As you embark on this journey, let these thoughts settle within you. Amidst the confusion and uncertainties, take comfort in the assurance that the universe is your guiding force.
Love yourself unconditionally, extend that love to your twin flame, and radiate it outward to others and the universe. Shield yourself from negativity, but let your bright and warm light be a source of positivity in a world that craves it.
Now, with a clear understanding of what surrender entails, the question echoes: Are you ready to free yourself, embrace the unknown, and embark on a path guided by the universe's wisdom?
The choice is yours. Trust the journey, trust yourself, and surrender to the infinite possibilities that await.
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