Given the significant shift of my work towards the exploration of twin flames, I felt it was time to delve deeper into this realm through my writing. The magnetism of Twin Flame clients toward my work became apparent when my journey with twin flame was well underway. Addressing the topic is delicate due to various reasons, primarily the widespread misunderstanding of what twin flames truly represent. There exists a prevalent confusion, with many individuals erroneously conflating twin flames with soul mates. The misconceived, romanticized notion of twin flames often clashes with the harsh reality. Genuine twin flames frequently express a desire not to be acquainted with their counterpart, as the journey proves to be challenging. Those who lack the twin flame experience tend to label such connections as toxic relationships, unable to comprehend why anyone would endure the common struggles inherent in most twin flame dynamics. Having worked extensively with Twin Flames, I now possess a comprehensive understanding of their shared experiences, a topic I plan to explore further in the future. However, today, my focus is on the intriguing aspect of sex within twin flame connections.
I am a member of a twin flame forum where a variety of topics are discussed. It is fascinating to observe the questions, responses from self-proclaimed twin flame "experts," and the ensuing discussions. Many of these experts draw from their personal experiences, having walked or still walking the twin flame journey. Similar to my background, they also work closely with numerous twin flames, providing them with insights into the commonalities that arise. Recently, a query surfaced on the forum, inquiring about the implications of ceasing sexual activity with a twin flame. A knowledgeable contributor shared an opinion suggesting that not many twin flames engage in sexual activities. This perspective faced criticism from those recounting extraordinary sexual experiences with their twin flames. Given my personal experiences and interactions with numerous twin flames globally, I decided to contribute my insights to the discussion.
Indeed, it holds that a considerable number of twin flames abstain from engaging in sexual activities. The journey of most twin flames rarely progresses to that extent before one of them decides to withdraw. The majority of twin flames find themselves not in a union, let alone in a relationship. Upon examining the level of union in twin flame dynamics, I can assert that many genuine twin flames, even if they have encountered each other, are not prepared for such a profound connection. Thus, I harbor skepticism regarding the claims of individuals experiencing mind-blowing sexual encounters with their purported twin flames; more likely, they are deeply connected, soul mates or karmic partners. I can attest to this based on my own experiences, as there were instances before meeting my twin flame when I mistakenly believed I was with them due to extraordinary experiences with other sacred partners. It becomes apparent that such experiences can arise in any sacred union where both individuals resonate equally across their chakras, provided their chakras are clear, and the kundalini energy is awakened. The problem arises when individuals hastily label their relationships as twin flame connections.
While all relationships possess sacredness and purpose, it's crucial to differentiate a twin flame "connection" from a typical relationship. The term "connection" is more fitting, as twin flames come together for a spiritual mission. In contrast, soul mates can easily adopt a romantic aspect, cohabit, and live contentedly until their contractual obligations are fulfilled. Romanticizing twin flame connections undermines their essence, as they are centered around choosing the divine over the human, focusing on ascension, and, eventually, a spiritual mission. A harmonious union that may evolve into a relationship is possible if both twins have sufficiently healed their wounds. However, fixation on romance or sexual distractions can lead to separation, as the core of this connection is rooted in divinity and the fulfillment of soul and divine purpose. Unlike soul mate relationships, twin flame connections endure indefinitely and are eternal. To achieve union, one must redirect focus inward and resist the tendency to romanticize the profound nature of the twin flame connection.
Attempting to move on from your twin flame may seem like a plausible endeavor, but the truth remains that forgetting your twin flame is an impossibility. An eternal bond unites you, and this connection is indelible, resistant to any attempts at severance.
Within the dynamic of your twin flame connection, you will encounter precisely what you need to address to attain greater enlightenment. This could entail one twin grappling with profound wounds or endeavoring to dispel lingering shadows. Each twin comprehends their mission based on their most significant challenge. The journey involves the resolution of karmic elements, either between the twins themselves or assisting one another in clearing any residual karma elsewhere. Essentially, they serve as the ultimate catalysts, capable of triggering you to the greatest extent, functioning as profound mirrors reflecting the aspects you need to master. The term "master" is preferred over "healing" because some twins may already be in a state of mastery. Thus, the twin arrives, aligning with your frequency but often at the opposite end of the spectrum, resulting in their apparent toxicity. However, from a divine perspective, everything unfolds according to a higher plan. Consider a scenario where you've achieved a high degree of mastery, spiritual evolution, or healing, yet there remains an unfinished aspect. In such cases, you are likely to attract a challenging taskmaster as your twin flame—someone grappling with the resolution of their contract with the dark side. They require your profound light to uplift them, while you benefit from their darker side to unearth and heal your deepest wounds. The essence of this journey lies in healing polarity, and the greater your light, the more challenging your task with your twin flame is likely to be. This journey is one of mastery and unconditional love, demanding that you demonstrate your capability and worthiness.
Contrary to popular belief, it is not always the twin flame that awakens the other. While this can be true, it is not a universal rule. For example, I had already undergone awakening, and ascension, and commenced my ascension mission four years before encountering my twin flame. However, it took eight years before mutual recognition began. In my case, I played the role of awakening my twin flame, and in turn, he aided me in fortifying my mastery on multiple levels. Your twin flame serves as your greatest teacher, yet true learning only occurs when you are willing to acknowledge your weaknesses and transform them into strengths.
What I've observed is that many twin flames, even those who are spiritually awakened, often find themselves entangled in the allure of a traditional "relationship." I constantly find the need to scrutinize my tendencies in this regard. When one becomes fixated on the idea of a "relationship," the genuine essence of the connection can be obscured, leading the twin flames to separate until they grasp, comprehend, and embrace the authentic purpose of the twin flame journey. I'm not suggesting that having a relationship is incompatible, but what I am emphasizing is that a preoccupation with a conventional "relationship" can act as a distraction from the true path. Until one can steadfastly navigate their path and fulfill their purpose, the cycle of separation from the twin flame persists. This situation introduces another complication—often, one twin opts to concentrate on their ascension or purpose while still harboring the belief that this will reunite the twin flames. In essence, they've missed the essence entirely, as they are still attached to a specific outcome. The surrender of twin flames is paramount. Without complete surrender, the cycles of disagreement and separation persist. Separation phases play a crucial role, offering the necessary time for healing and integration. With awareness and understanding, one can recognize the opportune moments for separation. Accepting that separation is temporary becomes imperative, even if the desire for a permanent break may arise. Some twin flames choose physical separation for a lifetime, opting to be with a soul mate, yet the persistent thoughts of the twin flame linger like a haunting presence.
Now, circling back to the question of "what happens when you stop having sex with your twin flame?" Perhaps a more pertinent query would be, "What unfolds after engaging in sexual intimacy with your twin flame?" The answer lies in a profound healing crisis, integral to the purpose of the sexual connection. This intimate experience delves into the core, unearthing any residual wounds for resolution. It's frequently noted that post-sex, one twin may initiate a period of separation. The intensity of the experience can overwhelm, triggering deep-seated issues. This reaction is intentional, creating an opportunity for profound healing. Conscious awareness during this phase facilitates a swifter passage, but unconscious engagement risks overlooking the transformative gift inherent in the experience. When both twins are cognizant of their twin flame status and have mutually acknowledged the connection, it becomes easier to allow space for each other, enabling one or both to navigate their healing phase. Honoring the necessary separation period and surrendering to the present circumstance creates the needed space for the other twin to undergo healing. Succumbing to the fear that they may not return only perpetuates the separation. Thus, total surrender becomes a vital element in achieving a complete union.
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