Several prevalent misunderstandings can significantly impact those on the twin flame journey. This discussion continues from Part 1.
The belief is that I must cling to my life until my twin flame returns.
The twin flame journey revolves around learning not to cling while maintaining faith and openness to the unexpected. When separation occurs, and your Twin Flame departs, many individuals find themselves in a state of perpetual waiting for their twin flame's return. This inclination is understandable, as it is natural to lose interest in dating others when your sole focus is on your twin flame. Since it is advisable to remain open, your twin flame can reappear at any point in the future. However, this does not imply that you should put your life on hold for their return. Doing so hinders your progress, leading to a state of waiting and expectation that can cause disappointment, anxiety, desperation, and vulnerability. Ultimately, this results in a negative vibration that is not conducive to achieving union. It is essential to learn to live life to the fullest and love life even when your twin flame is absent. You can meet new people, date, explore new interests, learn, and gain different experiences. Personally, in my journey, my twin flame reappeared multiple times when I least expected it, and each return held great significance for both of us in this journey.
The misconception that I've surrendered, so I should cease thinking about my twin flame and forget them.
First, it's crucial to understand what you are surrendering and to whom you are surrendering. You are surrendering your doubts, anxiety, and logic to the Divine. Surrender does not require you to stop thinking about your twin flame, as this is practically impossible. Twin flames share an energetic connection and are in constant mutual awareness. There is nothing wrong with thinking about or remembering your twin flame while practicing surrender. Attempting to forget them creates internal resistance, which should not be present in a state of surrender. True surrender involves entrusting your worries, doubts, and the path you are on to the Divine without resistance. If you recall your twin flame, send them love and a smile; this is the most natural state you can be in.
The idea is that I need to be "sexually loyal" to my twin flame and expect the same from them, as this is a sacred connection.
While the sexual attraction in a twin flame connection can be intense, it is not about sexual loyalty. This connection is far from a conventional relationship and serves a spiritual purpose. Some people mistakenly associate the sacredness of the connection with sexuality, which is off the mark. The sacredness of the twin flame connection encompasses much more than its sexual aspect. Conventional romantic relationships involve commitments, mutual expectations, ground rules, morals, and do's and don'ts to maintain the relationship. If these rules are violated, the relationship often ends. In contrast, the twin flame dynamic is entirely different. Many meet their twin flames while in existing happy marriages or relationships, and their twin flames may also be in similar situations. Most twin flames never officially date or engage in a sexual relationship with each other. Some have even met their twin flame only once in their lives. The twin flame connection is not about sexual commitment, loyalty, marriage, or having children. It is not rooted in possessiveness or asserting rights over the other person.
The perception that I am the one suffering, while my unawakened twin flame escapes consequences and enjoys their life.
It may seem like your twin flame is getting away with everything, but that is a misleading perspective. Your twin flame, especially if they are the runner or in a state of confusion, may be undergoing more significant challenges than you. As an awakened twin, you have realized the profound nature of this connection and its spiritual significance. You understand that there is more to it than mere attraction. However, your twin flame, particularly if they are unaware of this larger picture, may be struggling with their confusion and turmoil. They might be going through even more profound struggles than you. While you have the option to believe in divine intervention and their eventual return, many runners do not have this understanding. Another perspective is that they may have already learned their lessons, either in this life or previous ones, and now it is your turn to complete your part of the journey. In the twin flame journey, both twins have pre-defined roles to play, with one being spiritually aware and the other operating in a more conventional manner. This design ensures that neither twin is escaping their responsibilities, and both must undergo the experiences necessary for their growth and union.
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