For numerous twin flames presently inhabiting Earth, the recent shifts occurring over the past few years have strained our relationships, leading some of us to disengage and terminate the complex connection. What steps can be taken and what should you anticipate if you encounter yourself in this circumstance?
Upon encountering information regarding twin flames, I came across a piece that conveyed a similar notion: when a twin flame enters the world, their entire life is characterized by a sense of something missing, a vague awareness that persists until the day they encounter their twin flame.
At that juncture, the void is filled, and an overwhelming sense of completion ensues, rendering separation from their twin flame an experience of profound loss.
The extent of this loss was something I hadn't foreseen, catching me off guard when I decided to part ways with my twin flame.
What is the Emotional Experience Like?
For those who are twin flames, your life journey has probably encompassed spiritual dimensions, trials, and adversities, leaving you well-acquainted with emotional pain. I can attest to that myself.
However, the impact of severing ties with my twin flame surpassed my expectations. Initially, the sense of moving toward something significant dissipates, leaving me with a feeling of void regarding future romantic prospects. It's as if the excitement in matters of love has been extinguished, and I find myself devoid of hope in that domain, an unprecedented sentiment.
Furthermore, an odd sense of completeness pervades me. This is unusual, given that I've seldom encountered a relationship that truly fulfilled my needs. Yet, after the separation, an undeniable sense of wholeness prevails, as if no romantic connection could augment what I already possess. Strangely, I am now convinced that I no longer desire a relationship, an unfamiliar inclination considering my historical preference for companionship.
The Subsequent Love Lesson
Reflecting on this sense of completeness ultimately led me to realize the subsequent lesson in love, following the experience of a twin flame connection and its loss.
While the universe and our mentors often impart that there's always more to learn and experience, one might wonder what could surpass the lesson of a twin flame union—a relationship founded on the epitome of self-love and acceptance. In this kind of connection, profound love is directed towards a different facet of one's soul, a unique form of self-love.
So, what comes next? The answer is Messianic love—an all-encompassing ability to love unconditionally. This doesn't imply that one will easily find a suitable recipient for this love or someone capable of embracing its intensity. Nevertheless, as the process of healing from the rupture of the soul progresses, a profound love for all beings begins to emerge. This newfound capacity for conscious and deliberate expression of love signifies a transformation.
In essence, this signifies that one must actively choose to love the next person as part of this subsequent lesson in love. The euphoric rush of falling in love is likely behind, and this post-separation journey will be transformative, even if it isn't immediately comforting or delightful.
Why Does Separation Occur?
Given the apparent perfect alignment and significance of twin flame connections, why do a considerable number of these relationships reach an end?
Upon the birth of twin flames, each twin carries inherent dualities akin to the yin-yang concept. They complement each other by coexisting, with each embodying dominant traits supplemented by a hint of the opposing characteristic. This balance continues when they unite on the earthly plane, seeking equilibrium within their inherent dualities.
Sometimes, these dualities are stark and challenging. Often, they are compounded by karmic patterns, with the complexity of lessons increasing over multiple lifetimes. Many twin flames grapple with profound disparities in personalities, desires, and requirements necessary to sustain the relationship (reflecting their dualities). This challenge is exacerbated by the universe's assignment of demanding lessons, considering the numerous lifetimes these souls have been engaged in in this process.
Combined with the tumultuous energetic shifts and the disruptive nature of these changes, it's unsurprising that a significant number of twin flame unions are struggling to withstand the pressure.
How Can You Navigate This Difficult Phase?
Two indicators signaled to me that my relationship was a twin flame bond: first, any therapeutic session aimed at us treated us as a unified entity rather than separate individuals.
Secondly, from the moment of our encounter, our energies seemed to clash, leading to disruptions. If one was thriving, the other faced challenges. This dynamic presented multiple instances where our experiences mirrored each other.
This realization prompted me to explore a potential solution: if working on our energies sequentially continued to disrupt our synchrony, perhaps focusing on both of us concurrently could restore balance.
This prompted a series of Body Talk sessions targeting our connection, aiming to harmonize crucial energies within the relationship, encompassing areas such as career, finances, commitment, focus, vitality, and luck. This endeavor yielded positive changes.
Subsequently, I instituted a daily ritual to energetically connect with my twin flame, harmonizing our energies each morning. Furthermore, when engaging in forgiveness and release work, I now include him, extending these intentions to encompass him as well. Attempts to suppress or block him have proven counterproductive, inducing distress and obstructing my concentration. When these struggles arise, reinforcing our energetic bonds and directing continuous forgiveness energy through them has proven helpful.
Ultimately, this is but one chapter in a series of lifetimes shared. Holding onto resentment or perpetual unforgiveness towards oneself is unsustainable. While the process will be incredibly painful, the aforementioned strategies can facilitate managing the pain, expediting recovery, and establishing a foundation for rekindling the capacity to love. Both you and your twin flame deserve this eventual happiness.
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