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What It’s Like To Be The Twin Flame Chaser

 


Are you the one pursuing your Twin Flame but finding them running away whenever you try to get close? This is a common occurrence on the Twin Flame journey, but there's no need to worry because it can be resolved. The runner/chaser dynamic in Twin Flames involves one Twin Flame running while the other pursues. However, this dynamic is a reflection of yourself. Your Twin Flame mirrors both your healed and unhealed aspects, as well as the choices you make in your connection.


Fortunately, there is a way to heal and end this dynamic. The healing process involves employing the Mirror Exercise, which allows you to recognize and address the areas within yourself that you're avoiding. By loving yourself and embracing your authenticity, you can achieve Harmonious Union with your Twin Flame.


It's important to understand the runner/chaser dynamic. If you perceive yourself as the chaser, you may feel disheartened when your Twin Flame continually runs away when you attempt to get closer. However, the truth is that your Twin Flame is mirroring you and reflecting the choices being made in your Union. Since your natural state is Union with your Twin Flame, their apparent running is a reflection of your actions.


You might wonder how you can be running from yourself. Running can take various forms, such as seeking something from your Twin Flame instead of finding it within yourself. It signifies a fear of Union and results in pushing your Twin Flame away, which they then reflect to you.


Since Twin Flames make the same core choices, there can't be one runner and one chaser unless you perceive yourself as separate from your Twin Flame. The healing process involves recognizing this and putting an end to the experience.


By using the Mirror Exercise, you can heal the runner/chaser pattern. Your Twin Flame wants you to heal and grow alongside them. The Mirror Exercise is a four-step process that guides you to the areas where you require love. Once you access these areas, you can provide yourself with the necessary love and healing. When you have fully loved yourself in the places that felt hurt, you will experience deep peace and relief.


An Ascension Coach can assist you in mastering the Mirror Exercise and offer support in overcoming your obstacles. Having support on your journey is crucial, and having someone who can help you identify and heal your blocks to Union is invaluable. It's best not to try to go through this journey alone. Embrace all the support available to you and allow the journey to be easy and peaceful.


Your Twin Flame mirrors where you're not loving yourself because they love you deeply. They bring this pattern to your attention not to hurt you but to teach you self-love and guide you inward toward your true needs.


Remember, your Twin Flame's return will not resolve your problems or eliminate your upsets. Instead, healing occurs when you address and love yourself, providing the love you need. Your Twin Flame reflects the love you give yourself.


You don't need external factors to feel better, and your Twin Flame's physical presence is not a prerequisite for feeling good. Trying to control or chase your Twin Flame into Union is counterproductive. Instead, focus on attraction. You attract your Twin Flame by romancing yourself and embracing your authentic self. Your Twin Flame cannot resist the genuine, self-loving you. Romancing yourself can take many forms, such as planning and going on a date with yourself, and engaging in activities that bring you joy and fulfillment.


Intimacy with another can only occur when you are intimate with yourself first.


The key to achieving Harmonious Union lies in giving love. Repelling your Twin Flame through self-neglect is counterproductive. Everything you desire in life must first come from within, as that's where your source of love resides. As you love and romance yourself, your Twin Flame naturally returns to your life. Self-love is attractive to your Twin Flame because you no longer seek to obtain something from them. By fulfilling your own needs, you free your Twin Flame to be themselves, and in turn, you experience freedom. True freedom comes from recognizing that all you need is already within you, eliminating the need for someone else to fulfill your needs.


Love is never forceful and possesses great wisdom, providing precisely what you need. The romance you desire exists within yourself. This internal romance is then manifested externally in your physical reality with your Twin Flame, resulting in a state of divine harmony. Deepen the romance within yourself, as that love is magnetic.


In conclusion, comprehending the dynamics of the runner/chaser in Twin Flame relationships requires a change in perspective. The runner's actions should not be seen as a rejection of Love, but rather as a reflection of the chaser's tendencies to avoid self-love and authenticity. It's important to recognize that Twin Flames make identical core choices, and true separation between them is not possible.


The Mirror Exercise is an effective tool for introspection and healing in Twin Flame relationships. By identifying areas where self-love is lacking and providing oneself with the necessary love and support, a profound sense of peace and relief can be attained. Seeking guidance from an Ascension Coach is invaluable in navigating this journey and resolving any barriers to Union.


Your Twin Flame serves as a mirror, reflecting the aspects within yourself that require love. By fully embracing and accepting yourself, you create an environment where your Twin Flame can reciprocate that love. Cultivating self-romance and establishing a deep connection with yourself is pivotal for achieving Harmonious Union. When you no longer depend on your Twin Flame for validation or fulfillment, both of you are liberated to be your authentic selves. Love naturally and intelligently flows when you realize that everything you need is already within you.


Twin Flame Union revolves around deepening the romance within yourself, as this internal romance will manifest and be reflected in your Union. By embracing self-love and nurturing the magnetic power of love within, you open the doors to a harmonious and fulfilling Union with your Twin Flame, fulfilling your desires.


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