You have encountered your twin flame, and everything seems like a magical tale. The two of you share a similar sense of humor, and your chemistry is incredibly strong. Each day, you discover new resemblances between you. Moreover, the intimate connection between you is extraordinary. It feels as if nothing can hinder your bond, making you feel invincible. However, unexpectedly, you start noticing your twin flame distancing themselves from you. This stage of turmoil is one of the more frustrating phases in a twin flame relationship. Let's quickly summarize all the twin flame stages covered in this post:
In this article, you will discover:
What occurs during the turmoil stage?
Does every twin flame experience the turmoil stage?
What is the purpose of the testing phase?
Why do doubts about your twin flame arise?
Do twin flames engage in infidelity?
Can twin flames break up and reconcile?
Let's begin:
You find yourself perplexed by your twin's changed and distant behavior, and questions arise in your mind:
Have I done something wrong?
Am I simply not good enough for this person?
I knew this was too good to be true.
Alternatively, you might be the one distancing yourself from your twin. You feel overwhelmed by the connection and the reflection of yourself in your twin. Perhaps you have become aware of certain traits in your twin that you dislike (without realizing that you possess similar traits at times). This happened to us; we were accustomed to dating individuals who were very different from ourselves. Consequently, being with someone who mirrors us perfectly was initially overwhelming, leading me (Julia) to run away after a few weeks together.
It is easy to love someone who is vastly different from you and complements you. However, if you don't fully love yourself, it becomes exceedingly challenging to be with someone who is your perfect reflection.
What occurs during the turmoil stage?
The turmoil phase typically arises shortly after the initial meeting. After going on a few dates and getting to know each other, the feelings between you intensify, and you can't keep your hands off each other. Turmoil often arises shortly after you become intimate with each other.
Why does it happen after sex? When you engage in physical intimacy with your twin flame, old wounds resurface even more intensely because you share the same chakra system. It is advisable to avoid being intimate too quickly after meeting your twin flame since it can remove barriers and trigger running or separation.
At some point, one of you may say or do something that triggers the other person, leading to a full-blown fight. The way you handle these conflicts may vary; you might choose to run away, give your twin the silent treatment, or snap at them. In our case, it could start with something as trivial as an innocent question. Before we knew it, one of us would be in tears, walking out the door and onto the street.
Typically, one or both twins have not done enough self-work to confront the issues that arise when reuniting with their mirrored souls. It is often the person representing the Divine Masculine who becomes easily triggered since they reflect shadows, traumas, and accumulated negativity. The twin who hasn't done enough self-work may shut the other person out, unwilling to confront their shortcomings. Eventually, after being triggered repeatedly, they may decide to leave their twin. This separation can last for several months or even years because they cannot handle the intensity and the emotional baggage that surfaces when being with their perfect mirror. Fights and blaming games are common during this stage as both twins release trapped negative emotions. You may think it's their fault, but in reality, the triggers come from within yourself. Your twin simply reflects them to you like a mirror. This is a challenging and overwhelming stage for both twins at the human level.
Does every twin flame go through the turmoil stage?
Unfortunately, the short answer is YES. Regardless of the amount of self-work you have done individually before the meeting, nothing can prepare you for the intensity of reuniting with your mirrored soul. Ego issues, insecurities, and old wounds WILL emerge when you meet. This process of purging will continue from the moment you meet your twin flame and may persist for years until you have cleared all the emotional baggage within you. This process is still ongoing for us, even after a long period of harmonious union. However, it occurs less frequently now and without the need for running away and chasing.
What is the purpose of the testing stage?
To understand the purpose of the testing stage, it is necessary to grasp the purpose of the twin flame mission. Twin flames are present on Earth to hold and radiate divine light and unconditional love during this time of Ascension. To fulfill this mission, you need to become a strong vessel and eliminate limiting beliefs, toxic cycles, and negative habits. Being with your twin flame assists in shedding these layers because they serve as your mirror. Although this phase may not be the most exciting, it is tremendously significant. It involves purging fears and insecurities deeply rooted within yourself. A few weeks ago, we had an intense argument. The next day, Stef realized that he wasn't truly angry with my behavior; it was merely an insecurity buried so deeply within him that he wasn't even aware of it.
Why do I doubt my twin flame?
Doubting your twin flame is incredibly common and entirely normal, especially in the beginning. I remember thinking: How can this person be my twin flame when I occasionally feel bursts of annoyance and irritation when I'm with him? Twin flame relationships are always intense, and you might be experiencing emotions you have never felt before. This intensity makes the arguments equally intense. Consequently, you may question the authenticity of the relationship and whether it is worth it. While your heart recognizes this person as The One and draws you toward your twin flame, your mind may cast doubt on the entire connection. If you have shared your disagreements with friends, they may also believe it's not worth the trouble and suggest finding someone else, reinforcing the belief that you and your twin are not meant for each other.
Do twin flames cheat?
Although uncommon, twin flames can cheat. The twin flame who has not done enough self-work before the meeting may seek to escape through drugs, alcohol, or engaging with other people if they are unable to cope with the intensity of the twin flame relationship.
Do twin flames break up and get back together?
Yes, it is quite common for twin flames to break up before eventually reuniting in a harmonious union. However, if you or your twin runs away, do not worry. The Universe will guide both of you back together because it is part of your mission. The best way to avoid this situation is through communication. When your twin triggers you, express to them how their actions made you feel. We have discovered that the sooner we communicate, the shorter the duration of the fight.
So, when you find yourself in an argument with your twin, ask yourself:
How much of this applies to me?
How much of this pertains to my twin?
What do I need to do (if anything) to regain my power or stand up for myself?
How can I prevent the turmoil stage from leading to twin flame separation?
As mentioned throughout this post, the turmoil phase does not have to result in one twin running away for an extended period. By raising your vibrations, working on yourself, and embracing your purpose, the turmoil or running phase will be shorter. Even if your twin counterpart does end up running away, there are simple actions you can take to facilitate their return. We have developed a comprehensive course called the Twin Flame Reunion Fast Track, which outlines a multi-step plan to attract and reunite with your twin flame. Following this course and focusing on self-improvement will also have a positive impact on your twin flame. The course covers various topics, including the seven-step plan for attracting and reuniting with your twin flame, maintaining the relationship once reunited, avoiding critical mistakes when searching for your twin flame, establishing an effective morning routine, and much more. Rest assured, the course is packed with valuable information to support your twin flame journey.
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