The stage of the twin flame runner and chaser is often considered the most challenging of the eight stages of twin flame relationships. So, what exactly is happening at this stage? After recognizing a few signs indicating the presence of a twin flame in your life, you may have felt excited and possibly even met and developed an intimate connection with your twin flame. However, things may have taken a different turn. In this article, we will explore the following topics: Why do twin flames run away? What is the runner and chaser stage? Will twin flames who run away eventually return? What should you do when your twin flame runs away? How can you reunite with your twin flame? Does the twin flame runner still love the chaser? What emotions does the twin flame runner experience? What occurs when the chaser stops pursuing? Let's begin by acknowledging that they have run away. As a result, you might have resorted to searching online for information such as the definition of the twin flame runner, your twin flame running away, the reasons behind your twin flame's departure, or your twin flame leaving you. What does it all mean? More importantly, why has your twin flame chosen to run away?
So, the inner work you undertake on yourself has the potential to elevate your partner's vibrational frequency. When both of you reach a sufficiently high vibrational state, you will naturally meet and reunite.
2: Remain Calm and Relax
It's natural to feel panicked in such situations. For instance, if you are aware that your twin flame has run away and is now involved with someone else. However, it's essential not to perceive it in that way. It's easy to become attached to the physical realm and worry about such matters. This is particularly understandable because you recognize that they are your twin flame, and you believe that the two of you should be together. So, why are they with someone else? The period of separation can last a few months, as it did for us. However, it's not uncommon for it to extend to years, especially if both of you have unresolved issues, emotional wounds, and personal growth that requires attention.
The duration is influenced by factors such as the level of self-love practiced, past life traumas, and your vibrational alignment. What adds to the confusion is that many individuals latch onto a particular person whom they believe to be their twin flame, when in reality, they are not. It could be a case of encountering a false twin flame or not having a true twin flame connection at all. Consequently, questions may arise, such as "Why aren't they returning to me?" However, if they are indeed your twin flame, and you continue to work on yourself, they will inevitably come back to you. They will be just as drawn to you as you are to them. On the other hand, if they are off with someone else, not thinking about you or maintaining contact for many years, despite your personal growth and fulfillment of your purpose, it is possible that they are not your twin flame, to begin with.
3: Stay Open to the Signs
It is crucial to maintain an open mindset and be receptive to the signs. We're not referring to signs indicating the existence of a twin flame, but rather something else. The universe provides several signs that can guide you and indicate that you will soon reunite with your twin flame. By paying close attention and remaining open, you will notice these signs surrounding you. For example, when Julia and I were about to meet and reunite, signs were pointing to both of us going to Spain. These signs may manifest subtly, such as through advertisements, sudden urges, or even a scene in a film that conveys a specific message to you. By being more open to these signs, you increase the likelihood of being guided by the universe to be in the right place at the right time.
Does the Twin Flame Runner Love the Chaser?
Yes, if they are indeed your twin flame. Many individuals who are familiar with the concept of twin flames may mistakenly attach themselves to someone who is not their true twin flame and assumes they are in the running stage. This misconception can lead to confusion. However, if you are certain that they are your twin flame and they have run away, then yes, they still love you. They must love you because you are essentially the same being, interconnected at the soul level and eternally united in the 5D realm. Therefore, they have always loved you and continue to do so. However, if they are not your twin flame, they may not love you and may have moved on, particularly if they have formed a relationship with someone else. But if you are sure that you are twin flames, then mutual love and connection have always existed between you.
How Does the Twin Flame Runner Feel?
The twin flame runner often experiences fear and vulnerability. Their tendency to run is often a way of evading themselves. Julia has created a video explaining how the runner feels during the running stage:
When twin flames encounter each other, they bring forth their flaws and insecurities. If the runner possesses numerous insecurities, you have likely triggered them, causing them to run away from confronting those issues. Alternatively, they may be fleeing from the intensity and overwhelming nature of the connection. It can be described as a relationship that delves so deeply and authentically into one's soul that it feels as though they are gazing directly into the core of your being. This intensity can be overwhelming, particularly if you have recently met them in the physical realm but feel as if you have known them for many lifetimes.
The sudden encounter with someone who evokes a sense of familiarity spanning numerous incarnations may raise numerous existential questions for them. It could prompt a complete reevaluation of their perception of reality, life, and the afterlife. This intense experience may be a significant factor or catalyst for the running stage. Here's the important part: If that is indeed the reason for their departure, likely, they are constantly thinking about you. They cannot eliminate thoughts of the connection or the idea of you from their mind, no matter how hard they try. Consequently, it is only a matter of time before they begin to comprehend the significance of meeting you.
What Happens When the Chaser Stops Chasing?
When the chaser ceases to pursue the runner, nothing significant changes. The runner still needs to come to terms with the connection independently. The chaser cannot influence this process by contacting the runner. The chaser should stop chasing! Here's what the chaser should do to expedite the reunion: Focus on personal growth, heal emotional wounds, pursue their life purpose, and remain open to signs and guidance from the universe regarding their next steps. By doing so, the runner will also be influenced, even if they are currently married to someone else. However, continuously pursuing them out of a sense of lack and desperation will only push them further away. Letting go and releasing them is necessary for their eventual return. This pattern has been observed repeatedly in the stories we have encountered. It is when the chaser stops chasing that the runner begins to return!
Should You Contact Your Twin During the Running/Separation Stage?
A common question we receive is whether messaging, reaching out to, or contacting your twin during the running phase contradicts the act of surrendering and letting go of the outcome. It is indeed an excellent question because it can be easily misinterpreted. You may have come across other twin flame guides advising their followers to actively message or meet their twins.
It's a contentious issue because, on one hand, you desire some form of contact with your twin flame. You want to communicate with them and maintain an open channel of communication. However, at the same time, you don't want to harass them, as that would only push them further away. If you are currently experiencing separation during the running stage, there is a reason for it. One or both of you needs to focus on healing and personal growth.
Here's what you should do: Visualize a union with your twin flame, but avoid forcing it. Imagine being in a harmonious reunion or, if you haven't met them yet, visualize a happy future with your twin flame. However, refrain from excessive attempts to reach out to them. It's important to consider that they may not be your twin flame, which means you don't want to harass someone who isn't meant to be your counterpart.
Additionally, if they are your twin flame, the separation stage is meant for personal growth. Avoid fixating solely on one person and becoming obsessive. Instead, focus on visualizing a joyful reunion with your twin flame. It's completely normal to think about your twin flame since they are the other part of your soul. It's a natural inclination, so there's no need to worry. However, respect your twin flame's need for space. Find a balance and avoid behaving in an odd or intrusive manner. During our separation stage, we maintained some contact through texting, but we respected each other's boundaries and need for personal space.
It's crucial to strike a balance and give your twin flame the necessary room to heal. Continue your inner work and personal development. So, how can you get your twin flame back? As we've discussed in this post, there are actions you can take to attract your twin flame back into your life. By raising your vibrations, focusing on personal growth, and embracing your life purpose, it will eventually happen. However, there are simple steps you can follow to expedite the reunion.
We have created a comprehensive course called the Twin Flame Reunion Fast Track, which provides a detailed plan to attract and reunite with your twin flame. It also covers how to maintain a successful and lasting relationship once you are reunited. The course addresses common mistakes people make in seeking or attracting their twin flames, provides guidance on establishing an effective morning routine, and offers much more valuable information.
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