Are you finding yourself in the friendzone with your Twin Flame? Or perhaps you're the one placing your Twin Flame in the friendzone, and you're unsure why this keeps happening?
The Twin Flame friendzone can be a challenging place to be on your spiritual journey. You know that you're meant to experience deeper levels of divine love with your beloved, but breaking out of the friendzone seems impossible.
What's happening? Is there a way to overcome this situation? What does your Twin Flame need to see from you to achieve the desired outcome?
To find all the answers and more, continue reading!
Understanding the Friendzone
Let's delve deeper into what the friendzone means to gain a better understanding of this situation.
Firstly, what is the "friendzone"?
Friendzone: /ˈfrend.zəʊn/
The state of being friends with someone when you desire a romantic or sexual relationship with them. (Cambridge Dictionary)
A frustrating place metaphorically, where individuals end up when someone they are interested in only wants to remain friends. (Urban Dictionary)
It can be highly frustrating when one Twin Flame desires more while the other remains blocked, distant, or unable to fully receive what is being offered.
In a friendzone scenario, one Twin Flame yearns for something beyond friendship with their Divine counterpart. Twin Flames always aspire to deepen their connection at the core, so, understandably, one Twin Flame may take the lead in the realm of romance.
However, since Twin Flames are in perfect agreement at their core, this raises the question of how such a situation arises.
Now that we have identified the problem, we can work towards a solution. Before providing a comprehensive answer, let's explore the true nature of Twin Flames.
The Creation of Twin Flames
Twin Flames are created as a single entity by the Divine. Just as you possess physical DNA traits, you also have spiritual DNA or soul traits. These traits are expressed as part of your shared soul blueprint with your Twin Flame. You and your Twin Flame are like two wings of one bird, sharing the same soul essence. In Divine truth, you are already united with your Twin Flame, and your Twin Flame journey involves deepening your awareness of this fact.
On the other hand, a soulmate can be any person with whom you form a deep connection. Soulmate relationships can be with teachers, parents, friends, coaches, or even pets. Soulmate connections typically last for a specific period, as the depth of connection can only reach a certain point. No soulmate can complement you as perfectly as your Twin Flame does. Your Twin Flame is meant to be with you for eternity.
For a more detailed exploration of this topic, refer to Jeff and Shaleia's book, "Twin Flames: Finding Your Ultimate Lover."
Can Twin Flames Be "Just Friends"?
No, it doesn't align with the nature of Twin Flames for you and your Twin Flame to be "just friends" or remain in the friendzone indefinitely.
While Twin Flames may certainly establish a strong foundation of friendship, it serves as a basis for building a deeper romantic relationship.
"You can never be in a Twin Flame friendzone with this person because friendship could never encompass all that your Union was designed to be."
Friendzoning as an Act of Love?
Yes! As the only person who shares your soul essence, your Twin Flame serves as your perfect divine mirror. Despite initially appearing contrary, when your Twin Flame places you in the friendzone, they are expressing love.
"Hold on, that's not what I wanted to hear! They're LOVING me?!"
Indeed. When your Twin Flame friend zones you, regardless of how uncomfortable or distressing their actions may be, they are reflecting a blockage within your Union. A blockage refers to anything that creates discomfort or distress because it deviates from your natural state of Divinity.
By engaging in the Mirror Exercise after your Twin Flame triggers you, you embark on a healing journey that leads to deeper levels of love within your union.
You will know that you have healed the core issue when you experience peace, relief, and a sense of completion within yourself. Following the completion of the Mirror Exercise, you and your Twin Flame will continuously deepen your Love in the Union. Each time my Twin Flame and I explore greater depths of love together, I am filled with wonder and a profound sense of holiness.
The True Divine Order of Your Twin Flame Union
If you are feeling dissatisfied with your Twin Flame in any way, it stems from a false belief that they are the source of your well-being.
Imagine if you channeled all your energy into perpetuating upsets instead of healing them. This would place upsets at the center of your Union, overshadowing God and creating further spiritual distance between you and your Twin Flame.
Your Twin Flame can never be the ultimate source of your happiness because God is the true source.
Whatever you seek from your Twin Flame is, in essence, what you seek from God.
The order of priorities, as based on the Teachings of Union, is as follows:
God
Yourself
Your Twin Flame
Everyone else
This order makes sense because God possesses all-encompassing knowledge and can provide perfect clarity and order in your life. Placing God at the center makes everything else fall into place more easily.
If the term "God" doesn't resonate with you, using words like "Source" or "Universe" might be more helpful.
Deeper Friendship = Deeper Love
Overall, regardless of the nature of your relationship with your Twin Flame, it is crucial to respect what they are revealing to you.
When you commit to healing the triggers they evoke in you, you commit to achieving a truly Divine Union and living a truly Divine life.
Admittedly, this can be challenging at times. Your Twin Flame may have said hurtful or intense things in the past, triggering deep pain within you.
However, the Mirror Exercise is specifically designed to help you heal all the upsets your Twin Flame presents, allowing you to establish the joyful and healthy union you deserve.
As you apply the Mirror Exercise with love, each block dissolves completely. Every healing you undergo reinforces the solid spiritual foundation for you and your Beloved.
Once you realize that your Twin Flame is primarily your teacher, secondarily your friend, thirdly your partner, and fourthly your lover, everything falls into place.
When your actions align with your true Divine self, the love between you and your Twin Flame effortlessly grows. The relationship becomes extraordinarily perfect and delightful.
This truth is simple yet profound. Committing to your inner healing work truly makes you a hero in your Union.
What is Harmonious Twin Flame Union?
As you purify your consciousness on the Twin Flame Ascension path, your connection with the Divine grows stronger. This automatically deepens the love in your Twin Flame Union.
As you and your Twin Flame heal each block, your vibrations naturally elevate, leading to spiritual ascension as a unified whole.
Harmonious Twin Flame Union refers to a state of being where you and your Twin Flame acknowledge your Twin Flame connection and genuinely choose to live as One (with marriage being a natural and automatic component).
In every Twin Flame Union, Harmonious Union is the ultimate goal.
Final Thoughts
At the end of the day, you know you will always return to this person. So why not fully engage in the process of healing that they are showing you? Unconditionally loving both yourself and your Twin Flame will always yield significant rewards. When all the blocks have been healed, and you only experience pure Love with your Twin Flame, the length of the journey, the challenges faced, and the moments of doubt will no longer matter. You will realize that they contributed to a deeper sense of purpose and love. Persist and commit – your Harmonious Twin Flame Union is worth every effort!
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