Everyone who has found their twin counterpart eventually goes through a stage of judging and blaming their twin flame for inappropriate actions. Sometimes, what is obvious to us may not be seen by them.
Nevertheless, there will be times when they will feel that way about us. Many people are currently stuck in pain, frustration, confusion, and bitterness. This is a stage that everyone goes through.
As souls, we choose to be reborn into human bodies on this planet to grow through our egos. The ego serves as a tool for growth. Each of us is here to experience growth, which can be painful at times.
Growth shatters our previous perceptions and patterns, challenging our beliefs about truth and love. Therefore, pain is considered a part of love. Without pain, we cannot grow, learn, or discover new ways to love ourselves.
Sometimes, we observe our twin flames going in circles, avoiding reality, dating others, engaging in substance abuse, or even relocating to another country to avoid self-reflection. We often wonder why they don't simply accept themselves and their truth to find happiness. However, we overlook the internal struggles they face.
Each of us has undergone significant growth. If we reflect on our past, we'll realize that our current awakening didn't happen overnight. It was a slow, lengthy process through which we learned valuable lessons, often through making mistakes.
Looking back, we will recognize our past blindness and acknowledge that the journey was intentional. Therefore, those mistakes were not truly mistakes, but stepping stones towards reality. They are not punishments from the Universe for not loving ourselves enough.
At present, our "runner" twin flames are meant to experience karmic lessons and awakening, which can be an unpleasant process. They may feel trapped in darkness, desperately searching for a way out without knowing what to do, where to go, or how to feel.
We desire our twin flames to undergo this process for their growth and self-love. However, fighting or trying to control them, or providing all the answers, will not be effective.
Why do we wish for our twin flames to face such difficulties? Why do we want them to be in a state where they are not yet ready to unite with us? It is because these experiences help them grow and learn to love themselves, and in turn, love us more.
Our twin flames also contribute to our self-love, as they are a part of us. Whatever they learn, heal, or grow from will benefit us as well, because we are interconnected.
At times, the Universe may seem cruel or unfair, especially when we desire everything to be perfect in the present moment. However, the Universe always knows what it is doing and acts out of love, guiding us toward our higher good.
We shouldn't rush into a union when a better opportunity awaits us after a longer period, leading to a more powerful connection.
We must consider that everything that happens is part of our journey. The Universe does not deceive or neglect us, nor does it imply that we are inadequate. It is simply helping us embrace love to the fullest extent possible.
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