The first stage of the twin flame journey is known as twin flame yearning, which is a fascinating phase. Numerous indications suggest that you and your twin flame sense each other's absence or believe that there is someone out there meant for you. This stage, which can last for several years, is an ongoing process from birth until you encounter your twin flame. However, you become more aware of it as a young adult when you reach a certain level of maturity. During the yearning stage, you have a profound feeling that there is a person perfectly suited for you, waiting out there. This individual could be perceived as your ideal partner, or you may simply sense that something crucial is perpetually missing from your current relationships. Regardless of the circumstances, it can be described as a longing or desire for something different, new, or better.
This yearning does not truly fade away until you meet your twin flame. It is intentionally designed this way so that you remain open to finding them, continuously searching until your paths converge.
Is it possible to find happiness in other relationships? Yes, it is entirely possible to experience happiness in relationships before encountering your twin flame. However, there is often a lingering thought at the back of your mind telling you that "something else is out there." Although you may not think about it frequently, that feeling persists. At times, you may dismiss this thought for months or even years while staying with a partner who is not your "one." Yet, if you pay attention to your emotions, those thoughts and feelings remain present. They will persist until you finally meet and reunite with your twin flame. Nevertheless, this does not imply that you cannot be happy or learn valuable lessons from the relationships you have before meeting your twin flame.
What does the yearning stage feel like? In the initial stage of the twin flame journey, the yearning stage manifests mostly as a persistent thought that won't leave your mind. Even if things seem to be going well in your current relationship on the surface (or if you are content being single), something feels incomplete. Something seems off or unusual. Personally, I (Stef) felt like there was someone out there waiting to meet me. I would also have dreams that reinforced this notion, but I couldn't quite grasp it fully. I didn't understand how or why I felt this way, yet I couldn't deny the presence of this feeling. Consequently, it accompanied me throughout all my previous relationships until I met Julia, while the signs and synchronicities kept intensifying.
Echoes of your energy can be sensed during this stage. It can feel like a faint reverberation of your vibration or energy reaching out to you. Sometimes, amidst a crowd, you may just sense that someone is out there. You may not see them, but you know they exist. You believe that one day you will meet them, and the mystery will be resolved. However, it sounds so outlandish and private that you dare not discuss it with friends (let alone partners). So you convince yourself that it is probably nothing and that the feeling will eventually dissipate. But it doesn't. As time passes, you draw closer to meeting your twin flame. You begin noticing more signs and synchronicities. The universe guides you toward your twin flame. It is all part of the design, an unchangeable aspect of the beautiful plan.
The signs will gradually accumulate and become more obvious and frequent. These signs may include feeling that there is someone out there for you, feeling compelled to move to a specific location or try something new, sensing a shift in your energy and desiring to be around more positive individuals, becoming dissatisfied with your current relationship and contemplating a breakup, noticing meaningful coincidences such as hearing a certain song at the right time or repeatedly encountering a significant number. The signs can vary in nature but will hold personal significance for you. They may make you think, "Oh, that's strange. It's odd that this just happened," and often occur at moments when you are in a particular place, thinking a certain thought, or feeling a specific way, reinforcing your experiences. It is crucial to pay attention to these signs. Keeping a journal can be helpful, noting what happened, when it occurred, and your thoughts, actions, or emotions at the time. This practice can aid in identifying patterns and recurring signs.
What comes next? After noticing several signs and becoming certain that something significant is about to happen, you will align more closely with your core frequency and purpose. This process varies in duration, as it can take a few months for some individuals and years for others. It is an ongoing journey. When you are ready, you will naturally be brought together with your twin flame. One way to gauge how close you are to meeting your twin flame is by observing the increasing frequency of signs and the intensification of feelings that "The One" is out there, just before the actual encounter.
Moving past the "searching stage" is somewhat misleading. Although this initial stage is sometimes referred to as the "searching stage," it doesn't entail actively seeking something. The feeling of something missing often arises when you least expect it, even during moments when you should be content and fulfilled. Thus, you are not actively searching when this feeling arises; it is simply the name given to this stage for some reason.
There are several things you can do to expedite the passing of the yearning stage and accelerate the process of meeting and reuniting with your twin flame:
Work on yourself: Engage in self-improvement practices such as meditation, self-love, embracing your purpose, and acting with love in all aspects of your life.
Raise your vibrations: Refer to our Ebook, where we explain exercises and techniques to raise your vibrations. By elevating your energetic frequency, you will attract your twin flame more swiftly.
What occurs in the years leading up to meeting your twin flame? During this period, you will undergo significant personal growth and transformation. It involves a process of shedding, similar to peeling away layers of an onion, as you are a divine spark of God. It is not about acquiring new knowledge; rather, it is a process of shedding and unlearning limiting beliefs. This shedding occurs naturally and encompasses experiences such as relationships with karmic partners, encounters with soulmates, challenging work situations, and even periods of spiritual crisis. Many of you may have already gone through some of these experiences. The purpose of shedding these layers is to align with your core frequency before meeting your twin flame. When both individuals are in sync with their core frequencies, the universe brings them together automatically on an energetic level. You do not need to actively search for them; it happens naturally.
Experiencing "Hermit Mode" Before Meeting
It is quite common to go through a phase called "hermit mode" where you may feel less inclined to socialize and instead focus on self-improvement, reading, or meditation. This is completely normal, and you should not feel pressured to go out, go on numerous dates, or constantly meet up with friends as if it were the natural thing to do. It is important to honor your feelings when you have moments of not wanting to socialize, even if it lasts for weeks or months leading up to meeting your twin flame. During this time, you may experience remarkable synchronicities, as if the universe is nudging you in various directions. It can feel a bit overwhelming. In some cases, if you choose to ignore these signs, you may encounter resistance. For example, if you are in a relationship with someone who is not your twin flame, when it is time for you to meet your twin flame, the universe may push you towards ending that relationship. You might resist for a while, but eventually, the relationship will no longer work, and arguments or obstacles may arise. Although it may be challenging, this breakup is ultimately a positive step as it paves the way for you to meet your twin flame. Therefore,
you do not have to worry too much about preparing to meet your twin flame or actively searching for them because the universe will guide you towards that connection automatically, particularly when you are aligned with your core frequency. For instance, a year before I met my twin flame, I developed a sudden interest in lucid dreaming, despite never having cared about dreams before. I found myself watching YouTube videos, buying courses, and so on. Unbeknownst to me at the time, my twin flame was a lucid dreaming influencer on YouTube. After we united, my fascination with lucid dreaming diminished significantly. It seems that the universe tried to bring us together by ensuring I came across his videos and established contact, but when that didn't happen, it found another way. I felt the urge to grow my Instagram following and share my travels with the world. My twin flame saw my posts using the hashtag "digital nomad" since he is a digital nomad. He recognized me, felt an unexplained connection, and reached out. So, there is no need to fear missing your twin flame because the universe will continue finding ways to bring you together.
The Universe Provides Signs and Urges
I have a friend who shared a story about another twin flame experience. She kept feeling the urge to do yoga and noticed yoga-related signs everywhere. Eventually, she decided to attend a yoga class, and her twin flame was coincidentally practicing on the mat next to her. Another interesting occurrence happened with my twin flame, Stef. A year before we met, Stef felt an urge to grow out his hair, despite having short hair his whole life. I had always admired long hair on men, so I speculate that his urge to grow long hair was meant to attract me. Although he wasn't consciously aware of this, his higher self may have known. Of course, now it doesn't matter if he shaves his head or colors his hair; my love for him remains unwavering. Physical appearance becomes less important once you have reunited and fallen for each other.
If you are not feeling any urges, such as the desire to relocate, take care of your body and mind, or engage in shadow work, it simply means that you are exactly where you need to be. Therefore, there is no need to worry; your twin flame could still come into your life soon.
What It Feels Like to Meet Your Twin Flame
In the "journey stage," when you are about to meet your twin flame, you may experience a sense of something missing or incomplete. You might be single or in another relationship, and while things may seem fine, there's a lingering feeling that something is missing. You find yourself waiting for something to happen.
The experience can vary for each individual. For me (Julia), it felt like something was not quite there whenever I went on dates with other people. I had a sense that my person was out there, but they were not among those I met. Stef, on the other hand, is more inclined towards long-term relationships, but he still felt that something was missing.
It can be a bit confusing because, despite feeling content with spending time alone, which might be a new sensation, you also feel a certain anticipation. It's like the excitement before going on a holiday or a trip, where you eagerly await the upcoming experience without knowing exactly what it entails.
During this stage, your outer world undergoes significant changes, and synchronicities become more prevalent. You are guided from one person to another, which leads to new experiences and a clearer sense of purpose. You'll also notice an increase in numbers and signs.
For example, I frequently encountered the number 1111, appearing multiple times every day. Stef's recurring number was 4343. Even now, we still see these numbers as indicators that we're on the right track. In the months leading up to meeting your twin flame, synchronicities become more frequent, and you become more aligned with your purpose.
You may also feel an urge to move to another country or embark on a significant journey. It's crucial to pay attention to these urges because they often serve as the universe's way of pushing you toward your twin flame, especially if it doesn't already reside in your current location. In our case, we met in Spain, despite neither of us being from there. The signs and messages guided us to that meeting point. If we had not followed those urges and traveled to Spain, we may not have met yet. Therefore, it's essential to listen to these intuitive nudges, even if they seem random or unexplained.
Use numerology and signs to your advantage. They can provide valuable guidance and reassurance that you're on the right path. As you align with your purpose, you'll notice positive shifts in your life, and the wind will be at your back, propelling you closer to meeting your twin flame.
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