How can you establish communication with your Twin Flame? Or even enhance your communication with them? It appears that nearly every person on their Twin Flame journey has faced this challenge. But is it possible to heal? And if so, what's happening? Allow us to demonstrate...
Why does communication with your Twin Flame seem so challenging?
Effective communication is a vital aspect of any relationship, including Twin Flame Unions. Many Twin Flames encounter difficulties and misunderstandings when trying to communicate with each other. The reason behind this lies in the fact that your Twin Flame acts as a perfect mirror for you. They reflect all the areas where your connection with Love is out of alignment.
Some individuals might wonder, "How are they mirroring me? I want to communicate with them, don't they want to communicate with me?" However, mirroring goes much deeper than that.
In this article, we will explore how you can overcome communication barriers with your Twin Flame and establish a healthy and harmonious mode of communication with them.
The significance of communication with your Twin Flame
Communication with your Twin Flame revolves around your inner communication with yourself, your Creator, God, Love, the Universe, or your Source. That is the essence of communication with your Twin Flame and its origin. Therefore, if you struggle to communicate with your Twin Flame, it indicates difficulties in communicating with yourself and your connection to God.
Understanding that your Twin Flame mirrors the blocks to communication within yourself, which you may be unaware of, is crucial. Hence, communication with your Twin Flame is not solely about conversing with them; it also involves communicating with yourself.
Your Twin Flame as a mirror
Ultimately, your Twin Flame serves as a direct reflection of your relationship with Love itself or God. Any inauthentic connections and communication within yourself are mirrored in your relationship with your Twin Flame. Fear is the underlying cause of feeling disconnected from yourself, and these patterns often stem from childhood experiences.
By comprehending that your Twin Flame mirrors your communication blocks, you can begin healing this pattern and progress towards genuine connection and intimacy.
At first, it may be challenging to perceive your Twin Flame as a perfect mirror and fully accept their reflection. You might find it difficult to believe that some of these blocks truly exist within you. However, as you advance on your spiritual journey, you become more self-aware and appreciative of the lessons your Twin Flame imparts.
Healing communication blocks by going inward
To establish communication and intimacy with your Twin Flame, you must first establish those qualities within yourself. This entails delving deeper into self-connection than you have ever ventured before.
Some people may question the concept of Twin Flame mirroring, thinking, "I already have conversations with myself" or "I already communicate internally. Why is this happening?"
The Mirror Exercise, outlined in Jeff and Shaleia's book "Twin Flames: Finding Your Ultimate Lover," offers the swiftest and most effective method for healing your communication blocks and reconnecting with yourself internally. Chapter 5 of the book provides a detailed description of the Mirror Exercise, a refined and practical healing tool designed to help you identify the parts of yourself with which you are not communicating.
Here are a few examples of how you may be hindering communication within yourself:
Are you being honest about your true feelings?
Are you suppressing or denying your emotions, preventing yourself from fully experiencing them?
Are you acknowledging and addressing your upsets and triggers?
Do you fear being intimate with your emotions?
By engaging in the mirror exercise and using your emotions as a guide, you can safely access these concealed aspects of yourself and heal your inner communication. In doing so, you automatically heal your Union, your communication with Love itself, and naturally, your Twin Flame as well.
Authentic communication with your Twin Flame
Consider whether you truly understand what authentic communication entails on this journey. It goes beyond simply talking and encompasses genuinely feeling your emotions, being honest with yourself at a deep level, and addressing the uncomfortable aspects within you. Authentic communication begins when you connect with the parts of yourself you may be avoiding or running away from.
Continuously showing up for yourself during the healing process, regardless of the emotions that arise, is how you cultivate real communication with yourself. This deepening connection allows you to go further in all areas of your life.
Jeff and Shaleia mention in their book that every upset in your union signifies a miscommunication. This illustrates the paramount importance and vast scope of communication in your Union. You will consistently work on healing communication upsets with your Twin Flame because you always strive for agreement at the core, where you are one.
Thus, every negative feeling you experience communicates a misalignment with Love, revealing aspects within yourself that you are not perceiving accurately.
Your Twin Flame will also demonstrate areas where you are not genuinely communicating with them from a place of love. This tendency is prevalent in society, where extensive talking may lack heartfelt content and feel superficial. To establish a true connection with your Twin Flame, you must delve deeper.
Unlocking communication with your Twin Flame
To unlock communication with your Twin Flame, you must deepen your connection with them. You must communicate from a place of love. Many individuals on this journey attempt to engage in conversations with their Twin Flames but often carry expectations or misguided intentions behind their communication.
Authentic and genuine communication with your Twin Flame occurs when you are authentic and genuine with yourself and unconditionally love them. It necessitates fully embracing your emotions and healing anything that disrupts alignment with love. Only then can you communicate effectively, emanating from a healed place filled with love, rather than from an unhealed, needy, or inauthentic space.
Your Twin Flame will naturally perceive the difference in your communication. They will always respond to authentic and loving communication. In truth, all upsets in your union stem from unhealed patterns and misunderstandings. Once you become aware of these patterns triggered by your Twin Flame, you can heal and communicate easily and lovingly.
Healing personal emotional challenges to enhance communication
If you engage in conversation with your Twin Flame to obtain something from them, seek acknowledgment of the connection, gain attention, or acquire love, then that is not genuine communication. It signifies taking energy and viewing them as the source of your needs. It does not constitute a genuine connection.
Be patient with your healing journey
Therefore, you may encounter obstacles or barriers reflected to you by your Twin Flame. As you can see, various factors contribute to these communication problems.
This is not a small issue that can be resolved in mere minutes. It is a relationship with yourself and with Love. If you desire to unblock communication with your Twin Flame, you must be willing to heal and address these internal aspects.
Do you ever feel that time is running out, and you will never be with your Twin Flame? Are you eager to achieve Union after resolving a single block? It is acceptable to long for Twin Flame Union. However, it is important to remember that Union is orchestrated by the Universe, not solely by you. Union materializes when you focus on yourself rather than fixating on your Twin Flame's actions. This may seem counterintuitive, but it is the approach that works. Be compassionate towards yourself throughout the healing process.
José and Michaila, Twin Flames in Harmonious Union, share their journey of healing communication.
Michaila discusses how she healed her tendency to engage in superficial communication.
I decided to be completely honest with myself regarding my feelings and their significance. I had to acknowledge and admit that I had emotional challenges to confront. Depression had been a constant companion throughout my teenage years and even earlier, but I had refused to acknowledge it. When I began this inner work, I had to confront and honestly recognize my experience of depression.
I had to venture into the uncomfortable depths of my depression and love myself in those spaces. It involved going beyond surface-level interactions and embracing my feelings, even the uncomfortable ones. That's how genuine communication with your Twin Flame can be established.
Now, between us, there are no communication issues. We are unafraid to engage in deep communication with ourselves. It is crucial to embark on this journey. Whenever any blocks arise or challenges surface in our union, resolving them becomes effortless. Equipped with the tools and teachings of Union, we address and move through the miscommunication swiftly, growing closer together. That's the magic of Twin Flames. Every issue can be resolved, preventing a lack of communication or negative communication. It becomes just a part of your life and spiritual growth.
What does it take to truly heal?
As mentioned earlier, it requires significant investment, especially in your Union. You must invest in healthy communication and learn the art of it to experience harmony with your Twin Flame.
This is not a relationship where you can hide your feelings or communicate inadequately. That approach doesn't work. Communication is vital, and that's why establishing it with yourself first is crucial. If you cannot handle yourself and your communication, it will be impossibly difficult with your Twin Flame because your connection with them encompasses your entire being and is inherently more challenging.
However, when you find ease, happiness, and lightness in your self-connection, communicating with your Twin Flame becomes effortless. It is the same process.
I recall one of the most important lessons I learned about communication. It was about being authentic and not concealing who I truly am. Once you start healing that aspect, it brings immense relief to your Union. Only then can you come together because you have already established a close bond with yourself.
Another point to consider is that communication in your Twin Flame Union must have a purpose; otherwise, it will not happen. Consequently, barriers and blocks may arise in your communication with your Twin Flame. God needs to channel through you to communicate something to your Twin Flame.
Jeff elaborates on this concept in a Twin Flame Ascension School class. He explains that communication serves a purpose – you have something to communicate, not because you seek something from them.
A shift in communication
A significant dynamic shift occurs as you learn to cultivate a genuine relationship. It involves contemplating what you can contribute and nurture within the connection, rather than focusing on what you can gain. It requires transcending old relationship patterns. Healing and evolving this dynamic is safe, and you can be assured that when there is purpose behind your communication, it will naturally occur.
Healing and opening up communication
Communicating from a place of love within yourself is paramount to establishing authentic and lasting communication with your Twin Flame. Your Twin Flame mirrors the aspects of your consciousness where you either lack communication or block it within yourself. They also reflect situations where you fail to communicate with yourself lovingly. By healing these patterns internally, communication with your Twin Flame will blossom and thrive.
When the time is right and you are ready, guided by God, communication becomes easy and natural. However, you must engage in inner work and focus on the internal process to manifest it externally. If you require assistance in this process, Twin Flame Certified Ascension Coaches are available to help you heal these blocks.
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