When your Divine Masculine advises against contacting them or expresses a lack of interest in a relationship, it can be perplexing, especially when you strongly believe they reciprocate your feelings. So, why does this situation occur, and how can you handle it? When your Divine Masculine asserts that they don't want the connection you desire, they are setting a boundary.
Let's explore five reasons why the Divine Masculine may establish these boundaries. Consider this as an exercise, grab a pen and paper, and jot down your situation as we delve into the information.
Reason #1: Divine Masculine Retreats Due to Codependency
The first reason for your Divine Masculine to set a boundary is codependency. Often, the Divine Masculine perceives their Divine Feminine as excessively needy or codependent. When the Divine Feminine starts relying on the Divine Masculine as their sole source of love and support, the Divine Masculine finds it unattractive. Consequently, they may distance themselves or set a boundary to limit contact. Essentially, they are conveying the message: "I cannot be your sole source of love."
Your Divine Masculine encourages you to love yourself and pursue your interests. They don't want to be the center of your attention; instead, they desire for you to focus on your own goals and happiness. Only from that place of self-fulfillment can a meaningful relationship between both of you flourish.
If you place the Divine Masculine as the center of your attention, the relationship will likely suffer. There will be tension and strain due to unmet expectations like:
"You should be giving me love."
"You should be providing me with this."
Thus, this becomes one of the reasons why the Divine Masculine sets boundaries – they want you to realize the importance of:
"Focusing on yourself."
"Loving yourself."
"Becoming your source of love."
For your Divine Masculine, codependency feels uncomfortable and undesirable. They express love and admiration for you but emphasize that codependency won't work in your relationship.
Reason #2: Divine Masculine Sets Boundaries for Respect
Now, let's move on to the second reason why the Divine Masculine sets boundaries – respect. When your Divine Masculine feels that they are not respected or treated well in the relationship with their Divine Feminine, they will establish a boundary to prioritize self-respect.
Certain incidents may occur that leave the Divine Masculine feeling disrespected, prompting them to assert:
"This is not acceptable to me."
"We can only have a proper relationship if you address these issues within yourself."
This situation indicates that both of you need healing. Ultimately, your Divine Masculine permits such behavior, and as your Twin Flame, they reflect these aspects to you. If you fail to respect and acknowledge your Divine Masculine for who they truly are, they will express that the relationship won't work unless you both value yourselves and the bond you share.
To respect your Divine Masculine, it's crucial to also respect yourself. Recognize their divine nature as the masculine counterpart in the Twin Flame dynamic. While they love you, it doesn't feel genuine if you seek them out only when you need something, such as texting them out of loneliness, knowing they have feelings for you.
The feelings are not positive for your Divine Masculine, and ultimately, they do not feel good within yourself either. So, it's essential to be aware of this dynamic. If you find that you're not respecting your Divine Masculine, don't worry, you can make a conscious choice to change that. By respecting both yourself and your Divine Masculine, you'll notice that your relationship becomes more harmonious, effortless, and joyful. Open communication plays a crucial role in building mutual respect and trust. When your Divine Masculine honestly expresses, "You're not respecting me," it offers you an opportunity for self-reflection. Take a moment to assess whether you are respecting yourself and the relationship. Remember, your Twin Flame, your Divine Masculine, is an individual too. Treat them with the same consideration you would give yourself.
Reason #3: Divine Masculine Sets Boundaries for Self-Love
The third reason your Divine Masculine sets a boundary with you is to encourage you to love yourself. Focus on your own life and not solely on him. The Divine Masculine can sense when you are neglecting yourself and putting all your attention and energy into the relationship. Although your Divine Masculine appreciates your love and devotion, they are also attracted to you when you prioritize self-love and personal growth. Radiate your Divine Feminine beauty by feeling good on the inside, which will manifest outwardly. So, if your Divine Masculine establishes a boundary, it may be their way of conveying that you should invest time in yourself, take care of your needs, and focus on personal growth. They are sensitive to your emotions and deeply in tune with both themselves and you, despite the myths suggesting otherwise.
Reason #4: Divine Masculine Sets Boundaries for Self-Prioritization
The fourth reason your Divine Masculine might set a boundary is closely related to the third reason. It revolves around the importance of putting yourself first. Prioritize your own needs above everything else, including your children (if you have any), job, family, coworkers, friends, Twin Flame, and Divine Masculine. When you consistently prioritize others before yourself and leak your energy into various external sources, your Divine Masculine can perceive it, and it may not be attractive to them. To nurture a healthy relationship with yourself and your Divine Masculine, they encourage you to love yourself and set this boundary to help you in this process.
Your Divine Masculine is encouraging you to focus on yourself and learn to love yourself as much as he loves you. He wants you to realize how amazing and perfect you are, but this self-acknowledgment and validation can't come solely from him. It's a process that requires you to give yourself the love and appreciation he sees in you. This may not happen overnight, as it differs for each person. You can use the Mirror Exercise as a valuable tool to foster self-love and healing.
Putting yourself first is crucial; you are the most important person in your life. Prioritize your energy and fill yourself with love before giving it to your Divine Masculine or others. This self-love makes you highly attractive and magnetic to your Divine Masculine, enhancing the connection and the desire to be with you.
Reason #5: Divine Masculine Sets Boundaries for Obsession
The fifth and final reason why your Divine Masculine establishes a boundary is when you display signs of obsession. This includes excessive texting, showing up at his home or workplace, and being overly clingy and needy. While it's understandable to experience this stage in your Union, it's essential to ensure your actions remain within appropriate boundaries.
Obsession drains your energy, which should be directed toward your life purpose and personal growth. While it's natural to love and want to be with your Divine Masculine, allowing it to turn into an unhealthy obsession is not attractive to him. If you find yourself obsessing, it may be rooted in fear or insecurity. Take a step back, practice self-love through the Mirror Exercise, and regain peace in your heart for your Union to flourish.
In conclusion, if your Divine Masculine is not texting you, there is likely one of these five reasons behind it. It doesn't necessarily mean he doesn't love you or want to be with you; there might be more important aspects that require your attention. If you need assistance in addressing these patterns, remember that support is available to help you through this journey.
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