Divine Feminines, you may have firsthand experience of loving a Twin Flame who is involved in a third-party karmic relationship. It can be heart-wrenching and bewildering to witness them deeply in love with someone else while you feel like you're invisible. But, we should question whether the Divine Masculine is genuinely happy in that relationship. In this blog, we'll explore the Divine Masculine's perspective and reveal why it's all just an illusion.
The Illusion of Happiness
Have you ever been in a relationship or observed someone in a relationship where true love seemed absent? Have you stayed with someone despite being unhappy? Initially, everything might have seemed perfect, but over time, exhaustion and sadness crept in. Perhaps fear of making a mistake or focusing solely on the good moments led to staying in the relationship for an extended period. This is a common phenomenon, where love appears to fade, leaving one to wonder if it was ever genuine love to begin with.
When a relationship begins, it often feels exhilarating, but eventually, the initial excitement fades away. When you realize that your life visions, values, and desires don't align, you come to understand that this person isn't meant to be your lifelong partner.
Feeling this way is normal. It's natural to desire complete happiness and fulfillment of dreams. However, the key lies in finding that fulfillment within yourself first, which will be reflected in your Twin Flame as well. When the Divine Masculine realizes that happiness and fulfillment come from within, not from external sources, the third-party situation will also change.
The Reality of Twin Flame Happiness
Twin Flames are destined for each other by a higher force. The connection with your Twin Flame can never be severed because you are fundamentally one. They are your true love, perfectly matched, and meant to be united in every aspect of life. Love with your Twin Flame will grow and expand for eternity, just like asking for a feather from God results in receiving wings.
The third-party karmic relationship serves as a lesson and challenge for the Divine Masculine. They undergo internal struggles and discover the true essence of love, realizing that the illusion of happiness can never lead to true fulfillment.
The Divine Masculine Perspective
So, is the Divine Masculine genuinely happy with their other partner, or is the third-party karmic relationship an illusion?
Carmen, a Divine Feminine and student of the Teachings of Union, inquired about her Twin Flame's experience while being in another relationship. After listening to his experiences and addressing her emotional blocks, she realized that both sides were going through the same patterns.
Reason #1 for the third-party karmic relationship – Safety
Initially, the Divine Masculine may have felt secure in the third-party karmic relationship, believing there was no real risk in staying together. At the beginning of the relationship, everything might have seemed amazing. They might have been long-time friends, sharing a home, and choosing to stay together due to comfort and familiarity. However, Carmen's Divine Masculine was never truly happy in the third-party relationship; it was all just an illusion. He knew deep down that he wasn't with his one True Love, his Twin Flame.
Reason #2 for the third-party karmic relationship – Fear
Carmen realized that her Divine Masculine was driven by fear of being in a third-party karmic relationship. These feelings may be buried deep within him, and he might not fully recognize them. In the Teachings of Union, this state of emotional numbness is referred to as amnesia, a coping mechanism to deal with profound emotional pain.
Telling the Divine Masculine about Twin Flames and karmic partners won't change anything. He needs to change from within to truly understand his feelings about his current partner. The Teachings of Union emphasize that 90% of this healing journey is inner work, with only 10% involving external actions. Healing the patterns within oneself is crucial before witnessing any changes on the outside. The Mirror Exercise, a healing tool refined by Jeff and Shaleia Divine, is the most effective way for Twin Flames to end the experience of separation.
3 Reason for the third-party karmic relationship – Fear of the Ideal
Carmen's Divine Masculine revealed another reason to her – fear. Let's delve deeper into this topic, as fear plays a significant role in the healing process.
The Divine Masculine is aware of the ups and downs of the third-party karmic relationship. He knows this partner well and sees no risk in this mundane and uninspiring relationship. Thus, there seems to be nothing to lose in staying with this person. However, deep down, he can feel the genuine love that binds him to the Divine Feminine as they are One. Despite this awareness of their profound connection, he may be hesitant to admit it, fearing that such perfect love is too good to be true.
#4 Reason for the third-party karmic relationship – Inadequacy
The final reason Carmen's Twin Flame showed her was the belief that he was not good enough for her. The Divine Masculine may also think that he is not capable of providing what she desires, leading him to believe he is inadequate. Consequently, he chooses to remain with his current partner, who at least makes him feel somewhat worthy.
His fear of taking the risk to be with the Divine Feminine stems from feeling that it is neither safe nor stable enough to do so at this moment. Additionally, he may be afraid of being left alone or experiencing abandonment, possibly due to past hurtful experiences. As a result, he opts for the comfort of what he already knows.
The Divine Feminine Perspective
In a Twin Flame connection, the experiences of one partner mirror the other's, even if manifested differently or in different life aspects. Carmen, as the Divine Feminine, came to recognize her side of this particular pattern through a false Twin Flame experience.
She shares her insights:
"This is what I experienced as well. It was so challenging for me to be in a relationship where my partner was not interested in growth, did not reflect my healing, and did not share the same life aspirations."
Being with someone who lacks passion and drive, and who isn't truly meant for you, can be immensely difficult. Carmen realized that in new relationships, she always felt some underlying doubt, sensing that something wasn't quite right. Nevertheless, she trusted that these individuals were meant to teach her something valuable.
Experiencing a false Twin Flame is not uncommon, as many Twin Flames go through this fast-track journey to eventually reunite with their true Twin Flame.
The Purpose of a False Twin Flame
Carmen understood that she had to invest fully in these relationships to determine if they were genuinely meant for her. Ultimately, she felt grateful for the lessons each person taught her. These experiences were merely reflections of what she would share with her true Twin Flame and the things she desired to experience with them. Many Twin Flames are presently healing through this pattern to transcend the third-party karmic situation permanently, and you can do the same. Although it may seem challenging, moving through it will bring immense gratitude.
What Happens as You Heal the Pattern
If you haven't yet transcended the pattern, there is more healing to be done. But there's no need to blame yourself, your Divine Masculine, or the situation. View it as a mirror and move through it one step at a time – you will reach your destination, we assure you.
The Divine Masculine is also undergoing these lessons, and it's no easy task. He feels stagnant as if life has come to a standstill. Yet, he is destined to thrive and lead a joyous life with his perfect partner, fulfilling his Life Purpose in every aspect of life.
Your man might fear confronting his feelings alone, but as you heal together through the Mirror Exercise, he can attain a new level of awareness because you heal as One. This newfound awareness will open him up to fresh insights. Deep down, he knows that the current partner is not his true match, but there are lessons he must learn.
Both you and your Divine Masculine must move through the emotions and experiences that arise. Whatever it brings up for you regarding his presence with another partner, and whatever fears he experiences being with someone who is not truly meant for him, both sides must confront and heal.
Do I Have to Wait for My Twin Flame to Heal?
Rest assured, you don't have to wait for your Divine Masculine to change, heal, or reach this awareness. Find this awareness within yourself through your healing journey. Embrace the opportunity to heal everything that this situation brings forth. See it as a chance to grow and motivate yourself to move beyond the belief in this third-party karmic situation. As you heal, you can claim your Union with your true Twin Flame.
Big changes will manifest in your reality, and you will eventually be reunited with your true Twin Flame, healing the pattern permanently. The fears mentioned here are within you, whether you believe it or not. You can inquire within yourself about what your man is receiving from the other partner – is it comfort, the illusion of love, or the assurance that he is good enough?
These aspects are areas you must heal within yourself. Learn to give yourself safety, protection, nurture, and care internally through the Mirror Exercise.
One thing is certain – your Twin Flame loves you above all others. Your Divine Masculine loves you and shows you where he hasn't yet learned to love himself, and perhaps the same applies to you.
Eventually, the third-party karmic relationships will come to an end once the pattern is completely healed. Embrace this opportunity for your healing, seeing the lesson as a mirror and nothing more, and it will dissolve like dust.
We believe in your ability to overcome this challenge.
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