TWIN FLAME HEALING: UNDERSTANDING THE PROCESS

 

When you discover your twin flame, it's a thrilling experience! Not everyone is fortunate enough to find someone who resembles them so closely.

But what occurs when your twin flame suddenly stops communicating with you and fails to initiate contact?

Similar to all aspects of a twin flame connection, the pain resulting from this disconnection is profound.

If you're wondering what steps to take in such a situation, continue reading! In this article, we will discuss seven actions you can take when your twin flame never initiates contact.

Inquire about their emotions

Communication is crucial, especially in a twin-flame connection. When you find your twin flame, a natural and effortless synchronization of your souls takes place. Consequently, it is easy to assume that extensive communication is unnecessary.

However, if you truly want to maximize the potential of your connection, it is important to learn how to express yourself and ask the right questions so your partner can do the same.

This is a primary reason why your twin flame may not be initiating contact—they might struggle to articulate their true feelings. It is possible that you are not engaging in as much conversation as you should. Your shared understanding has made you so comfortable that many things are left unspoken.

Therefore, before you become overwhelmed by the lack of contact with your twin flame, reach out to them first. Ask about their well-being, and emotions, and how you can be of assistance.

Familiarize yourself with twin flame push-pull dynamics

Some people find their twin flames and stop there, without delving into the intricacies, do's and don'ts, or best practices of this unique love connection.

If you are unaware, twin flame relationships often involve a natural push-pull dynamic. This phenomenon occurs between two individuals whose souls mirror each other.

The push and pull arise from the desire of each person to maintain their individuality, which is a healthy concept.

However, without understanding this dynamic, it can be confusing and may even lead some to perceive it as toxic or incompatible with their twin flame.

In reality, when one person withdraws, the other tries to bridge the emotional gap by pushing closer. This is understandable because the absence of that connection can be painful when you are not accustomed to it.

The push-pull dynamics manifest throughout the twin flame connection and may be the reason your partner has not initiated contact.

Why, you may ask? When you see yourself in another person, it is effortless to become codependent.

We want to avoid that.

The push-pull dynamics enable twin flames to establish boundaries while still savoring the rare connection.

Provide support by allowing them space

When we encounter our twin flame, the inclination is to spend all our time with them. It seems logical, right? When you meet someone who understands you spiritually, wouldn't you want to spend as much time together as possible?

But here's the thing: Your twin flame should still maintain their individuality.

As someone who comprehends your partner on this deep level, shouldn't you be sensitive to their needs, even if it means they require more alone time than you?

Moreover, in your connection, you might be the one who often takes on the role of initiator. It's not that your partner doesn't want to talk or spend time with you; they might simply feel that you are better at initiating things than they are.

Assess if they are mirroring your actions

Remember: A little self-reflection goes a long way.

Twin flames share an extraordinary kind of soul connection. They mirror each other in many aspects, either parallel or complementary, like yin and yang.

The point is: You reflect each other's behaviors and personalities so accurately that it is easy to overlook them.

Ask yourself: Are you also taking the initiative to contact your twin flame?

Although it is an unspoken understanding between you, sometimes a little give-and-take is necessary.

Perhaps both of you are mirroring the assumption that initiating contact is not as essential as you believe. As a result, neither of you feels fulfilled because you are both waiting for the other person to make the first move. It's like two magnets with the same polarity trying to connect.

Rediscover the concept of intimacy

Why is love so challenging? It becomes even more complicated when you're in a twin-flame relationship.

Why can't it be as straightforward as we imagined or at least make some sense?

When your twin flame never initiates contact, it's easy to feel frustrated and helpless. You may even be tempted to give up on love altogether.

Instead, I suggest trying something different.

I learned a valuable lesson from renowned shaman Rudá Iandê, who taught me that finding love and intimacy doesn't follow the cultural conditioning we've received.

Many of us sabotage ourselves and deceive ourselves for years, hindering our chances of meeting a partner who can truly fulfill us.

As Rudá explains in an eye-opening video, many of us pursue love in toxic ways that ultimately harm us. We end up stuck in unhealthy relationships or empty encounters, never finding what we truly desire, and constantly feeling disappointed when our twin flame doesn't initiate contact.

We often fall in love with an idealized version of someone rather than accepting them for who they truly are. We attempt to fix our partners, which only leads to relationship breakdowns. We search for someone to "complete" us, only to end up feeling even worse when things fall apart.

Rudá's teachings provided me with a fresh perspective. As I watched, I felt understood in my struggles to find and nurture a love for the first time. Finally, I discovered a practical solution that could encourage my twin flame to initiate contact more often or at least help me understand their perspective.

If you're tired of unsatisfying dating experiences, empty encounters, and dashed hopes, I urge you to listen to this message. I guarantee you won't be disappointed.

Offer support and understanding

Even in a twin flame relationship, it can be challenging to be completely vulnerable.

You might assume that things would be easier, but in reality, they can be more complicated.

Some individuals are not comfortable with opening up about themselves, and that might be why your twin flame doesn't initiate contact. They may fear that with your intense connection, opening up will be equally intense, and that level of vulnerability can be overwhelming.

So, when you notice your twin flame having difficulty initiating contact through touch, conversation, or spending time together, let them know, "I'm here."

Sometimes, all someone needs is a gentle reminder to lower their guard, even if only a little.

Be patient with your twin flame in this regard. They are likely still trying to navigate the boundaries of their comfort zone. But when they do open up, be ready to offer a shoulder to lean on, an ear to listen, or a helping hand in any way they may need.

Prepare for the twin flame chase

So, your twin flame rarely initiates contact. You understand that not everyone is comfortable taking that role.

However, recently, you've noticed an increase in their aloofness and distance.

You may find yourself asking, "What's going on?"

If this is happening to you, brace yourself. You and your twin flame might be entering a painful yet crucial phase in your relationship known as The Chase.

Your twin flame may have assumed the role of the "runner" in your dynamic. This marks a period of reduced contact between the two of you, and they may even avoid seeing you altogether.

But don't worry; this isn't the end of your connection. It's merely a necessary phase in which they try to maintain their independence within the relationship. They might feel overwhelmed and choose to run away, which can be difficult for you to resist, especially when all you want is to be with them.

Stay strong and courageous because, eventually, they will come back. I'm completely certain of it.

For now, you have to endure the challenges and hardships of this phase, which can be likened to the winter of your soul.

Keeping your twin flame engaged

I understand that these points may seem overwhelming, but they are insignificant compared to the ultimate satisfaction you'll experience when your souls finally unite.

In the meantime, do your best to keep your twin flame engaged.

Continue initiating contact even when they don't. Express your feelings about their lack of outreach. Explore ways to make them feel more comfortable.

No matter what challenges you face or discussions you have, trust that everything will fall into place.

After all, when you share a connection crafted by your very own souls, the pieces always come together.