TWIN FLAME HEALING: UNDERSTANDING THE PROCESS

 

Due to the complexity and intensity of the twin flame journey, twins undergo numerous phases, some of which are extremely painful and frustrating, leading to triggering moments. These phases may be perceived by your ego as a failure in achieving twin flame union, creating feelings of inadequacy. It is important to recognize that the process of attaining the twin flame union is demanding and challenging, and it should not be regarded as a small feat. There is no such thing as failure; rather, it signifies a long journey toward the union phase. The pressure and self-sabotaging thoughts can dissipate by distinguishing between separation and failure. Twin flames can never fall out of love, as their bond is sacred and unbreakable, characterized by unconditional and high-frequency love. The limitations lie only in your perception of it during your human experience. Once you transcend binary thinking and prioritize achieving the frequency of twin flame union within yourself, you will have made significant progress toward the divine flame union phase.

Differentiating Separation and Failure

The twin flame journey consists of two types of phases: an active phase and a stand-by phase. During the active phase, both twin flames progress in their ascension, working to elevate their vibrations and harmonize energetically, thereby moving closer to the union frequency. However, progress can be interrupted temporarily for various reasons across one or more human experiences. This stand-by phase may involve one twin consciously halting their progress, known as the runner, although I prefer to refer to them as the "avoider" during this phase. The runner and chaser dynamic implies that the other twin could pursue the runner, but in reality, they cannot do the inner work for their twin, regardless of their desires.

The Meaning of Failure

During the stand-by phase when the runner or avoider is seemingly stagnant, the other twin may interpret it as a failure in their twin flame journey. Much of this sense of failure arises from the ego and shadow side, reflecting a pattern of self-sabotage acquired through human experiences and karma. This pattern will be shed as part of the ascension process. The perception of failure stems from the 3D self, which defines success based on the limited perspective of the 3D realm. As you ascend and work on yourself, you come to realize that you are a sovereign being of higher dimensions having a human experience. You are defined solely by the divine nature of your soul, making you beautiful and miraculous. Failing in your twin flame journey is simply a delay from the standpoint of your human experience.

Can Twin Flames Lose Love?

Not! The twin flame soul bond is sacred and indestructible, incapable of being broken or dissolved. It may experience challenges and hardships through karmic cycles in human experiences, but its core remains unbreakable. The foundation of your bond is an unconditional love that operates frequently, making it unbreakable.

What may appear to have ended is the 3D version of the bond experienced in the human realm, especially if one or both twins have not progressed significantly on their paths to ascension. There may be periods where one or both twins feel they are no longer in love with each other. However, seasons will come when they become more aware of their true bond of unconditional love, triggering a deeper awakening and a more profound understanding of their energetic reality. During these seasons, you will realize that you are more deeply in love with your twin than ever in your human experience.

Instead of falling out of love, a more accurate description of the situation in separation is that you have moved away from the 3D perception of love for a certain period, rather than completely losing love.

Avoiding Failure

Human thinking operates within a binary structure, defining things as right or wrong, good or bad, limited by our conditioning in the human experience. However, when you integrate your own masculine and feminine principles and achieve inner union through the extensive work you have undertaken, your perception expands beyond the limited 3D perspective of human experience. Ascension, in essence, is your ability to perceive, understand, and resonate with a broader range of frequencies beyond the 3D realm.

Once you reach this level of development, you will realize that there is no such thing as failing in your divine mission, which includes the pursuit of union. It merely denotes varying speeds of progress from the standpoint of human experience. However, what is the time from the perspective of other dimensions and frequencies? A human lifetime can be a mere fraction of a second in higher dimensions.

You cannot fail in this process, blessed and divine soul. You are simply progressing slowly from the viewpoint of human experience.

In essence, if you find yourself believing that you have failed as a twin flame, it is your ego manifesting self-sabotaging patterns that have been influenced by your past experiences and karma in the human realm.

However, your divine essence unequivocally recognizes that you are a blessed and extraordinary soul. Failure is inconceivable from a higher-dimensional perspective.

From a 3D standpoint, you may be progressing at a slower or faster pace, but you are far more intricate than what the 3D viewpoint implies. Your journey encompasses intricate nuances that surpass the limitations of the 3D perspective we might temporarily adopt along the way.

Do not underestimate your worth or accomplishments simply because the process appears lengthier within the framework of human experience. Stay committed to your inner work and continue to radiate, for you are a magnificent and divinely blessed soul!