TWIN FLAME HEALING: UNDERSTANDING THE PROCESS

 

"Is it advisable to reach out to my twin flame?"

Perhaps you have encountered your twin flame, but circumstances have led to a separation that has left you feeling miserable. The pain is intense, and you yearn for their presence, even if it's just the sound of their voice. You desperately want to text or call them, but should you? It can be tempting to reach out if your twin flame has distanced themselves from you, but it's crucial to consider your mental and emotional well-being during this process. There are specific situations in which I strongly advise against contacting your twin flame, as doing so may yield undesirable results. So, what are these circumstances when you should refrain from contacting your twin flame? Let's delve into them.

The question of whether or not to contact your twin flame is a difficult one, especially when every fiber of your being craves its energy. While I don't entirely discourage reaching out, I believe in vulnerability and expressing one's feelings. Love should always take precedence over ego and pride. However, there are certain scenarios where I highly recommend refraining from contacting your twin flame.

As a general guideline, you should never contact your twin flame when your fear of losing them, feelings of jealousy, or desire for their love drive your actions. These situations all stem from a place of insecurity or lack. You may wonder, "But how does this relate to my twin flame relationship?" It is directly connected to your twin flame dynamic, and we will explore this further. Should you contact your twin flame?

The concept of twin flames may be unfamiliar to some, but it has existed for centuries. Having a twin flame means finding someone who reflects your soul and matches your vibration—a rare and unique connection that transcends a typical soulmate relationship. However, what if you haven't seen or spoken to your twin flame in a while? Should you reach out to them?

The separation of twin flames is a necessary stage in their journey. It arises from emotional and spiritual immaturity, the need for personal growth, and a lack of self-love. Twin flame separation can be immensely painful, and the uncertainty can cause great frustration. However, this distance is crucial for both individuals to mature and eventually reunite more healthily. It forms an essential part of the journey, leading to a more harmonious, purposeful, and blissful life together. Understanding the underlying causes of this disconnection can help you let go and restore your trust in the universe. I have written an article on the three major causes of twin flame separation that may provide further insight.

During the running and chasing stage, one or both twins may retreat due to feeling overwhelmed or intimidated by the intensity of the relationship. This "running" can manifest as avoiding the twin, ending the relationship, seeking solace in others, or turning to substances. The duration of this stage varies, potentially lasting years depending on individual spiritual growth. The length depends on the amount of personal development each twin has undergone. If you wish to expedite this stage, there are effective methods available for reuniting with your twin flame, outlined in the twin flame reunion fast-track program.

The pain of separation can be excruciatingly intense, leaving you feeling shocked, hurt, and bewildered. It is not uncommon to experience physical symptoms or telepathic connections with your twin flame during this period. Chest tightness, stomach aches, and sensations in the solar plexus region have been reported, alongside frequent dreams involving the twin. Given the immense difficulty, I understand the strong urge to contact your twin flame. If you're interested, I have an article on how to cope with the pain of separation that you might find helpful.

There is nothing inherently wrong with contacting your twin flame and expressing your longing for them, as long as your intentions are genuine and not rooted in a sense of lack or fear. What does this mean? If you are content with your life, experiencing gratitude or acceptance, then go ahead and reach out via text or call. However, if you find yourself in a low emotional state characterized by guilt, shame, or fear, it's advisable to set aside your phone. Now, let's return to the question, "Should I contact my twin flame?" Here are three situations in which you should never contact them.

The first situation in which I advise against contacting your twin flame is when you are afraid of losing them. This fear stems from a sense of lack, and when you're in this mindset, your twin flame can sense your desperation, regardless of the physical distance between you. This energy of desperation will not benefit you or bring you closer together; instead, it will repel them. Remember that your vibrational frequency attracts things into your life, and fear is a low vibrational frequency that hinders positive outcomes.

If you are not afraid of losing them and trust the universe, you are in a state of acceptance, contentment, or gratitude. In this higher vibrational state, you can shorten the twin flame separation stage and allow the universe to facilitate your reunion.

Another situation in which you should avoid contacting your twin flame is when you are coming from a place of jealousy. If you find yourself feeling jealous, whether it's due to your involvement with someone else or their interactions with others, it signifies insecurity within yourself. Jealousy is ego-driven and fear-based, resulting in low vibrations. By expressing jealousy, you communicate to the universe that your relationship is not secure and that you don't feel good enough. Your twin flame can pick up on these low vibrations, causing them to pull back temporarily.

The third scenario in which I recommend refraining from contacting your twin flame is when you intend to make them love you. Love is an internal journey, and there are lessons and growth that you need to experience before your twin flame can return to your life. Prioritizing self-love is crucial because when you love yourself, you attract love from others. If your intention is rooted in a plea for their love, it is unlikely to yield positive results. Remember that, on a higher level, you and your twin flame are eternal partners, and your twin flame genuinely loves you.

Deciding whether or not to contact your twin flame is not a straightforward answer and depends on various factors. Consider the reason for not contacting them, your intentions, their current situation, your emotional state, and your readiness to accept the outcome. Ultimately, you must listen to your inner voice and make a decision that aligns with your values and beliefs. Twin flame connections require care and nurturing, so whatever you choose, ensure it is for the highest good of all involved.