No relationship is flawless, not even a twin flame relationship. Twin flame relationships can often be accompanied by a significant amount of drama, and there is a reason for this.
At the beginning of a twin flame relationship, both partners are typically in an immature state. They consistently work on themselves, putting in a constant effort to make the twin flame relationship succeed.
One of the reasons for the dramatic nature of twin flame relationships is that during times of emotional immaturity, it is easy for us to assume the victim role. We may take the relationship for granted, and when things don't go as we expected, we quickly feel hurt.
Are you engaging in the same behavior? Are you blaming your twin flame for some wrongdoing? If you honestly examine this feeling, you will likely discover that you are attempting to fill a void within yourself.
Let's assume your partner is at fault. Take an honest look at yourself and ask: Can I continue a twin flame relationship with them? No – it's better to focus on personal growth. You must be prepared for such an intense relationship.
It's time to heal. Sometimes, we sacrifice our peace and clarity to prolong a relationship. However, instead of delaying it, we should be completely honest with ourselves.
Consider the situation without the twin flame label attached. If this person were not your twin flame and they were still involved with others and disregarding your needs, would you want to be with them? Look within and identify what is causing you so much pain.
Remember that in a twin flame relationship, you should not experience excessive pain because it should be a safe space. Your twin flame partner is deeply connected to you and would not intentionally hurt you.
Sometimes, the pain may stem from within, and it can be extremely overwhelming to deal with. It's okay to feel a crushing sensation, but it's important to start addressing it.
When you are truly honest, you may realize that twin flame behavior has nothing to do with you or your partner. Twin flame relationships can be frightening, and this fear can create problems within the relationship.
Understand that if your twin flame is genuine, they will not manipulate you or issue ultimatums. Manipulation is not acceptable, and everything should occur on mutual terms.
However, if there is a problem or drama, it is not fair to place all the blame on the other person. The more you do so, the worse the situation will become. Your partner may withdraw and never return. You would be the one destroying the twin flame connection.
Twin flames are not meant to fix you, nor do they owe you anything. If you are experiencing internal issues, it is your responsibility to work on them.
They are likely experiencing similar anxieties and pain as you are. That's how deeply connected twin flames are. But they aren't pointing fingers at you, are they?
Twin flame relationships are centered around self-care and the growth of your soul. There will be internal turmoil, but it can be addressed together.
Yes, there will be a lot of drama, but it is crucial not to create an imbalance of energy by placing blame on others. Even amid the drama, there should be mutual respect and eternal love for one another.
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