Understanding the thoughts of the twin flame runner can be challenging, even under the best circumstances. I can personally attest to this, having experienced it myself. It can be incredibly frustrating, causing you to feel the urge to express your frustration or anger towards the universe or, on occasion, even your twin flame who is running from the connection.
When you feel such a powerful bond, it becomes difficult to comprehend why they don't experience it in the same way as you do.
So, what exactly goes through the minds of twin flame runners, and why don't they perceive things the way you do?
First and foremost, it is crucial to understand that the twin flame runner doesn't intend to inflict harm upon you. The phase of separation brings emotional, spiritual, and sometimes even physical pain, but there is no deliberate malice involved. The runner is simply acting in self-defense. In my journey as a former twin flame runner, there was a time when my thoughts and actions seemed perfectly reasonable to me.
Learning from our 3D relationships does not adequately prepare us for the profound connection that arises when encountering our true mirror soul.
In every twin flame relationship, there is an inevitable stage of separation that awaits, regardless of how harmonious things may seem initially. Regrettably, this separation is a fundamental part of the journey for most of us. Although it brings pain, it also facilitates union and provides an opportunity for profound healing, ensuring our readiness for that extraordinary connection. Numerous factors contribute to the commencement of this separation phase, and the twin flame runner's thoughts during this period can vary.
Why do Twin Flame Runners Run?
Feeling Overwhelmed
The love shared between twin flames is unparalleled, transcending any other bond in the world. However, this unique connection can also be overwhelming for both partners, as it is an entirely new experience. Adjusting to this level of intensity can be challenging initially, and some individuals may struggle to cope. Consequently, running away from the relationship becomes a coping mechanism for those who find it challenging to navigate the early stages.
Fear of Change
It is natural for individuals to possess a certain degree of apprehension towards change, even the most adventurous among us who value stability in certain aspects of life. The twin flame journey has a propensity for bringing about substantial and transformative changes—changes that can be life-altering. The entire trip can feel like attempting to navigate an earthquake while hopping on a pogo stick. For those who resist or fear change, witnessing such abrupt and profound transformations can trigger a desire to distance themselves from the relationship. The fear of losing their established sense of stability becomes a driving force.
Fear of Losing the Other Person
Another factor contributing to the runner's behavior is the fear of losing their twin flame partner. Given the exceptional and unparalleled nature of the bond shared between twin flames, insecurities are more likely to arise. The love experienced in a twin flame relationship is profound and goes beyond any other connection. However, this intensity can sometimes lead individuals to contemplate what their lives would be like without their partners. This fear of loss can prompt someone to take preemptive actions, either by giving their all to the relationship or by attempting to end it before it's too late. This fear-driven response is often exhibited by the runner, who is afraid to fully commit and become attached.
Desire to 'Figure Things Out
This is a commonly expressed sentiment in twin flame stories, and I have personally heard it from many chasers. It often serves as a cover or explanation, both for the runner and for their partner. Some individuals feel the need to figure things out in their life before diving into a deep relationship. However, when it comes to a twin flame connection, everything unfolds at an accelerated pace, leaving little room for contemplation. This rapid progression can also be unsettling for the runner. In such cases, the runner wants to be in a relationship with their other half but desires time to sort out certain aspects before moving forward. They believe they will return once they have found the clarity they seek. Regardless of the specific reason, it is undoubtedly challenging for the chaser, who experiences insecurities during the separation phase. However, the silver lining is that both partners will eventually reunite.
Remember: The Twin Flame Runner is Also Uncertain
At times, attempting to explain the complexities of twin flame journeys may prove unhelpful, as the honest answer is often "nobody knows." During this phase, the twin flame runner is likely deceiving themselves, as they are rarely able to fully understand their feelings. There are instances where even the runner is uncertain about the reason for their actions, resulting in hardship for both the runner and the chaser. The runner may feel compelled to distance themselves without comprehending the underlying cause, experiencing an inexplicable
Signs of the Twin Flame Runner's Return
When it becomes challenging to comprehend the actions and motivations of the twin flame runner, sometimes all we can hope for are signs that their behavior is nearing its end and that they are regaining their clarity.
One of the most effective approaches is to deepen our understanding of the twin flame journey itself. The more we grasp the intricacies of this journey, the more we will be able to discern significant indicators.
One common characteristic is the emergence of signs and patterns that become increasingly noticeable. Frequently encountered numbers like 111 and 222 are the more obvious ones that are often discussed (although this has been extensively covered). Additionally, you may experience heightened instances of twin flame telepathy. While this phenomenon can occur at any stage of the journey, the more frequently you encounter it, the closer the runner is to progress through that particular stage. It is precisely for this reason that I offer twin flame tarot readings. Since each journey is unique, I cannot provide you with an exact understanding of what the runner twin flame is thinking. However, I can assist you in comprehending their mindset.
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