Doubt plays a significant role in the journey of twin flames, which is completely understandable and normal. The act of questioning the authenticity of twin flames is an integral part of the journey itself.
Before encountering your true flame, you might find yourself pondering this question. Doubt is a common human response during the challenging phase of separation. Even when you are nearing the end of your journey and approaching union, it is not uncommon to experience doubt. We have explored this topic in greater depth when discussing the various stages of twin flames, but I fully empathize with your uncertainty.
I won't attempt to persuade you otherwise. Instead, I would like to briefly share my personal story.
My Own Experience of Doubt
To be honest, I used to be skeptical.
As a writer for one of the largest twin flame websites, I would not have believed any of it if someone had tried to explain it to me. It wasn't until I experienced the intense soul shock upon meeting my twin flame that everything changed. It completely transformed my life for the better.
Even after that initial encounter during the running/chasing phase, doubts started to resurface. However, these doubts are beneficial and an inherent part of the journey. If you allow the journey to continue for too long with a false twin flame, it can lead to wasted time and emotional distress. It is crucial to be certain and stay on the right track.
During this phase, I hadn't even heard of the term "twin flame." I had no understanding of what was happening or why I felt the way I did. Looking back, it all makes sense now, but I can fully comprehend why someone would question it.
I have always been cynical about relationships in general, approaching them in a very matter-of-fact manner. One moment you can be happy with someone, and the next you're done with them. That's just how life is.
But then there's the connection of a twin flame. I will never attempt to convince someone to believe as I do. What I will say is that when you encounter your true twin flame, you will understand.
Fake or False Twin Flames
If you are aware of being on your journey and understand this type of connection, your questioning may not revolve around the concept of twin flames as a whole. In fact, for some individuals who have experienced soul shock, it is easy to forget how initially doubtful they were.
What is quite common is questioning not the existence of twin flames, but rather whether you are currently with your true twin flame. Unfortunately, this happens all too often, particularly when we mistake a connection, such as a kindred spirit, for a soulmate. You may believe you have found "the one," but things can quickly turn unpleasant. Encountering a false flame is relatively normal, but it should not be disregarded. Not only does it cause emotional, spiritual, and sometimes physical pain, but it also hinders your spiritual enlightenment with your true twin flame.
Questioning and doubt are completely natural and expected. They are part of the journey and should be embraced.
When I conduct a twin flame reading with someone who is nearing the end of their separation phase or before meeting their flame, doubt almost always arises. There are doubts about being with the right person or doubts about ever meeting them at all.
This is normal.
In many ways, it is beneficial that you are questioning these aspects. It will propel you further along the right path.
Misunderstandings Regarding Twin Flames
One of the most common misconceptions I frequently come across is the confusion between twin flames and soulmates or kindred spirits. Mixing them up can be counterproductive and lead to unnecessary encounters with false flames on your journey.
I have previously discussed the distinction between twin flames and soulmates, but here are the key points:
A kindred spirit is someone you resonate with, and there may be an immediate connection where you get along well as friends. While a romantic relationship is possible, it often turns sour quickly, and they are not your true flame. It's important to recognize this type of connection because they can make great friends, but neither of you will benefit from a romantic relationship.
A soulmate is someone with whom you form a deep and meaningful connection right away. This connection may or may not be romantic. It's entirely possible to meet both your soulmate and your twin flame in the same lifetime, although this is extremely rare. Soulmates play a role in your spiritual development and should be cherished, but they cannot replace your mirror soul.
A twin flame is essentially your other half. You are two parts of the same whole. This connection is unparalleled, and when you experience it, you truly feel it. You will mutually strengthen, inspire, and positively transform each other in ways you never thought possible. Nothing else comes close to this level of connection.
Evidence of Twin Flames
Most of us have an intuitive knowing when it comes to our twin flame, even if we are not consciously aware of it. Unless we actively resist the idea, it's something we just know.
I cannot present a scientific study to prove this. Like anything intangible, much of this is open to debate, and I could provide countless anecdotes that might not hold meaning for you. And that's perfectly fine.
The Debate Surrounding Twin Flames
This is the internet, and as the saying goes, everyone has an opinion.
The notion of "proving" or "disproving" the existence of twin flames is akin to the age-old argument about the existence of God. It's a discussion that has been ongoing for centuries and does not lead us anywhere. It's worth mentioning that twin flames are mentioned in several religions.
Infatuation vs. Genuine Twin Flame Connection
Like any human being, I have experienced infatuation or a crush on someone. I have felt lust and struggled to get that person out of my mind when we're apart. But what sets apart a real twin flame connection from mere infatuation? Is there even a difference?
This viewpoint does present a compelling argument that some individuals convince themselves of a twin flame connection that doesn't truly exist. I firmly believe that this can happen to certain people.
These individuals become overly fixated on the idea of being twin flames without truly awakening to it. They tend to be insecure and often seek answers from external sources rather than relying on their inner wisdom. They become absorbed in reading everything they can, participating in group discussions, and engaging in debates. They ask mundane questions on platforms like Quora, such as "I feel I have a twin flame. What should I do?" or "My twin flame is dating someone else. What should I do?" or "I met this boy a month ago, and I think we have a connection. Could he be my twin flame?"
These individuals are trying to somehow relate to the concept of twin flames without truly understanding it. For them, spoon-feeding is preferable to seeking answers on their own and making an effort to introspect. (Eventually, many of these people may discard the concept of twin flames, claiming it was just a passing trend, and move on. The number of people falling into this category will be larger than the number
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