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How to Forget Your Twin Flame (and Why It Helps)

 


Let us inform you about an effective method to temporarily set aside thoughts of your twin flame and explain why it can benefit your journey towards union with your twin.


Taking a temporary break from focusing on your twin flame will aid you in navigating the separation phase by allowing both of you to engage in personal growth and development. Consequently, this will facilitate progress towards the next stage of your journey towards union.


Why would you consider forgetting about your twin flame? If you find yourself contemplating this idea (or if your twin flame does), it indicates that you are currently experiencing one of the most challenging phases of your twin flame journey: the dreaded separation phase as defined by your soul contract.


The primary reason for wanting to "forget" about your twin flame is that one of you is facing personal growth and development challenges, possibly in a state of denial, overwhelmed, or rejecting the twin flame relationship. This temporary pause in the twin flame journey does not imply its conclusion.


Both twins will need to confront the consequences of putting the twin flame relationship on hold. While twin flame runners are the ones initiating this pause, they too endure their fair share of difficult moments.


The average person may struggle to truly grasp the painful and challenging situations that twin flames experience during this crucial phase of their profound connection.


Conventional relationship advice, based on 3D perspectives, suggests that once a relationship ends, you should simply move on and forget about it. However, this advice does not apply to the unique dynamics of a twin flame situation. Well-intentioned friends who are not part of your soul family might not be equipped to understand the depth of your connection.


Despite their good intentions, they often lack awareness of what you are truly grappling with. Furthermore, when you attempt to explain it to them, they may struggle to comprehend, accept, and offer appropriate advice.


Is it possible to forget about your twin flame?


You may frequently encounter the advice of "just forgetting about them!" However, the harsh reality you and your twin will eventually understand during the separation phase is that you can never truly forget or "get over" your twin flame.


Regardless of how much you may desire or attempt to do so, it is impossible to forget a part of your soul and energy field, just as you cannot choose to forget a physical part of your body. You may choose to ignore it for a while, perhaps, but it remains an inseparable part of you, no matter how hard you try.


Can you sever the energetic cord between twin flames?


To be even more direct, while your physical body can function without certain parts, your energy field lacks the option to sever the attachment cord between you and your twin.


Some questionable spiritual practitioners may claim that you can cut this energy cord and even offer services for that purpose. However, as an energy healer who is aware of the dynamics of twin flames, I can assure you that cutting this energy cord is impossible. Any attempt to do so will only inflict deep core wounds on both of your energies, trigger negative emotions, generate dark energies that haunt you both, and exacerbate attachment and trust issues.


Working against the energy cord only works against yourself and your sacred life purpose. It has never contributed to any positive outcomes.


If you feel overwhelmed by your journey, consider putting it on hold and focusing on healing and shadow work. During each human experience, you possess the freedom to make this choice. By doing so, your bond will progress towards harmonizing your energies and propelling you toward a more profound union.


Breakable Bonds


The only bonds you can break are those that are optional, connecting souls through genuine relationships with intense real-world emotions. However, your twin flame connection is not optional. The possibility of achieving divine union during each human experience is optional, indeed. Nevertheless, the cord remains an integral part of both your




Why Releasing Your Twin Flame is Beneficial

If forgetting your twin flame is not possible, what can you do instead? You can release your twin flame relationship, and surprisingly, it can aid your twin flame journey, despite sounding counter-intuitive.


What Does Releasing Mean?

Releasing your twin flame does not imply completely disregarding the concept of twin flames and ignoring the bond between you. Although, in a technical sense, that might achieve a similar outcome.


As twin souls, the deep connection you share at a soul level involves a spiritual path of growth and development. This growth doesn't necessarily have to occur in sync, but each individual's progress fuels the other's. Releasing means stepping back from striving to accelerate the process and surrendering to your soul's twin code of achieving divine union with the assistance of the Divine and your spiritual team.


When your twin flame runner appears to have closed themselves off, view it as a distress call. Releasing your twin in this situation involves directing all your healing, high-vibrational, unconditional love toward them and allowing the divine to work its magic for both of you.


Whether you release your twin intentionally or unintentionally by attempting to ignore the bond, you contribute to raising the frequency of your connection through the progress each of you makes individually.


Why Releasing Your Twin Flame Helps

By easing off the accelerator in terms of actively seeking or manifesting union, you relieve some of the pressure that may be placed on your soul bond and your twin, especially when they are struggling with their path.


You may not be fully aware of it, but actively striving for union can create pressure on yourself and the process, which may stress you, strain your soul bond, and affect your twin as a result. If your twin is in the runner stage, increased pressure might push them further into avoidance.


The active pursuit of manifesting union can also generate low-frequency emotions within you, such as frustration, irritation, resentment, and negative feelings towards the journey, yourself, and/or your twin. This hinders progress towards the union frequency, rather than keeping it stagnant.


When you surrender to divine timing and focus on your personal growth, you alleviate the pressure on yourself, your soul bond, and your runner twin.


How to Shift Your Focus from Your Twin Flame

Can you truly stop thinking about your twin flame? Well, not entirely, and it's not your fault. The twin flame soul bond doesn't allow you to completely erase thoughts of each other, even if you are the runner in the separation equation.


Shift Your Focus

However, what you can do is consciously choose to redirect your attention towards other things that contribute to achieving a higher frequency and ultimately serve your journey.


In terms of attaining the union frequency, you can focus on your own spiritual growth and progress toward ascension. Union is the natural outcome of both individuals engaging in healing, resolving karma, receiving energy upgrades, and raising their frequencies. By prioritizing your work, you increase your frequency, which, through the soul bond, aids in raising your twin's frequency. This gradual process gently guides your twin towards their healing, karma resolution, and ascension, under the most favorable circumstances for them, at their own pace, and on their terms.


You will intuitively sense and feel when your twin is working through their challenges in the best possible conditions because the soul bond will convey that they are in a much better emotional, mental, and spiritual state (possibly even physical, as your twin's distress can manifest as physical symptoms that you perceive through the bond).


Be patient with yourself and your twin if it feels like progress is slow or at a standstill. Embrace the high-frequency, unconditional love that is the essence of both your souls and you will make progress sooner than you anticipate


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