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8 reasons a twin flame runner reaches out (and how to respond)

 


The bond between twin flames can be simultaneously breathtaking and overwhelming, to the point where one twin flame may become frightened and flee from the relationship. This fleeing behavior leads to one twin being the pursuer and the other the avoider, particularly if the pursuing twin was more invested in the relationship than the avoidant twin. Despite the pursuer's best efforts, the avoidant twin left, resulting in a challenging time referred to as "Twin Flame Separation." However, the avoidant twin has now contacted the pursuer, prompting the pursuer to question the implications and the appropriate response. Let's explore this further.



When a twin flame departs, it can feel like a devastating rejection, especially if the relationship had been troubled for some time. Nonetheless, twin-flame relationships are renowned for being difficult. Despite your best efforts to hold onto the relationship, your twin flame still departed, leaving you heartbroken and uncertain about the future. You tried to contact them repeatedly and begged them to return but to no avail. You may have been left wondering why they left and whether you would ever see them again. Now they've contacted you unexpectedly, but you're not sure why. Although it's tempting to become hopeful, you should be cautious since they may be attempting to determine if you still have feelings for them. You may not even be aware of your feelings because of how deeply you were hurt. However, twin flame separation is not uncommon, and it's likely that you still love them. Proceed slowly and make sure that they are genuinely prepared to commit to you before becoming too invested. While it's essential to be cordial when responding, try not to appear too eager, and observe how they react.




Breaking up with a twin flame can be much more painful than any other kind of breakup, and the separation can leave you feeling distraught. Although some time may have passed, you may still be feeling fragile. However, your twin flame is likely feeling just as hurt as you are, even though they were the ones who ended the relationship. Despite not being ready for the relationship, they still care for you, which is why they're checking in on you to make sure you're doing well. They feel guilty for leaving you and want to ensure that you're not struggling and in need of assistance. It's possible that you're not taking care of yourself properly because you're consumed by your pain. You may not be getting enough sleep or eating well, but your twin flame is aware of this and is concerned about your well-being. This is a positive sign, even if they aren't ready for a reunion yet, as it demonstrates that they care for you and are taking steps in the right direction. It's crucial to assure them that you'll take better care of yourself and express gratitude for their concern.




Twin flame runners flee because they are afraid – afraid of attachment, commitment, and facing themselves. However, as time passes without you, the yearning for your presence intensifies until they can no longer bear to be apart. They realize that the fear of being without you outweighs the fear of being together. It's possible that if your twin flame has been trying to contact you, they have recognized that leaving you was a mistake and they want to reconcile. It can be difficult to communicate with someone who has caused you so much pain, and you might have reservations about their motives. For instance, they may not have returned for sincere reasons but simply because they can’t find an old book and want to know if you have it. If you are hesitant about confronting them, seeking advice from a knowledgeable counselor might be helpful. They can provide you with valuable insight into why your twin flame runner is reaching out to you and whether they are genuinely prepared to return or not, as well as whether or not you can rely on them.




If your twin flame left you due to a misunderstanding or a fight, they may be trying to reach out to apologize and make amends. They intend to ensure that you understand the reason behind their departure. Perhaps they left because they believed you pushed them away, or they were frightened by the intensity of the relationship, or they thought you did not want or need them. Regardless of the reason, they want to apologize and make things right because they recognize that they were mistaken. They have realized that they made an error and wish to rectify it. They hope that you will accept their apology, and they are prepared to do whatever it takes to make up for the pain they caused you. Allow them to make it up to you and regain your trust.




If your twin flame is reaching out to you after leaving you, it's a strong indication that they still have feelings for you. While there are various reasons why twin flame runners may leave, such as fear of commitment or uncertainty about the future of the relationship, if they are reaching out to you despite those fears, it shows how deep their emotions are for you. Even if it's challenging to trust them after being hurt, it's essential to hear them out and listen to your intuition.




Twin flames have a deep sensitivity and feel things very intensely, especially when it comes to love. Leaving you was likely the most difficult decision they have ever made, and they are now realizing the impact of that decision. They are in so much pain without you that they can't function properly, can't focus on work, can't eat or sleep, and have lost interest in anything. They feel completely drained of energy and now realize that leaving was a mistake. You may have suffered a lot, but they feel the same way. It's important to forgive them and consider giving the relationship another chance.




Your twin flame runner may be attempting to reconcile with you because they regret hurting you. This action is a display of their love for you, even if they are not yet prepared to come back. Being in a twin flame relationship can be intimidating due to its significance, causing them to flee and inadvertently harm you. Now they are feeling guilty about the pain they have caused. It is reassuring to know that you will be reunited when the time is right because that is the fate of twin flames. However, how can you be certain that they are your twin flame, and not a false one, and that you are not wasting your time waiting for them? A professional psychic artist can create a sketch of your twin flame's appearance, allowing you to confirm if your partner is, indeed, your twin flame. While this may seem too good to be true, you never know until you try, as I found out for myself when I received a sketch of my fiancé at a party.




The twin flame runner may be reaching out because something has changed and they are finally ready to be reunited with you. Perhaps they needed to learn something about themselves or realize how empty their life was without you. Whatever the reason, they want to come back to you. However, the important question to ask yourself is whether you are ready to take them back. Consider how you feel at the prospect of being reunited with your twin flame. If it's not the right time, it's okay to ask them to wait. Remember, sometimes the runner becomes the chaser and the chaser becomes the runner. Ultimately, do what's best for you, and if you're ready to be reunited, then I wish you all the happiness.




If you’ve been lucky enough to find your twin flame, you know that the connection you share is unlike any other relationship you’ve ever had. But not every twin flame couple ends up living happily ever after. Trust issues, fear of commitment, distance, or other factors can get in the way of the relationship moving forward, causing it to end prematurely. However, there is always a possibility that you and your twin flame will reunite again someday. If your twin flame has recently reached out to you, there may be other signs that indicate a twin flame reunion is on the horizon. One such sign is a strong urge to be with them. You might find yourself thinking about your twin flame often, and when you do, you’ll feel a powerful pull toward them. You may be in the middle of doing something completely unrelated when you suddenly feel the need to see them. If this happens, take it as an opportunity to reconnect by setting up a coffee date and talking things over.




A reunion with your twin flame draws near, you may experience heightened awareness and sensitivity. If your twin flame runner has reached out to you because they're ready to come back, you'll feel a fluttering sensation in your stomach and chest. This sensation is not random, but a sign that your twin's energy is flowing into you, and you're intuitively connecting with them on a higher level, indicating that your twin flame connection is still intact. Additionally, you may feel this sensation in other areas of your body, like your head, back, or arms. When you try to meditate or pray, you'll feel the connection between you and your twin flame. Suddenly, you'll feel the urge to reach out to them, even if you're in the middle of something else. This is the universe's way of indicating that you are meant to reunite with your twin flame, so pay attention to the signs.




Several signs indicate you are on the verge of reuniting with your twin flame. If you're lucky enough to have found your twin flame, you'll know that this is an extraordinary and one-of-a-kind experience. However, not every twin flame relationship ends in a happily ever after. Sometimes, trust issues, fear of commitment, or other obstacles can impede the relationship from progressing, causing it to end early. Fortunately, these people can reunite later on.


One of the initial indications that you're getting closer to your twin flame is a strong urge to be with them. This feeling may come out of the blue, leaving you with a sense of urgency to reconnect. When a twin flame runner reaches out to you, it's a good chance to meet and chat over coffee.


Another common sign is feeling an inexplicable sensation in your stomach or chest. This heightened sensitivity indicates that your twin's energy is flowing into you, which suggests you're connecting with them on a more profound level. Additionally, you might experience this sensation in other parts of your body.


You may feel a strong connection with your twin flame when meditating or praying, prompting you to contact them or visit them, even amid an activity. This is the universe's way of telling you that you are supposed to be reunited with your twin flame.


If you have been having vivid dreams about your twin flame lately, it could be a sign that you're about to be reunited with them. Similarly, if you're drawn to specific scents, places, sounds, or items that remind you of your ex, it's known as synchronicity and means that your twin flame connection hasn't faded away.


Lastly, if you're doing things you used to enjoy with your ex, such as going to certain places, eating specific foods, or watching particular movies, it's a good sign that you're about to reignite your twin flame connection.


If you recognize any of these signs, be confident that you're on the verge of reuniting with your twin flame. While you may be eager to reconnect, remember that it may not go smoothly, as each twin flame relationship has its unique dynamics.

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