Hello there, you are here because you believe that the love of your life is your twin flame, and you may be right. However, you are currently separated from them and unable to confirm your suspicion. This has left you in a constant search for answers, hoping that spending more time with them will alleviate the fears that haunt you. Unfortunately, they seem to be running away while you are chasing after them, leading to confusing separation. As you scour the internet for information, you come across conflicting accounts of twin flames, which only adds to your frustration. This article aims to shed some light on the separation and the dynamic of the runner and chaser. It will provide you with the tools to break free from the exhausting treadmill that is preventing you from finding peace and true love.
The topic at hand is distinguishing between authentic twin flames and those who falsely claim to be one to deceive others. As someone who has observed the evolution of this phenomenon, I will strive to provide some clarity on the matter. The narrative of twin flames has become convoluted online, with a mix of truth and fiction. As a result, many individuals, mostly women, have become fixated on being in a twin flame union. This has led to significant emotional distress, which is heart-wrenching to witness. I often hear phrases such as "Why is he avoiding me?" or "He claims we're going through the twin flame separation stage." These individuals are completely upending their lives in pursuit of their supposed twin flame. Therefore, it is crucial to comprehend the separation phase to understand your specific situation accurately.
Imposter twin flames are becoming increasingly prevalent, with one person claiming separation from the other. Although genuine twin flames may disrupt your life, they would never manipulate you to gain your trust or exploit your emotions and loyalty. On the other hand, a fake twin flame will keep you trapped in a cycle of chasing and confusion. This toxic scam usually ends as abruptly as it begins, leaving the victim heartbroken and shattered. The impersonator uses the twin flame narrative to come and go from your life as they, please. They are skilled at swiftly making you fall in love, creating convenient separation stages to end the relationship or string you along. To begin, let's go over some of the red flags that indicate a problematic situation.
Here is a checklist to identify an imposter twin flame:
They were the ones who introduced you to the concept of twin flames.
They have run away and are currently hiding from you, but occasionally reach out.
You are aware that they are married and insist that you keep your relationship a secret.
You are consumed by thoughts of them and feel a constant, obsessive connection, believing they feel the same.
They string you along, using you for their purposes before pushing you away again and again.
They claim they need time alone to focus on themselves, leaving them feeling rejected.
They heavily rely on the twin flame stages, particularly the separation stage.
If you notice these behaviors, likely, you are not in a genuine twin flame relationship.
Here is a checklist to identify true twin flames:
Genuine twin flames engage in running and chasing behaviors within their physical relationship but never abandon each other.
Once they start living together, true twin flames don't want to be apart and don't separate from each other.
Twin flames have no desire for another relationship and would never use separation as an excuse to avoid being with you.
You can look deep into their soul and see love.
Twin flame souls are aware of their role in helping transport souls to safety when Mother Earth calls for it.
They share a joint spiritual mission with you and would never endanger it.
If you find yourself asking these questions frequently, you are likely in a fake twin flame situation:
Why do I constantly feel out of breath and emotionally on edge with my running shoes on, like I'm running from something or always chasing someone?
Why am I involved with someone who is already in a committed relationship with someone else, making me the other woman/man?
How long am I supposed to wait in silence for them to leave their significant other?
You may be unwittingly caught in a negative loop that has you running around like a headless chicken.
I apologize for the vivid headless chicken analogy, but that is how you may appear to the universe when you allow an ungrateful and undeserving counterpart to sidetrack you.
Twin Flames United in Mission
Genuine twin flames are in a state of union, and it has been over a year since the twin flame mission started. Blue, Violet, and Gold flame souls are naturally aligned to help Mother Earth when called upon.
The Illusion of Twin Flame Separation
The separation between twin flames is not real, but in today's world, it is common for couples to struggle to coexist for various reasons. Only those who are spiritually awakened and advanced enough can be considered flame souls.
However, sometimes even awakened twin flames can be blind to the disharmony and choose to run away, thinking that separation is the best course of action for their spiritual growth. They are not aware of the harm they are causing and fail to comprehend the inevitable cycle of energy.
The runner needs to reach a state of self-realization and understanding to come back to the union and mend what they have broken.
The concept of a twin flame chaser refers to a twin flame who pursues its running counterpart, both in a figurative and literal sense. Typically, the chaser is the more spiritually advanced of the pair, and they desire answers from their twin flame promptly. However, they eventually realize that chasing is not the solution to their problems. The chaser must stop chasing and take the time to gain clarity and address the situation. This action can reverse the dynamic of the twin flame relationship, transforming the chaser into the runner, as if playing a game of tag.
Is Separation Necessary for Twin Flames?
Have you ever experienced a burning sensation from your twin flame that is so intense it feels like you're about to be consumed by flames?
The twin flame runner has. It's a feeling of fear that anyone can relate to, but for twin flames, it's intensified.
It's so overwhelming that they fear for their safety, triggering the fight or flight response and causing them to run away.
Just like how we instinctively know to run when faced with a fire, twin flames react in the same way to the intense energy between them.
Even if it means temporarily separating from each other, like moving to a different room, to avoid being burnt by the intensity of their connection.
Reasons Why Your True Twin Flame May Run Away
Twin flames have a special ability to see through our façades and detect our faults. They have an innate instinct to help us improve and reach our full potential. If you keep repeating a mistake or engaging in harmful behaviors, your twin flame will likely notice and urge you to correct them. They want you to be free from these patterns that can be destructive. Your twin flame knows you just as well as you know yourself, and they appreciate it when you offer them the same level of insight. It can be a valuable gift to receive guidance and suggestions from someone who has your best interests at heart.
However, some people may run away from their twin flame out of fear. The chaser may become too intense and demand accountability or reckoning from their counterpart. The prospect of total exposure and vulnerability can be intimidating, causing some people to flee. This fear of complete transparency can lead to a twin flame running away from the relationship, even if it is temporary.
Why do some individuals deceive others into believing they are their twin flame, only to disappear soon after?
They use language and behavior that captures your attention and prompts your mind to think about them frequently.
However, once they achieve their objective, they must devise a way to exit the situation without leaving behind a trail of chaos or embarrassing incidents.
Online relationships are particularly challenging since it is difficult to know a person well without meeting them in person. This issue is highlighted by the TV show Catfish, which is worth watching if you are an online dater.
Do not allow someone who claims to be emotionally unstable to message you and discuss their problems, as they are probably using it as a pretext.
Such individuals may have never allowed themselves to experience and deal with love and its associated emotions. Even when they reach their forties or beyond, they may not have fallen in love with anyone other than their family and may not be interested in doing so. If they do want to pursue a romantic relationship, their expectations are often so high that they become impossible to meet.
Why Do They Pretend To Be Your Twin Flame Just To Run Away?
This kind of person has a habit of avoiding emotional connections with anyone who doesn't benefit them in some way. They view falling in love as a trap that takes away their freedom. They may like that you love them and care for them deeply, but they'll only offer you small doses of affection when you pressure them for answers about their elusive behavior. They are uncomfortable showing and expressing emotions unless they have to. This type of person is a player, not a true twin flame. They won't display affection for their partner in public for fear of exposing their web of dating secrets and lies. Unfortunately, some of these individuals falsely claim to be twin flames and create the illusion of separation by running and chasing. Recent scientific research shows that continuously thinking about someone will eventually lead to falling in love with them, and these individuals take advantage of this fact. Don't be deceived; a genuine twin-flame connection has no separation.
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