Breakups are rarely easy, and when you add romance into the equation, it can be tremendously painful.
If you're dating a Libra man, prepare for some serious ups and downs as he attempts to get his life back on track after a breakup.
Yeah, I know. It's a pretty bad combination.
It's hard to foresee exactly what your Libra man will do or say after a breakup, but I do have 10 predictions that may be coming your way.
1) He's going to want to check in on you a ton
Your Libra ex will want to check in with you, which can appear to be a little draining from the start.
He'll want to realize how you're doing, how your day was, assuming there's anything you want, what you were up to the past couple of days, and so forth.
It may feel like he's waiting on everything you might do and each decision and this is valid.
Libra men always wait for the answers throughout everyday life and are careful whenever they make any significant decisions or decisions because they believe that life is too important not to be exhaustive about it all.
When I was dating my ex-Libra boyfriend, for example, he would ask about each little thing and was always thinking about me.
He would message me daily, and even visited my place of business to check up on me from time to time - although I think that was more his way of paying off the "obligation" he feels he owes you for the relationship ending.
When you're going through a breakup with a Libra man, expect him to hang out with you quite as often as possible until the point when you've both healed.
I realize this all appears to be a little overwhelming from the outset, considering his checking in, and fanatically need to realize about everything you might do will appear to be a bit annoying and controlling.
But, in actuality, you can utilize the situation to your advantage because his main avenue for affection is quality time, so all this over communication will mean he'll feel like you're spending more time together.
I'm all for that!
2) He'll want to get back on track at work
Your Libra ex will be pretty freeloaded out during and after a breakup because he cherishes his work and loves his work.
When you're in a relationship with a Libra man, he'll put in all his might to make sure the relationship works and to make it the best it can be.
This might mean he works more hours and puts more time into his career than he usually would impress you.
But when your relationship is having problems, he'll be so focused on fixing it that his career will become secondary for a short period. He'll end up making some major mistakes in his workplace - and this can be pretty bad for him because he might get fired.
Once this relationship has ended, however, he'll become frustrated because he feels like all that hard work was for nothing.
So expect him to get back on track at work because your Libras are workers by nature.
3) He'll feel like you're just using him
I realize that you probably never realized this, but most Libra men are pretty enthusiastic about being utilized by ladies.
They'll be wounded by the fact that they feel like they don't mean a great deal to ladies and so they'll feel like you're just using them after a breakup.
This is especially evident if you've been dating for some time and assuming your relationship has gotten pretty intense.
Your Libra ex will have this "whatever" attitude because he doesn't think that his feelings - or yours - are adequately important to warrant a lot of action from him after the breakup.
So he's going to go straight into this "I'm fine" mentality where you're concerned.
What you should try to understand is that he won't ever really be fine, regardless of the amount he says otherwise.
He'll be a little distant from you after the relationship, especially if he wants you to feel blameworthy about breaking up with him.
4) He'll wonder assuming you're happier without him
Your Libra ex is a romantic at heart and will be too glad to admit otherwise.
So, while you're going to be super happy without him, he's going to question your happiness and wonder assuming you're happier without him.
Sometimes he'll end up thinking that his life is better without him and this is just hard for his inner self to deal with.
He'll question whether you're thinking about him to some degree and if you'd be a little more eager to get back together.
This might try and make him question his value as a man and this will feel a little like a slap in the face because of the time and energy he invested in making sure things worked out between the two of you.
As I mentioned before, Libra men are all about romance, so when your life doesn't fit into his idealistic perspective on it after the breakup, he'll think that something is wrong with it or with you.
This is the reason he'll wonder if you're happier without him because he won't be able to recognize what turned out badly.
It's pretty senseless and childish, but it's valid.
5) He'll attempt to make you jealous
Your Libra ex will want to make you jealous whenever he gets near another woman.
It's a pretty immature thing for him to do, but it's just a common thing that insecure Libras tend to do after a breakup.
For what reason do I say that?
Since his self-image is bruised and he can't sort out for what reason you're happier without him, he'll probably end up trying to find someone else or hurl himself entirely into some new hobby in request to get your attention again - and this usually involves making you jealous.
By making you jealous, he's trying to put a great face on the fact that he has some serious feelings for you - even though you'd rather he continued.
6) He'll make you feel liable because he thinks you're happier without him
Your Libra ex is going to make a good attempt to make you feel blameworthy about breaking up with him.
You're going to think that he's doing this because he's a fair fellow and you ought to attempt to work things out with him again, but that's not why.
In actuality, he's trying to regain some of his pride by making you feel like the bad person in all of this.
He doesn't want anyone else touching you or being near you - especially on the off chance that they might steal your attention from him.
I know that sounds a little crazy, but it's all because he thinks your life is better without him and he wants to test if indeed you're happier without him too.
You should try to understand that Libra men are a little crazy too if by some stroke of good luck just a tad.
Yet again so, just don't take it personally.
They're pretty hard to sort out at times - but I realize that you can't help but want to understand them.
That's your challenge alone to face, so I recommend you stop wasting time trying to figure it all out and just accept him the way he is.
7) He'll want to get back into the dating scene as soon as conceivable
Libra men are social butterflies by nature.
Just when he's starting to get back on track at work and feeling better about existence, your Libra ex will want to get back into the dating scene as soon as he can.
Because they crave human interaction, they appreciate being in relationships and being able to feel like a part of that person's reality.
When this romantic relationship ends, however, your Libra ex will probably return to the dating scene as soon as conceivable to get his "fix".
He'll have to get out of that sadness and loneliness by jumping right back in with some other woman. Your recently single Libra man may try and be willing to date various ladies just so he can find someone who has similar interests or leisure activities.
On the other hand, it's conceivable that your Libra ex will attempt to find another relationship immediately so that he can be back in his comfort zone.
In either case, this dating scene is going to leave him pretty confused because he'll wonder for what reason you're not over him just yet.
Just remember that your Libra ex isn't physically capable of being away from romantic relationships for extremely long - so expect these new relationships to end rapidly.
8) He'll get angry over little things
You probably never realized it, but your Libra cherished you - and he'll be jettisoned about that for a little while after his breakup.
He might get angry over little things, especially after an argument or a battle.
More often than not it's during these heated times that he'll get mad at you for leaving him - or (as I mentioned before) the fact that your life is better without him.
You'll probably feel like you're the one who made him angry in any case, but this is how he deals with being harmed.
So don't take it personally, because it's not your fault that he's feeling this way.
The fact is, Libra men tend to be emotional creatures - and when he's wounded by you breaking up with him, he just can't help but let it show.
9) He will want to be your best friend again
After the initial shock has worn off and Libra man subsides into his new life, he'll probably attempt to transition into the best friend job again.
This is great because you've both been there before.
You realize that Libra men are great listeners, care profoundly about you, and appreciate making you grin and be happy.
It's also easy for them to become friends with someone once they're out of a relationship because they're the most chill sign in the whole zodiac circle.
The "friendship" phase may last from days to months depending on your ex-Libra man's personality, but after a bit of time, he'll probably return to his old best friend's job.
But I finally have some clarity here.
That's okay!
Just remember to not take any of his advice about relationships or non-relationships personally, and talk to him about this assuming that you feel uncomfortable with what he's saying.
He'll be your friend again, but he'll in any case want to be your advisor when it comes to relationships.
Don't forget - Libra men are known as the romantics of the zodiac circle, so even though he might return into friendship mode, he'll in any case have romantic feelings for you during this whole cycle.
Except if he starts dating someone new immediately (he won't), this phase may last all through a large portion of the year.
10) He'll attempt to manipulate you
I realize that this is hard to swallow because your Libra man is so great, but he'll probably attempt to manipulate you in a request to get you back.
It's rare for a Libra man to be so manipulative, but it occurs from time to time after a breakup.
He might say something like, "I'm not going anywhere without you," just so that he can make you feel blameworthy about leaving him.
He'll let you know that he wants the best for you and he's too great of a person for you not to be with him - or some other similar things here and there.
This is all part of the manipulation interaction.
Fortunately, you won't feel bad about breaking up with him this time around. You'll get to partake in your life and go out that way.
In fact, at times like these, you'll out of nowhere feel like you've been able to continue on a lot faster than normal after a breakup.
So I trust that it's clear now why this breakup may take a little while to heal - but don't expect it to be an easy cycle.
Libra men are known for their indecisiveness, so don't expect anything for certain
You'll probably feel pretty frustrated and confused at times, but that's okay because that's all normal.
I realize that this breakup was hard for you in general, but it's also important to mention here that Libra men are known for their indecisiveness too.
That's the reason they often have a hard time deciding on anything - including whether or not they want to stay with their partners.
This indecision is one of the common reasons why I think Libra men tend to break up with their girlfriends.
So don't expect anything for certain when it comes to your Libra ex after he's said a final farewell to you.
You'll know where you want to see things go, but he won't.
This is the reason it's going to be so challenging for both of you at times, but if you stay with it and remember to be patient, things will work themselves out.
In other words, make no rash decisions when it comes to your Libra ex - especially if you're not sure what his intentions are right now.
Assuming he sincerely returns to your life and treats you right - regardless of whether he's just pretending to (as most folks do) - then by all means feel allowed to allow him another opportunity.
Conclusion
I realize that I've been harsh with this whole article so far, but it's all because that's the way Libra men are.
They're emotional creatures who often make mistakes when it comes to relationships and non-relationships. That's what their identity is and that's how they've been made.
I want you to remember that, regardless of how hard this may all be for you, the relationship was not a mistake for either one of you.
You fell head over heels for your Libra ex and he did likewise. And obviously, most relationships will be troublesome in the end.
After figuring out what to expect after breaking up with him, keep yourself calm and firm with your decision.
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